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Paulsgirl -> Lingerie? (2/28/2008 4:44:02 PM)
i love lingerie. i am a collector ..... i wouldn't feel dressed for a scene without carefully choosing, and re-choosing, and re-chossing what lingerie to wear. i've travelled across London on the tube train and no-one could possibly have guessed what delicious lingerie i was wearing directly under a top coat. i have special sources where i buy and some of it is from antique and charity (flea market) shops. Always well washed of course but i love not only beautiful lace but sometimes to think who might have worn it before me. i have rarely intra-switched but did have a wonderful but complex relationship with another switch. i would wear white lingerie when i was submissive to him and black lingerie (with leather) when i was domme. Either he would say please go and chagne now or i would say i am going to change and it was our signal for my/our switching. i wear black lace and usually stockings with my ankle bracelets over those for Master.....just because i know He loves it. A favourite thing is to have it ripped or cut off me............and indeed one sign of a good scene is the extent to which my lingerie gets wrecked. What experiences do you have either wearing lingerie or looking at it and how it appeals to you senses?

Leatherist -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 4:57:16 PM)
I like the forms, but I make it from leather and steel. [;)]

azropedntied -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 4:59:52 PM)
First of all YES PLEASE > would be the response of most partners when the other parties takes that much care in appearance and thoughtfulness .Yes i also love it when other dress to be not only proud of themselves but proud that their partner is with them too .dress proud ,dress to impress ,dress for the love of what they dig to wear . all great !

Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 5:02:34 PM)
I am also a lingerie addict. The joke among members of my family is that I have more bedroom clothes than I do regular clothes! I think the clerks at my local Victoria's Secret know me on a first-name basis now... Made much more severe by the fact that in my life I've been a stripper, a burlesque performer, and a pinup girl. Sometimes I wonder if I became a lingerie addict because I was involved in those professions, or if I became involved in them BECAUSE I can't resist all that gorgeous lace and silk! The sexier, the better. I love to get all dolled up and take pictures, or just walk around in a garter belt and high heels and know that at least for the moment, I feel like the hottest piece of ass in the world. (With my low self-esteem those moments are few and far between, so really I suppose buying more lingerie is like my therapy...) Not to mention the reaction I get out of my darling pet is absolutely priceless. I love making him want to worship my body so badly that sometimes I think he'll burst into tears if I say no. My favorite pieces are garter belts, thigh-high black backseam stockings, and bustier-type tops. But I'm waaaaay too possessive of my collection to let anybody damage them... I once moped for days when my favorite pair of stockings got a run in them. It's hard to find good ones these days. :(

AtlantaMistress -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 5:07:22 PM)
I had a boyfriend once that taught me 2 things - how to change a tire, and always make sure your bra & panties match. Something about having sexy lingerie on...no one else needs to know or see it - it just makes you feel SEXY all day...I LOVE IT! My latest addiction is corsets, so I am working on that collection as well...hint, hint - for all of those knowing I have a b-day comingLOL

probablyknowme -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 5:12:16 PM)
I personally love to dress sexy for both my partner and myself. Especially at a party, where I know I am going to get undressed, I take special care to wear the sexiest lingerie I own. In my opinion, a woman should dress like a woman...to me that means lace, silk, satin...pretty colors, soft textures. kat

Paulsgirl -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 5:20:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist I like the forms, but I make it from leather and steel. [;)] that sounds amazing

Madame4a -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 5:22:30 PM)
mine always match.. whether I'm going to work out, or on a date.. its important to me.. I have a gour drawer chest burstingwith stuff.. I LOVE LOVE LOVE lingerie...

