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bamabbwsub -> RE: profiles that are deleted? (3/10/2008 6:33:36 PM)
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I just noticed that his profile "no longer exists" I know that a person can delete their profile and that the site moderators can delete a profile.... But is there a way to tell the difference ?
To my knowledge, there isn't a way to tell the difference between a profile that was deleted by the user and one that was deleted by the mods. Others may know better than me.
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And what things do people do to get their profile deleted by the moderators?
They probably violated one or more of the Terms of Service: http://www.collarchat.com/tos.asp (for Collarchat.com) or http://www.collarme.com/personals/tos.htm (for CollarMe.com)
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Why would people delete their profiles?
There are lots of reasons why someone would choose to delete their own profile...
1 - They are no longer interested in remaining on CM.com. Maybe they got "burned" by someone, got mad, etc.
2 - They are playing games and aren't really who and what they claim to be -- and when someone catches on, they delete their profile and create a new one until it happens again...and again...and again...
3 - Their spouse -- or mother -- found out that they're on this site and they were forced to remove their profile.
4 - They're taking a hiatus from the Internet dating scene and don't want to be bothered with e-mails.
5 - They've found the person of their dreams (maybe it's you!) and don't want to remain on the Internet as an available person.
6 - They don't want to talk to you anymore and are too chickenshit to say so, and it's easier to delete (and recreate) a profile than it is to say, "Hey, I'm just not that into you."
I'm sure there are others that I've failed to mention here. Bottom line, if he's "really into you," then it won't matter that his profile here has been deleted. If he has your YIM, then he can contact you that way. I'm a bit cynical, so I'll predict that he probably won't -- but that's just been my experience. (Nothing personal against you!) I personally wouldn't waste any more time, effort, or electrons on trying to figure out why he has taken down his profile. If he contacts you again, you can and should ask him for his reasons in removing his profile; if he doesn't contact you, or if his reasoning seems fishy, move on to the next one! There are too many players online (on any site, not just this one) to worry about why they do certain things. And there are great people online who are exactly who and what they say they are and don't play silly little games; those are the ones that are worth spending time and effort on.
Best of luck!
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