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maidenformboy -> Male slave tattoos (2/14/2008 4:33:22 PM)

Hello and happy Valentines Day to all the wonderful dommes out there! My mistress wants me to have my forarms tattooed. We have discussed this for some time now and I really want to get this done for her. The question is, we both want the tattoos to be some BDSM/slave related but don't want vanilla folks to know what the heck the design means. We also want it to be a fairly significant tattoo that will cover the whole forarm on each arm. Can anyone suggest something that might fit the bill as to what we seek? I love my mistress very much and want these tats to be a reflection of my devotion and love for her. Any ideas would be very much appreciated. Thanks you for taking the time to read my post. rich



MsLadySue -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/14/2008 5:38:13 PM)

I haven't any advice as to design of the tattoos but I have a question. How long have you and your Mistress been together? I'm curious because you're talking some serious ink. If you've only been together a short time it might be better to go small with the tattoos until you're sure this relationship is going to last ... you're stuck with the ink if things fall apart. Simply my two cents worth.



maidenformboy -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/14/2008 10:00:31 PM)

Thank you MsLadySue. I do understand what you are saying, but we have been together for a year now and things are great and we are talking about our future. We are very happy together, so I am not worried. I do want to find just the right design though, so it may take a while. I want something that vanilla friends won't know what it is but will think it is cool and lifestylers will know right away!



darchChylde -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/15/2008 12:27:04 AM)

i'll have to agree with MsLadySue, you're only 47 and a year is not forever.  i'm not saying that anything will happen to the relationship, but you're still only halfway through the honeymoon. There's not a magic number or anything and you must do what's right for you and your dominant.

i'd recommend that you and your dominant work together to design the emblam or herald of her house; perhaps something discreetly incorporating her initials that you can build upon over time.  As someone with his own ink, i'd start with something that is no bigger than a few square inches on your inner forearm or wrist, maybe that flows with the shape of those body parts.  How about a wrist band about two inches wide?

Is this something that your ownership is conditional upon, or is there alot of pressure on you to do this?  Remember, even a small tattoo is a permanent committment; you can add to it much easier than you can take from it.

Edited to add:  Ma'am and i have talked about this as well; though something much more discreet; i'm seriously considering it.  Though for us, i brought the idea up as something i'd like to do.  i've got two tattoos now myself, symbolic of my daughter and my mother; i had them done 18 and 15 years ago.  i've always wanted more, but i've been waiting for something that meant enough to join rheir august company in my heart and flesh; i believe i've found it but am not making the decision lightly.  i'm considering something based around the kanji symbol of Her place in Her husband's house.



thetammyjo -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/15/2008 6:21:55 AM)

I think the only people who can honestly help you with this is you, her, and the artist you will use.

I'd get something that has deep value to you personally so no matter what happens in the future it will continue to be valuable for you.

As for BDSM specific, frankly anything you give that meaning to will have that meaning. I'd be very cautious about getting anything in a non-native language just because if you can't read it you can't be certain it is correct -- I've heard horror stories of folks who ended up with embarrassing things on their bodies.

You could also start small -- one small tat every year as a right of passage that eventually will cover a lot.



ItalianSMistress -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/15/2008 7:01:58 AM)

Think about this well, a year, is like NO TIME.  You should know this at your age.  Are you going to tell us at 47 you have never had a relationship last longer than a year?  If you have, then you must know that it can end. 



BlueHnS -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/15/2008 7:15:57 AM)

Tattoos are a very weighty decision. It took me 6 years to decide on my first and another 4 to add more work. 
In addition to everything else that's been said, do ALOT of homework on both styles of tattoos and the artists that are available to you.  
Don't let the artist rush you into a quick decision. The girl that did the additional artwork on my original tattoo did redrew it 3 times before both of us were happy.
Remember that the artists have limitations too. One of the biggest is intricate linework and tattoos just don't mix. ( I mean alot of little fine lines all together.)
Unfortunately ... like everyone else I can't make a suggestion as to WHAT to get. That's something very personal. But I can tell you, when it's right ... you'll just know.



maidenformboy -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/15/2008 4:35:10 PM)

I want to thank all the lovely dommes for their opinions, etc. It is very much appreciated by this humble slave boi! I guess I have much to think about yet on my tats! Thank you all again!



darchChylde -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/15/2008 4:49:08 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: maidenformboy

I want to thank all the lovely dommes for their opinions, etc. It is very much appreciated by this humble slave boi! I guess I have much to think about yet on my tats! Thank you all again!


*darchChylde dons his Sarcastic Hat*

Geez, we lowly subbie boys get no credit for our contributions; not even from one of our own!

*he crawls off to cry in the corner*



maidenformboy -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/15/2008 5:54:56 PM)

I am sorry darchchylde, I should not have assumed anything. Thanks everyone for their contributiond! 



darchChylde -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/15/2008 5:58:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: maidenformboy

I am sorry darchchylde, I should not have assumed anything. Thanks everyone for their contributiond! 