Paulsgirl -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 5:31:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie I am also a lingerie addict. The joke among members of my family is that I have more bedroom clothes than I do regular clothes! I think the clerks at my local Victoria's Secret know me on a first-name basis now... Made much more severe by the fact that in my life I've been a stripper, a burlesque performer, and a pinup girl. Sometimes I wonder if I became a lingerie addict because I was involved in those professions, or if I became involved in them BECAUSE I can't resist all that gorgeous lace and silk! The sexier, the better. I love to get all dolled up and take pictures, or just walk around in a garter belt and high heels and know that at least for the moment, I feel like the hottest piece of ass in the world. (With my low self-esteem those moments are few and far between, so really I suppose buying more lingerie is like my therapy...) Not to mention the reaction I get out of my darling pet is absolutely priceless. I love making him want to worship my body so badly that sometimes I think he'll burst into tears if I say no. My favorite pieces are garter belts, thigh-high black backseam stockings, and bustier-type tops. But I'm waaaaay too possessive of my collection to let anybody damage them... I once moped for days when my favorite pair of stockings got a run in them. It's hard to find good ones these days. :( There's a hospice i know who are funded mostly by the sale of donated items....there is a cornucopia there of lace AND stockings....and fabulous real NYLONS from the days before the stretchy stuff...nylons with that sort of sexy sound when you rub your legs together.... i love having holes and ladders (runs) in my stockings......there is this bit of snaggy frame that holds down the carpet along the edge of His bathroom and i 'accidently' on purpose snag my foot there as it makes slutty ladders run slowly up my legs.....stockings yes stockings are auto-erotic and i love sleeping in them just for the sensation. Why poor self-esteem i wonder when you were stripper/ burlesque?

Paulsgirl -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 5:34:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AtlantaMistress I had a boyfriend once that taught me 2 things - how to change a tire, and always make sure your bra & panties match. Did he wear it whilst changing the tyres?

Pyrrsefanie -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 5:50:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Paulsgirl There's a hospice i know who are funded mostly by the sale of donated items....there is a cornucopia there of lace AND stockings....and fabulous real NYLONS from the days before the stretchy stuff...nylons with that sort of sexy sound when you rub your legs together.... i love having holes and ladders (runs) in my stockings......there is this bit of snaggy frame that holds down the carpet along the edge of His bathroom and i 'accidently' on purpose snag my foot there as it makes slutty ladders run slowly up my legs.....stockings yes stockings are auto-erotic and i love sleeping in them just for the sensation. Why poor self-esteem i wonder when you were stripper/ burlesque? AIEEEEEEEEE! I love secondhand things, especially vintage... I've got a collection of old gloves, including a pair of short black leather ones from the 1930s that I picked up secondhand. I will admit though, now that you mention it... I do like to rip up my fishnets. My backseams, though, are like gold to me... partially because they're in such short supply around where I live. I've been able to find the proper thigh-high ones to go with a garter belt in the proper color (basic black) at exactly one store, and they're not always in stock. :( So they're sadly not as disposable as they once were to me... hell, I used to go through them like water with all the abuse I used to heap on them! The self-esteem issues are fairly recent. I got sick which caused me to gain weight and made horrific scars/marks appear all over my once-very-sexy legs... of course I think most girls have things about themselves they'd like to change (a constant for me has been my nose), but this was pretty much the icing on the cake. I'm just now managing to shed some of the weight, and the marks on my legs I'm hoping will be removed in the future via plastic surgery so I can wear short skirts again without feeling like a monster.

Paulsgirl -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 6:18:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie quote: ORIGINAL: Paulsgirl There's a hospice i know who are funded mostly by the sale of donated items....there is a cornucopia there of lace AND stockings....and fabulous real NYLONS from the days before the stretchy stuff...nylons with that sort of sexy sound when you rub your legs together.... i love having holes and ladders (runs) in my stockings......there is this bit of snaggy frame that holds down the carpet along the edge of His bathroom and i 'accidently' on purpose snag my foot there as it makes slutty ladders run slowly up my legs.....stockings yes stockings are auto-erotic and i love sleeping in them just for the sensation. Why poor self-esteem i wonder when you were stripper/ burlesque? AIEEEEEEEEE! I love secondhand things, especially vintage... I've got a collection of old gloves, including a pair of short black leather ones from the 1930s that I picked up secondhand. I will admit though, now that you mention it... I do like to rip up my fishnets. My backseams, though, are like gold to me... partially because they're in such short supply around where I live. I've been able to find the proper thigh-high ones to go with a garter belt in the proper color (basic black) at exactly one store, and they're not always in stock. :( So they're sadly not as disposable as they once were to me... hell, I used to go through them like water with all the abuse I used to heap on them! The self-esteem issues are fairly recent. I got sick which caused me to gain weight and made horrific scars/marks appear all over my once-very-sexy legs... of course I think most girls have things about themselves they'd like to change (a constant for me has been my nose), but this was pretty much the icing on the cake. I'm just now managing to shed some of the weight, and the marks on my legs I'm hoping will be removed in the future via plastic surgery so I can wear short skirts again without feeling like a monster. Heaps and heaps of stockings here..... and awwwww it's such hard work i know getting over illness that leads to weight gain as i had asthma so bad one year that i got prescribed steroids and put on a huge amount of weight. It took a couple of years or more to get it off. Now it is a constant and daily battle at my age to keep fit and lean. Really we are all beautiful just the way we are and dressing that inner beauty is what is really the trick.

