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Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/1/2008 11:15:10 PM

MasterHighOne

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Well my topic really says most of it. I find myself to be relatively wise for 24yrs old. I know what I want and when I want it. But it seems most people won't take a young person like myself seriously. Yeah I can be childlike at times but that's 'cause I have a kid. And I like to have random acts of bizarre spastic fun once in a while. Has anyone else had/have this issue themselves?

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 1:16:48 AM

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For starters, most 10yo's know what they want and when they want it, too, esp the latter!

The average submissive is generally suspicious of young dominants because they don't have a great track record of responsibility and maturity - but they (the young in general) do know all about having a good time and what part of their anatomy decides their priorities....

Age takes care of itself just as water inevitably finds its own level. All life has a guaranteed destination - so the focus should be on the journey. Don't be in such a rush; you'll be too old in relatively no time at all....

Focus.

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 2:02:36 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterHighOne

Well my topic really says most of it. I find myself to be relatively wise for 24yrs old. I know what I want and when I want it. But it seems most people won't take a young person like myself seriously. Yeah I can be childlike at times but that's 'cause I have a kid. And I like to have random acts of bizarre spastic fun once in a while. Has anyone else had/have this issue themselves?

I think the problem lays not in your wisedom, but in your life experience.
IF you have half your life behind you with all the problems that come with it...it is nicer to have a person around you...that has experience with it..and that understands you. At your age..not for all...not much happened yet..or not all.
(my god I sound old)

But seriously...some one is fitting to you...be patient..look in the profiles. And we all have our regular fun. It is not forbidden...but needed!

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RE: Sincere Master **** 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 2:04:56 AM

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I can be "childlike" at times and I am way over 24 and my "kid" is nearly 23 years old.

Having spontaneous fun isn't immature, we all do it sometimes, regardless of age. The having fun thing doesn't put anyone off, but you can't expect to have people much older than you think of you in the same way they do of people closer to their own age. You simply haven't had time to experience all the things that most older people have experienced.

As Focus said, enjoy the journey and have fun, because those rotten wrinkles that come with age and experience are going to be popping up before you know it!!

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RE: Sincere Master **** 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 2:44:38 AM

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OK... I thought long and hard (about 35 seconds) about what to say here... but I think I got it...

RELAX. You only get one chance to live this life. Find ways for you to enjoy the time you are in, without dismissing the future. What it comes to is, Life's short. Live it. Love it. Or get out of it.

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 5:41:04 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterHighOne

Well my topic really says most of it. I find myself to be relatively wise for 24yrs old. I know what I want and when I want it. But it seems most people won't take a young person like myself seriously. Yeah I can be childlike at times but that's 'cause I have a kid. And I like to have random acts of bizarre spastic fun once in a while. Has anyone else had/have this issue themselves?

Never in person and not really on the forums. IMHO, part of the problem is when people around my age come along talking about how they are "wise for their years" or "surprisingly mature". Just say what you want to say, be serious when you want to be taken seriously, and people will decide for themselves if you are wise the way they would with anyone else.

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 5:55:28 AM

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With age comes experience and knowing more about ourselves and what we want out of life. Wisdom knows the older we get the more we know about ourselves and the less we know about others. My experience with younger people and looking back at that age for me is many can have wisdom and maturity for themselves but fail miserably to grasp and understand other people.

Now that sounds negative but not what is intended. The point is we all go through life stages and the older we get the less tolerant we are in investing time with people who do not want or do not have the same stake in the relationship. People looking for long term relationship and one of this nature are just naturally wary of wasting valuable time on a person who the odds are still does not know what they truly want out of their life and often communicate in obvious tones of casual whatever thoughts. If people have choices the ones looking for long term are just going to be leery.

Just be patient and not rush. Find the right one for you and not just anyone.

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 5:58:27 AM

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Well look at it this way, somewhere in there you will have credibility for maybe hmm 25 years or so, then you will be told you are too old!

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 6:02:20 AM

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The thing of it is, imo most intelligent people (if not most in general) feel they have a lot of experience in their early 20's. It depends on how your life was lived.
Funny thing about that is, every few years or so, you look back and realize what you DIDN'T know at that time.

AquaticSub gave some good points as did the others.

Just remember, each of us "older folk" was 24 at one time too...it isn't fatal.

You may have to prove yourself through acts and deeds around other dominants or submissives, but once you hold your own, you'll be fine.

At 24 though, I know people will be asking, what kind of experience or what have you done, to earn the title of master? Just be ready with an answer.
I know a switch who once said that if he put his profile up as "master so and so " he'd get a lot of mail. Sure, anybody can call themselves "master or mistress" but it doesn't make it so.
How you treat those you own, life experience and attitude is what gets you the respect

Good luck

Lady Jag

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 6:07:12 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
part of the problem is when people around my age come along talking about how they are "wise for their years" or "surprisingly mature".

Also, I don't see too many Doms confident in their skills choosing nicks like "MasterHighOne." By contrast, one of the most experienced Doms on CM used to go by the nick "CrappyDom." Your age is irrelevant to me. The fact that you are not secure in your ability without ANNOUNCING IT from jump -- well, your maturity isn't surprising me yet, High One.

