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Real_Trouble -> RE: isolated bdsm (3/11/2008 8:00:31 PM)
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I am intensely private in this regard (and others), for a few reasons.
First, I like to keep my kink between myself and whomever I am playing with, and I tend to be relatively monogamous. There have been exceptions, but they are just that - exceptions, not the rule, and as time passes, they become significantly less frequent.
Second, I have a few social reasons to keep my kink off the radar. I don't want it to have any kind of impact on something such as my work life. Obviously, it shouldn't, but that doesn't mean people are sane and rational. Socrates used to claim he was the most intelligent man in Athens because he knew he was really dumb; people are really dumb (also, I am a person, ergo...). Thus, I don't trust them with things I don't think they can be well behaved about, which is most things.
Third, I'm not a people person. This is not to say I have trouble in social situations, but rather, that I simply do not enjoy the company of most human beings. Therefore, in terms of fun, very rarely does anything that doesn't involve a select group of my friends (or fewer) appeal to me. The thought of being highly involved in any sort of kink community is an anathema.
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