Have you ever given your girl grief

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SailingBum -> Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 1:48:50 PM)
For asking a question? I was reading another post and she said this "ok, I seem to have a problem with communication with my master, girl has asked several questions which has gotten girl into trouble so girl puts it to other Masters" Personally I've tried to encourage questions in most situations. My attitude it The only dumb questions is one not asked. Have you ever gotten upset by them asking a question or gotten yelled at for asking one? BadOne

Lumus -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 1:53:48 PM)
The only question that raised my ire was, "Well, wouldn't You prefer not to know, since you have so much on your plate...?" I'll confess, my teeth were gritting a bit when I replied, "Priorities, girl. you happen to be right near the top of them, so don't ever assume for a moment that I don't want to know when something is troubling you!" I'm like dat. [8D]

AquaticSub -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:05:19 PM)
Nope, he's never given me grief for my questions. Not even the intentionally silly ones.

RCdc -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:07:34 PM)
Darcy has never yelled at me for asking a stupid question - he has the patience of a saint...[;)] the.dark.

RCdc -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:09:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lumus "Priorities, girl. you happen to be right near the top of them, so don't ever assume for a moment that I don't want to know when something is troubling you!" I'm like dat. [8D] That statement made me swoon* quite honestly.[;)]* .Rocks. the.dark.

Leatherist -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:14:12 PM)
No. The only time I get upset is when they refuse to listen to the answers.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:23:20 PM)
I'd sit down for a serious discussion if they put something to a board of anonymous people before mentioning it to me- especially if it was regarding our own relationship. Honestly, there are dumb questions, even asked ones. And I DO get annoyed at my partner for asking particular questions, if I've already given that information or it isn't relevant to the specific issue and I'm stressed. At this point though, we've enountered those bumps well enough that he knows when to pay attention, when to ask questions, how to ask them well, and when to wait. It rarely happens anymore.

MadRabbit -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:23:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist No. The only time I get upset is when they refuse to listen to the answers. Afuckingmen

schoenekitty -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:27:42 PM)
Only when I ask if he thinks I'm chubby or gross- I get slapped :-p

HerLord -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:35:30 PM)
If a sub is not of high enough priority to justify answers, the Dom/me is not giving the sub a high enough priority to justify the sub being with the Dom/me. Just my thinking. However, if the sub is not giving enough priority to listening to the answers given, then the reverse of the above is true. quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist No. The only time I get upset is when they refuse to listen to the answers.

SailingBum -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:41:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist No. The only time I get upset is when they refuse to listen to the answers. or they don't like the answer!

SailingBum -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:42:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MadRabbit quote: ORIGINAL: Leatherist No. The only time I get upset is when they refuse to listen to the answers. Afuckingmen I second that emotion lol

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:50:19 PM)
in tpe you have no rights...you cant ask questions because you are considered propery.....you just do as your toldf or your gone. i will never do that crap again...because there is no point.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:52:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl in tpe you have no rights... Unless you decide otherwise. quote: you cant ask questions because you are considered propery..... Unless you decide otherwise. quote: you just do as your toldf or your gone. i will never do that crap again...because there is no point. You're not talking "TPE" or as I say "ultimate authority transfer"- you're talking about a particular sort of obedience oriented relationship which a particular person chooses to have.

MadRabbit -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:56:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl in tpe you have no rights...you cant ask questions because you are considered propery.....you just do as your toldf or your gone. i will never do that crap again...because there is no point. Once again, another enlightening post by the "Twue Lifestyler" Faerytattogirl (one of the few on this site I might add as she has consantly pointed out in the past) about the One True Only Way of How Things Really Are in BDSM. Sounds like a great fantasy. Might be why it didn't work out.

junecleaver -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:57:22 PM)
Pretty much never. I can only imagine him giving me grief over it if I used it as a tool for anything beside getting more information from him---ie annoying him or trying to persuade him after a decision has been made.

faerytattoodgirl -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 2:59:34 PM)
its a relationship that many on here seek. it is why so many relationships fail because it isnt an actual relationship. more so you are just being used and abused. yet there are alot of in experienced people who go for this just to gain the actual experience and feel worthy that someone wants them.

SailingBum -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 3:03:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl in tpe you have no rights...you cant ask questions because you are considered propery.....you just do as your toldf or your gone. i will never do that crap again...because there is no point. Thank you for your answer. I know it's sometimes difficult to post against the flow in a post. Tyipcally I post a quesiton so I can discover viewpoints opposed to mine to understand the mindset of ppl that don't agree with me. Thanks BadOne

LaTigresse -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 3:05:28 PM)
Questions never.......assumptions yes.

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Have you ever given your girl grief (2/22/2008 3:07:21 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lumus The only question that raised my ire was, "Well, wouldn't You prefer not to know, since you have so much on your plate...?" I'll confess, my teeth were gritting a bit when I replied, "Priorities, girl. you happen to be right near the top of them, so don't ever assume for a moment that I don't want to know when something is troubling you!" I'm like dat. [8D] Same answer that Michael would give to me.. :-) I knew I liked you Lumus...

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