-- lowlier one.

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 6:07:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterHighOne

Well my topic really says most of it. I find myself to be relatively wise for 24yrs old. I know what I want and when I want it. But it seems most people won't take a young person like myself seriously. Yeah I can be childlike at times but that's 'cause I have a kid. And I like to have random acts of bizarre spastic fun once in a while. Has anyone else had/have this issue themselves?

For me, this may sound harsh but throwing all the toys out the pram doesnt show maturity neither does using an increadably offensive word like 'spastic' age itself isnt always an issue the way you express yourself is. I also find those that say how mature/smart/interesting/funny they are is heavy implication that they arent

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 6:13:32 AM

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~FR~

It's not what you know, it's not how much you know, it's not how much experience you have.

It's what you do with the knowledge and experience that sets you apart from the rest.

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 6:19:46 AM

Maynard

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Also, I don't see too many Doms confident in their skills choosing nicks like "MasterHighOne." By contrast, one of the most experienced Doms on CM used to go by the nick "CrappyDom." Your age is irrelevant to me. The fact that you are not secure in your ability without ANNOUNCING IT from jump -- well, your maturity isn't surprising me yet, High One.

-- lowlier one.

MasterHighOne, you can tell me if I am wrong...but I thought his name was in ref. to a drug induced state.

.....don't sweat the small stuff. The right one will come along. Not everyone seeks Doms older than us. IMO it is rare that age is a mandatory, unbendable requirment

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 7:06:01 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Maynard
I thought his name was in ref. to a drug induced state.

Oh, ok. In that case, I feel a lot better about him engaging in BDSM activities.

So here's a question, MasterHighOne. One of the people who posted on this very thread is three years younger than you. Can you tell who it is without perving all the profiles? If not, then maturity doesn't have much to do with age, because I thought the post was quite mature.

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RE: Sincere Master **** 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 7:14:31 AM

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To the OP - why are you so worried about what other people think - to me that usually is a sign of a lack of experience. If you know what you want - have the wisdom as you say - then go for it - have fun. Think of all those young submissives you can be playing with right now instead your whining about what others think.

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 9:33:26 AM

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Well I read your profile and I definetely see some things that seemed... well difficult for potential partners. You're in a relationship, you have a kid, you've been married 3 times in 4 years. I appluad your honesty but I'd think your potential partners might be limited by these facts. Keep searching, maybe look into your local community some. I'm sure you'll eventually find someone.

Good luck,

Ex

Oh and I hope HighOne, isn't a drug reference but the fact I thought it might be also might put some people off.

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 9:50:57 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterHighOne

Has anyone else had/have this issue themselves?

Nope, I have never had that problem. I take people as I find them, regardless of age.

And through my experience I can tell you I have met mature people in thier 20s and very immature people in thier 60s.

You are who you are OP, try looking within yourself before jumping to the conclusion that everyone is already biased.

Faith

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 11:03:54 AM

MasterHighOne

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
part of the problem is when people around my age come along talking about how they are "wise for their years" or "surprisingly mature".

Also, I don't see too many Doms confident in their skills choosing nicks like "MasterHighOne." By contrast, one of the most experienced Doms on CM used to go by the nick "CrappyDom." Your age is irrelevant to me. The fact that you are not secure in your ability without ANNOUNCING IT from jump -- well, your maturity isn't surprising me yet, High One.

-- lowlier one.

Well, as for "HighOne" it has nothing to do with drugs, lol. This stems from the amount of knowledge and spiritual exp. I have. I'm a bit of a Bibliophile on top of it all. I can completely understand where older people come off thinking I'm too young to have much exp. for my age. (I respect that too.) I am secure in my abilities, I was frustrated, more than anything by the age thing.

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RE: Sincere Master **** 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 11:07:31 AM

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If you really find being 24 and dominant a bit difficult, all I have to say is- you'll grow out of it.

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RE: Sincere Master @ 24yrs? - 3/2/2008 11:11:29 AM

MasterHighOne

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Exquemelin

Well I read your profile and I definetely see some things that seemed... well difficult for potential partners. You're in a relationship, you have a kid, you've been married 3 times in 4 years. I appluad your honesty but I'd think your potential partners might be limited by these facts. Keep searching, maybe look into your local community some. I'm sure you'll eventually find someone.

Good luck,

Ex

Oh and I hope HighOne, isn't a drug reference but the fact I thought it might be also might put some people off.

LOL, Local Community!? Sorry but the locals are either in their 50's and up (and not to my liking as well a Bible Thumping Bigots) or are illeagal for any such activities. I can see your point about the stuff I put on my rofile. I toyed with putting it on there or not. Perhaps I should put on there I'm not looking for another commitment, such as marriage, anytime soon?

Don't take this the wrong way, I would look in the local community if I could. That is why I am here on CM.
I'm also going to add the -Not a Drug Reference- thing to my proile. That might help.

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