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joy2u -> RE: How many vanillas are actually vanilla? (2/26/2008 11:45:15 AM)
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Personally, i don't really think that many people are totally vanilla or totally kinkoid, in their sexual relationships. i think most are a little of this and a little of that and sometimes a little more of this rather than that.
Look, nobody, outside of the people intimately involved with each other, really knows what goes on within their sex life. And, kinky covers a lot of area, especially when you throw in the fuzzy handcuffs and fur-lined blindfolds.
Most of the people who have known me, casually, through work or school or social activities, have not known that i am a masochist or that i enjoy being whipped, etc. and, in fact, a lot of them have viewed me as being very "old fashioned" in my relationships, because i have always been the sort to have the man as the Head of Household and me the 'dutiful' submissive woman, waiting on him, hand and foot.
Nobody really knows what goes on behind closed doors or who's really 'vanilla' and who isn't. i mean, even the PTA mom, driving the minivan to soccer practice, is likely to a copy of "The Joy of Sex" in her nightstand, along with some little sex toys and such. Any way, i think it's pretty safe to say that a lot more people are less 'vanilla' than a lot of people think, if you know what i mean.
joy
Owned servant of Master David
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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl
I've found that a large percentage of people I've spoken with both in chatrooms and in real life are fascinated by and have fantasized about bondage and spanking. Many have even done one or both. In fact, I've found that only a very small percentage have no interest and I live in the bible belt. Could it be that vanillas are the ones in the minority?
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