Daddy Dom and Sadist?

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shysub0951 -> Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 4:41:35 PM)
i have a very vague idea of what a daddy dom is, but is he one who is also a sadist? Or a loving dom that treats his little girl as just that, his little girl? Any help would be greatly appreciated, thank you. And i do know that every relationship is different on how they use the term.

Sundowner -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 4:48:17 PM)
No real experience here, so others will no doubt give more fact based answers. But it seems to me that the loving aspect is important - the "parent/child" relationship where trust, love, dependability etc are blended with discipline for naughtiness. So inflicting pain for pleasure (my simplistic take on sadism) is not likely to be common.

Lumus -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 4:52:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shysub0951 i have a very vague idea of what a daddy dom is, but is he one who is also a sadist? Or a loving dom that treats his little girl as just that, his little girl? Any help would be greatly appreciated, thank you. And i do know that every relationship is different on how they use the term. I happen to be both, but the two are mutually exclusive. Rather than give you a definition of what a Daddy is [as mine would probably be biased], I'll wait until LuckyAlbatross wanders in with her links.

daddyncherry -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 5:29:08 PM)
my Daddy is both a sweet, loving Daddy and an absolute sadistic muther. They just seem to be kind of compartmentalized.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 5:40:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shysub0951 i have a very vague idea of what a daddy dom is, but is he one who is also a sadist? Or a loving dom that treats his little girl as just that, his little girl? Any help would be greatly appreciated, thank you. And i do know that every relationship is different on how they use the term. Whatever works for you. You can be both for sure. http://www.collarchat.com/m_668543/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#668698 Age play dynamics http://www.collarchat.com/m_580865/mpage_1/key_age%252Cplay/tm.htm#580890 Ms and age play http://www.collarchat.com/m_546688/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#546972 Another daddy dom question http://www.collarchat.com/m_541638/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#541832 How does a dom decide to be a daddy ? http://www.collarchat.com/m_540044/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#540129 Daddy's Girl http://www.collarchat.com/m_278285/mpage_2/key_daddy/tm.htm#278992 What exactly is a daddy dom? http://www.collarchat.com/m_259176/mpage_1/key_daddy/tm.htm#259184 Are there any daddies here? Daddy/Daughter Roleplay Daddydoms and Babygirls Daddy? Daddy/little girl Hiding Daddy's Belt Daddy doms Daddy's little girl Daddy? (2)

adoracat -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 6:25:24 PM)
my Daddy is loving and generous and very much a gentleman... and he's also quite willing to spank me till i'm shaking, or use the floggers on me, or bite me till i bruise, leave hickeys on me till i fuss that i cant wear my favorite shirts because i look like a leper, twist my nipples till i cry.... and he's still my loving wonderful Daddy all the same. its all what the two of you decide that your relationship is. kitten, who is Daddy's precious treasure, he said so.

PanthersMom -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 6:59:55 PM)
everyone is different, every relationship built between partners to suit their needs and desires. he will be whoever he is when you find him. best of luck in your search. PM

shysub0951 -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 7:51:30 PM)
Thank you LA, i knew the links were somewhere on this forum.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 8:05:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shysub0951 i have a very vague idea of what a daddy dom is, but is he one who is also a sadist? Or a loving dom that treats his little girl as just that, his little girl? Any help would be greatly appreciated, thank you. And i do know that every relationship is different on how they use the term. Of course he can be both, shoot! he can be Daddy,sadist,masochist,Master,Sir..whatever he is, he is...I think it would depend on what mode or mood he happens to be in at any given time....It is just some tend to be more so of one personnae then all others...Tempting

breatheasone -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 8:31:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: shysub0951 i have a very vague idea of what a daddy dom is, but is he one who is also a sadist? Or a loving dom that treats his little girl as just that, his little girl? Any help would be greatly appreciated, thank you. And i do know that every relationship is different on how they use the term. My Master is both...He is my Daddy...and a budding Sadist. Its awesome!

daddysliloneds -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 10:20:36 PM)
it can be a man or a woman, definately human, and being such, can and is anything that they choose to be.

lennoxx -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/1/2008 10:54:04 PM)
I have a baby girl, who is also a masochist. Therefore I am her Daddy and me being a sadist it fits well. While in Daddy/daughter mode I rarely ever strike her even in play only if she has been naughty and needs punishment. We save that for times when she is not in little mode. I don't know how other couples do it but beatings and sadism do not play much of any part in our Daddy/daughter play.

meticulousgirl -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/2/2008 5:43:14 PM)
for me i think the Dom can be both i personally see M.S. as both because, i can be in His arms one second holding Him like a teddybear and the next His sadistic side comes into play...either way it's always fun but, i dont call Him daddy, i think of Him like that in a sense but, We dont "use it" in that sense. i know that was probably confusing.... ~meticulous~

adoracat -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/3/2008 3:14:56 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lennoxx I have a baby girl, who is also a masochist. Therefore I am her Daddy and me being a sadist it fits well. While in Daddy/daughter mode I rarely ever strike her even in play only if she has been naughty and needs punishment. We save that for times when she is not in little mode. I don't know how other couples do it but beatings and sadism do not play much of any part in our Daddy/daughter play. for our relationship, he is Daddy and i am NOT his daughter. i have issues, i've been abused by bio-father. its just how our dynamic goes, not to say one is better than the other. i will always be his lil girl. and as he says, "Daddy is love" no matter what we're doing together. snuggling, telling jokes, discussing history, making love, him beating on me for a while...all of it is love. kitten

ELUSIVE1 -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/3/2008 3:29:26 AM)
My 'Daddy' is a sadist...

ThunderRoad -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/3/2008 5:26:07 AM)
I am a very sensual sadist. While I don't consider myself a "Daddy Dom", at least to my girl, I do very much concentrate on what makes her happy. I would get no joy out of forcing her to endure something that she loathes. I feed of positive energy, and the negativity and resentment in that case would bring the scene down for me.

Daddyslilpookie -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/3/2008 9:55:41 AM)
Oh no the titty twisters, My Daddy does that too if I am being a brat! It hurts like hell! That doesn't happen that often though because I am a good girl. I obey Daddy's wishes and do as I am told and I get rewarded for good behavior, say a limited shopping spree[:)], well somtimes. Anyways it is what you and your Daddy agree the relatioship to be no all Daddy/girl relationships are the same if it was it wouldn't unique. My Daddy and I have a taken in hand relationship you can see what I mean at www.takeninhand.com . It works for us.

adoracat -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/3/2008 2:42:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Daddyslilpookie Oh no the titty twisters, My Daddy does that too if I am being a brat! It hurts like hell! That doesn't happen that often though because I am a good girl. I obey Daddy's wishes and do as I am told and I get rewarded for good behavior, say a limited shopping spree[:)], well somtimes. Anyways it is what you and your Daddy agree the relatioship to be no all Daddy/girl relationships are the same if it was it wouldn't unique. My Daddy and I have a taken in hand relationship you can see what I mean at www.takeninhand.com . It works for us. hee! i know the titty twisters will be OFF limits for a while.... otherlove is wanting to get mine pierced, with Daddy's blessings. this should be interesting.... kitten, laughing

Littlepita -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/3/2008 7:23:48 PM)
I'm blessed to have a Master/Daddy who is also a sadist.

AtlantisKing111 -> RE: Daddy Dom and Sadist? (3/4/2008 10:04:18 PM)
I happen to be a Daddy Dom to my girl, encouraging her to grow and disciplining her when she deserves it. Yet I also enjoy my Sadistic side and love her masochistic enjoyment of the pain I inflict on her.

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