MsIncontrol
Posts: 261
Joined: 10/3/2007 Status: offline
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There are many labels people can give themselves and/or others in the lifestyle. I would say...just because you enjoy a flogging doesn't make you a submissive. How do you know? If you take the beating to please the woman giving it to you, you may be a submissive. If you like it for the pain/pleasure aspect and would take it from anyone willing to administer it (within reason of course) you may be a bottom. A lot of people think that in order to be submissive you have to be a groveling, doormat...that isn't the case. You can be strong, confident and powerful...and still choose to submit to someone. After reading your profile...I feel that if you are here to have women beat you for payback...you need to find yourself a therapist and not a mistress. If you really want to make reparations to woman-kind for your mistreatment of women...don't do it in a self-serving way...instead volunteer at a domestic violence shelter or apologize to those women you have wronged.
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