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MadameMarque -> RE: How can I get what I want in bed ~ ! (2/27/2008 9:03:44 AM)
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Well, if this is an answer to your question...
when that time comes that you and someone else are letting on that you'd both like to get intimate, lean in close, and tell them, "I like it slow and all over my body...and yours, too."
Maybe they'll say, what do you mean?
You say, with your head tilting, "May I?" and assuming they don't move away, slowly open your mouth on a tender spot, on their neck, and show them a few seconds of what you mean. You're very likely to hear that sharp inhalation that means their blood is rising.
There are a lot of men who get very excited by stimulation other than strictly genital and anal. I think that often, what determines whether a person is into full body stimulation is not whether or not their body is wired for it - it probably is - but whether or not it suits them personally, in other ways.
I do think that a person's more likely to be impersonal and "get in, get off, get out," if the sex itself is impersonal. And they're more likely to get close and glory in the details if there's more intimacy and feeling there. But there are people who behave in the opposite way, too - who like seduction and a long session, even with casual sex, and those who just don't have a sense of sex lasting any longer than a few kisses and a few minutes of intercourse, even with a boyfriend/girlfriend.
You can certainly find men out there who're into the sort of scene you want. If a man's not already into it the way you like it, question is, would he discover he liked it, if he ever got a taste of it that way? That is a question only experience may answer :)
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