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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I had quite a bit of time to waste on CM today.  It's something that I do every once in a while, when all I want to do is focus on those things other than work, paying bills, being responsible for everyone else, and just be Myself.

I started a thread eariler today about a recurring theme that I kept typing up about not being interested in doing things by phone.  It turned out to be a good thread, to Me anyway.  Still there was another comment from Myself that kept coming back over and over.

More often than not, I find certain answers are almost universal to various questions.  One of these being that I am a person first, and then a Domme.  It goes hand in hand with My often said that My lifestyle is part of My life.  I can't have the first without the latter.  Should tomorrow, I give up the play, the leather, the toys in the bag, I would still be Me.   Those who don't know Me might not necessarily think that's a huge deal, but  for Me, it is. For those in My life, I tend to think it is.  In some small way, I also tend to think it matters to those folks who meet Me after noticing Me on the boards.  I'll never forget being at a major event last year, and hearing a particular sub female shriek, "Oh my G*d.  That's Lady Pact!"

Yet, the compliment that I appreciate most isn't that people know Me.  It isn't even on My style of play.  The best compliment that I receive, is that I'm approachable.  Anyone can talk to Me just like they can talk to anyone else.  I've heard, once in a while, that I scare some folks, but that's only until they say hello and strike up a conversation with Me.

Enough of the manifesto.  The question is this:

What is your most human quality and how does it co-mingle in the world of BDSM?

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact
Those who don't know Me might not necessarily think that's a huge deal, but  for Me, it is. For those in My life, I tend to think it is.  In some small way, I also tend to think it matters to those folks who meet Me after noticing Me on the boards.  I'll never forget being at a major event last year, and hearing a particular sub female shriek, "Oh my G*d.  That's Lady Pact!"

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What is your most human quality and how does it co-mingle in the world of BDSM?

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ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie
This is why I receive skepticism and criticism from some, because I am not prone to "protect myself from him" because he is my Master and doesn't need protection from.  This is why he takes great care in his use of me, because he knows my instinctive response to him as his slave is likely to kick in before any "human instinct."

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What is your most human quality and how does it co-mingle in the world of BDSM?

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Sends gypsygrl some super glue. Works better than bubble gum.

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ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

I guess that Im more like Wickad. Domiguy is an amature. I have fucked more than  a few.

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ORIGINAL: KindLadyGrey
The second is that I am really silly and geeky. This tends to be a disconnect for a lot of subs looking for a somewhat more dignified Domme: What do you mean you dress up and pretend to be a fairy? Who is Neil Stephenson? What the hell does "kaplah" mean? What's shiny? You want to transcribe the Jabberwocky onto my cock in tiny letters with a fine tip sharpie? *subbie starts backing away slowly*

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ORIGINAL: ShaktiSama

Vorpal blades go "snicker-snack".

And I am extreeeeeeeeeeemely geeky.

I also have a somewhat dangerous sense of humor, which never ceases to get me into trouble.