*points at the Sarcastic Hat*

no biggie



LadyPact -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/15/2008 6:51:26 PM)

I was just having this coversation with someone through another forum.

I haven't tattoed My boy.  What I have done (very recently) was a temporary branding that went very well.  You might want to think of this as an alternative option, until a permanent tattoo can be drawn up and decided on.



MadameMarque -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/17/2008 4:03:06 AM)

Yes, it is wise to look at the long term, with a tattoo, and make a serious decision.
 
When you feel the time is right, you might consider a tattoo that emphasizes the longevity of love - that love endures.
 
I'm not sure of any symbols that people in the know would instantly recognize, but that others would not. 
 
But you could have the pleasure of discussing its symbolism with those you choose to include in the more private aspect of your love.
 
Take your time developing ideas, or let it rest and something will suddenly seem just right.



MatinaNemesis -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/17/2008 6:13:41 AM)

As a show of permanent commitment to me and proof of total submission  I can have my slaves and admirers tattooed. I have an official Matina Nemesis tattoo that was specially designed for me,but at times I use other ones, it all depends on the person/situation.
For example, I have had small feminine hummingbirds tattooed onto the ankles of a few slaves to remind them how I can humiliate, degrade and even sissyfy them, even when I am not present. Luckily for them, they can cover this with their socks if it really becomes nessecary ( see how nice I can be ;)
I have also had tattoed small slightly feminine rose tattooes at the top of the leg adjacent to the groin area with my name next to it. This will then be visible if ever they have sex with another person...and will lead to more quick thinking and humiliation on their behalf  :)
For non permanent signs of ownership I use my famous ankle chain which many will know about ( and possibly already be wearing ;)
It can be seen on my .com website.
I think SOME form of sign or show of commitment is important in such a relationship, as it is submissive on the part of the slave/sub to be marked or labeled in some way and actively wear his Mistresses mark, and possibly it causes some kind of humiliation and degradation for the slave/sub too, others ear it openly and proudly to declare that they belong to, and serve me.





Emperor1956 -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/17/2008 6:22:47 AM)

I've said it before around here.  Tats are SO 20th Century.  Get hip, and get yourself an RFID implant.  Maybe with a GPS, so Mistress will always know where you are.
 
(seriously, OP, get yourself whatever ink you and your Owner desire.  Good luck.)
 
E.



LadyHathor -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/17/2008 6:32:46 AM)

I would suggest perhaps something with the thorns and roses, as those are traditional BDSM symbols, yet can "pass" put there, a nice matching design for each forearm would be hot, IMHO.



maidenformboy -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/18/2008 7:15:40 PM)

Thank you LadyHathor, I like your idea of the thorns and roses too!



Shawn1066 -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/18/2008 9:32:44 PM)

At some point, I expect I'll be getting Fox tattooed on some part of my upper back in kanji.  After a year or two, I'd say.

DV's Fox



zoescherry -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/19/2008 10:09:35 AM)

Just wanted to throw my ideas and experience into the pot here. Im tattoed with my Mistreses's mark amd my collaing date. It's something i wear with pride as its permancy shows my commitment to her and more importanty that i belong to her. As im in a cuckold situation i hold firmly to the idea that while others may come and go non of them hold her mark.

It works 2 ways of course as a dom who had me with my skirts up noticed her insignia..and asked if it had any significance..and sounded a little surprised when i explained what it was. something I could and would never consider for a guy. The mark is my collaring date of 28.10.98 and my Mistress's mark a cat's claw scratching my skin and drawing blood. Small descrete but there..hidden from most folk as i dont need to show it off to the world. My advice would be find something that special to you and dosnt need broadcasting to the vanila world.

zoe



Skully7000 -> RE: Male slave tattoos (2/19/2008 2:29:35 PM)

madcap suggestions:

1) tribal: you can take something and make it tribal and it becomes harder to recognize and more artisitic. sometimes tribal is a definite object other times it is just an artistic pattern. so you can pick a pair of handcuffs or something else bdsm related and encorporate that into the tribal very discreetly.

2) whatever you decide to do: make sure you find an artist who specializes in that style of art. I wouldn't ask a sunday comic artist to draw me an anime nor would I ask someone from Disney to start sketching a new BMW concept car. find the artist that is best at the style you want.

3) Time: even if you have to drop some money to have the artist help you with the designs. take the designs work them over. make the modifications mull them over. test them on some vanilla friends. test them on some kinky friends. Major Forearm tattoos are no small item. unless you are planning on wearing long sleaves 99% of the time you must be prepared to have people treat you different. some of it will be positive some negative. some completely indifferent. but consider yourself warned.

4) some people consider getting the name of your significant other Tattooed on you is the kiss of death/jynx/bad luck ect. others just find it stupid... again consider yourself warned.

in the end: its your body and you need to make the right decision for YOU. not your partner, not your family, not your job, the only one that really matters in this decision is you! its your body its your decision.

Good luck and happy ink'ing.

Cheers
Skully



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