MissMorrigan
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I also like to be 'prepared' for all eventualities. I don't like being taken by surprise (yeah yeah, you sub types, I can hear you chorusing "Me!" "Me!" "Me!" At the end of the day, I take certain risks with some of my interests - calculated risks and my first priority is safety - for all involved. At the end of the day, I go with my judgement and any decisions I make. It's natural, for people who haven't explored certain things, such as with leech play for instance, to want to find out as much information as possible. Infact, a classic example of NOT doing this can be found in the Health and Safety section of these boards when someone had been instructing another via cam to insert items into their urethra - and then began posting when bleeding occurred and the OP was clueless as to what to do. quote:
ORIGINAL: Aneirin I think what it is with the BDSM scene, we are all conditioned to looking at the risk aspects of things, we risk assess as if it were second nature. Risk assessment is important, but thoughts of it should not override everything else. Basically to cut fallacy, find out the proper gen from reliable and knowledgeable sources, weigh up the risk if there is any and then move forward if you still desire to do the thing in question. Just don't get bogged down in the ifs the buts and superior knowledge of others unless they can prove that knowledge. If you learn something from your research and play, by all means let us know, I am sure we will find it interesting or those that do can ask more of you to save the delicacy and squeamishness of others, as it takes all sorts.
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The Tooth Fairy who teaches kids to sell body parts for money. A free society is a society where it is safe to find one's self unpopular and where history has shown that exceptions are not that exceptional.
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