kallisto -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 6:35:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: probablyknowme I personally love to dress sexy for both my partner and myself. Especially at a party, where I know I am going to get undressed, I take special care to wear the sexiest lingerie I own. In my opinion, a woman should dress like a woman...to me that means lace, silk, satin...pretty colors, soft textures. kat Exactly. A woman should dress like a woman. It gives me an incredible feeling to dress knowing that I'll be undressed. Even if I'm dressing very casually, bra and panties have to match. It's just a lot more fun and exciting to be dressing up. [:)]

adoracat -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 6:42:37 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Pyrrsefanie I will admit though, now that you mention it... I do like to rip up my fishnets. My backseams, though, are like gold to me... partially because they're in such short supply around where I live. I've been able to find the proper thigh-high ones to go with a garter belt in the proper color (basic black) at exactly one store, and they're not always in stock. :( So they're sadly not as disposable as they once were to me... hell, I used to go through them like water with all the abuse I used to heap on them! http://www.sockdreams.com/_shop/pages/socks_all.php they have a lot of thigh-high stockings there, just scroll down the page. [:)] kitten

christine1 -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 6:46:11 PM)
i love lingerie as well, but only when i'm wearing it to wear it only. under my clothing everyday, i go sans undergarments as often as i can....

Leatherist -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 7:21:09 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Paulsgirl quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist I like the forms, but I make it from leather and steel. [;)] that sounds amazing You have mail.

junecleaver -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 7:21:38 PM)
I like cute panties of any and every variety. He doesn't like lingerie. He likes me to be completely uncovered, no lingerie, no make up, no hair dye, etc etc.

Leatherist -> RE: Lingerie? (2/28/2008 7:28:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: junecleaver I like cute panties of any and every variety. He doesn't like lingerie. He likes me to be completely uncovered, no lingerie, no make up, no hair dye, etc etc. I once knew a girl that nothing could humiliate. Except some of my "creations" I think that the bright red panties with the trashy frilly black elastics sort of got to her, especially with the strategically placed round hole over her asshole-also surrounded with a bit of frilly black lace. It sort of emphasized that I liked fucking her butt, more than her cunt. Especially since she sat and watched while I patterned and sewed them. The bra with the poodle faces over the cups seemed to finish it off nicely. Floppy ears that bounced around during. [:D] Being a craftsman can be a real hoot. You never know what the evil bastards will come up with next, and if we can think it-we can probably make it. Especially if talking about it makes you squirm.

StormsSlave -> RE: Lingerie? (2/29/2008 2:41:59 AM)
Leatherist-- Would love to see what you make! My Lord does love leather.... I love lingerie, but sadly have little of it now. Left all of it behind when I escaped Oregon, and have had other financial priorities since. Wearing anything not cotton to work would be brain dead in my job, anyway. Too much sweating and moving. Sports stuff only. But, that does remind me. I went looking for something racy for a night I was planning. I was looking for an outfit to surprise my man...black, simple...no bows...just "pop your eyes out at that" sexy. Since I was thinking it might get torn [:)] I decided to look at Wally world and JC Penney...no sense spending a lot on something that will end up on the floor in pieces. Everything that all of them had was HORRIBLE! Not even not sexy, but grandma-esque (no offense to any gramma's here intended.) This is the stuff that would cover EVERYTHING! Even the stuff you want showing. I thought it was the time of year, maybe, or that it was close to valentine's day. Asked store clerks at every store, and all of them told me that they don't carry anything like that anymore. They used to (I know! Bought a bustier at Target last year!) but they now just carry the "basic stuff." I wouldn't wear any of this to a worm wrestle. Even our local chapter of Victoria's secret was out of anything but the basics. I ended up going to every single major retailer in this town. None of them had anything but "basics." and then usually an extremely limited selection. Eek...have to go to Chicago to find anything decent. Dammit.

tinkerbelle3 -> RE: Lingerie? (2/29/2008 10:56:33 AM)
mmmm, yes. Lingerie. How stockings and garters feel under a silky skirt. Or a tight pair of short shorts and just the right panties to show panty lines. All of it is fun, fun, fun. My panty drawer is so full, I have to organize them by color to find anything and we continue to add to the collection!

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