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Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/13/2008 9:54:43 PM   
Owner4SexSlave


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Status: offline 		For a lack of a better label I'm calling this "Sadistic Mental Stimulation".

This seems to happen during scene play when I'm being very vocal or even when I'm just making jokes that involve me doing something extremely sadistic to somebody.

Just comments such as "I'll take and crop your ass with rusty razor blades until the blood trickles down around your ankles and I'll lick it off you, savor it and spit it in your face and smear it with my fingers" or some other off the wall comment.    Again, these off the wall remarks can be made either during a scene or in simply jest.    However, it often provokes a sexual state of arrousal.

Often, it's not only what I say but how I say it, is what does the magic trick.  Mind you none of these things I would actually do, but as they say, it's the thought that counts.

I'm interested in hearing if other people engage in such verbal dialogs with their partners.  If it has the same effects.   The comments don't even have to be directed towards the submissive themselves.   Could be at somebody like the idiot at McDonalds that just royally screwed up the order.   Mind you, this is a comment or thought shared in private and not blurted out loud for everybody else to hear. 

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 12:31:46 AM   
Nineveh


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Status: offline 		I do this, generally not in scene, but occasionally, usually a description of how I am going to prepare her as meat (meat as ina side of beef, not as in fuckmeat)

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 4:57:09 AM   
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Status: offline 		Oh my.  Absolutely yes!!!  And, the sadist in me really likes it when it IS a thought about the young man at the 7/11 that just pissed me off.  When I think about suspending him by his arms and whipping him bloody while he screams.
Why?  Becuase it's non-consentual (in my fantasies only, folks).  And, being a sadist, when you don't like it, I like it even more.
That said, comments to a slave in my presence, jesting or not, can often provoke me into action.  Often due to their reaction to my comment.


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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 7:45:38 AM   
greyangelus


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Status: offline 		Ya, this is a LOt of fun.

Try doing the "Absent-minded Dom" dialgoue sometime.  Great for a laughs and a "oh, shit.."s

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 8:07:54 AM   
toservez


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Status: offline 		Absolutely love that type of talk when it is directed at me. Mind is the most powerful tool in pleasure so getting it engaged when doing something only adds to the pleasure on my end. Even if they are far out never going to happen they can help feed where the mind wants to go which is to free itself from filtering information and just go along for the ride.

I love people that can engage verbally in the kink and sex areas.


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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 9:05:16 AM   
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ORIGINAL: toservez

Absolutely love that type of talk when it is directed at me. Mind is the most powerful tool in pleasure so getting it engaged when doing something only adds to the pleasure on my end. Even if they are far out never going to happen they can help feed where the mind wants to go which is to free itself from filtering information and just go along for the ride.

I love people that can engage verbally in the kink and sex areas.



Agree times 1000!


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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 12:20:15 PM   
CreativeDominant


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Status: offline 		I agree with you, Owner.  The mind is an important tool but the expression of it comes only through either words or actions or both.  The verbal expression in a casual manner of "Now just where did I put that new cat -o-nine?  have you seen it...the one with the metal bits along the lashes?" or the expression of "I am going to beat you until you are quivering...then lick you, bite you, fuck you...and do all this until you are beyond screaming and just down to crying...then I am going to start in with the fun" in a serious tone can have a marvelous effect and that more playful aspect of my sadism takes sincere delight in doing so.

I find another aspect of this to be very enjoyable also...and it plays a bit into the mindfuck arena;  to tell a submissive what you are going to do/would like to do/would like to make her do when she is in a position where she cannot say anything in return because she is at work/at school/at the store/kids or other people are around her.  While it is fun to do this when she can say something back (but can't do anything due to extenuating circumstances), tis just a bit more fun when the first set of circumstances are present.

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 12:31:58 PM   
MasterNbitch


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Status: offline 		Words have no power to impress the mind
without the exquisite horror of their reality.  ~Poe

i think that says it all...

He is one of the many i wish were still alive today...
just so he could whisper in my ear what was going on in his mind. 
<delicious shudder>

~bitch


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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 12:44:57 PM   
sweetwenchie


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Status: offline 		i hate that... no really, i do.  Just ignore the puddle under me and know how much i loathe mind fucks.

The mind is the largest erogneous zone one possesses.  Not taking advantage of that fact would be quite a waste.

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 1:19:04 PM   
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Status: offline 		I dunno,does .............

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 1:20:28 PM   
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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 1:41:44 PM   
Leatherist


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ORIGINAL: sweetwenchie




And then stop on the way-at a medical supply house-and have her go in and buy ones, in her size.

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 1:44:04 PM   
sweetwenchie


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Status: offline 		Would that fall under mental sadism, or humiliation play?

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 1:46:41 PM   
Leatherist


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ORIGINAL: sweetwenchie

Would that fall under mental sadism, or humiliation play?


I have a hard time finding that line at times. I guess if one then took off her skirt, diapered her there in the passenger seat, and made her ride the rest of the way like that.........

Not knowing what was going to happen next?

You tell me.

One, the other, maybe both?

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 1:53:39 PM   
sweetwenchie


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Status: offline 		having never been in such a situation myself, i can only think the answer would depend on the individual's personal mental kinks and humiliation buttons. 

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 1:55:26 PM   
Leatherist


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ORIGINAL: sweetwenchie

having never been in such a situation myself, i can only think the answer would depend on the individual's personal mental kinks and humiliation buttons. 


One can only imagine, until one finds an individual actually capable of carrying such a thing out. It's all about that anticipation of knowing-it may not just be a bluff.

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 2:01:42 PM   
daddyncherry


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Status: offline 		i'm HUGELY into verbal stuff, that makes or breaks it for me (as far as subspace and satisfaction for me personally go)...although i will say, the thought doesn't count in my mind unless its actually done at some point....my ex used to make remarks all the time and they never happened and it was like a horrific tease, in a really bad way and ruined alot of what we shared.

It was like okay, talk is cheap, gimme action not JUST words.

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 2:09:28 PM   
Leatherist


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ORIGINAL: daddyncherry

i'm HUGELY into verbal stuff, that makes or breaks it for me (as far as subspace and satisfaction for me personally go)...although i will say, the thought doesn't count in my mind unless its actually done at some point....my ex used to make remarks all the time and they never happened and it was like a horrific tease, in a really bad way and ruined alot of what we shared.

It was like okay, talk is cheap, gimme action not JUST words.


I seldom threaten, I just promise.

The Leatherist has an arsenal that is always expanding. I just got this idea for a doubled over Mystery braid belt. Nice stitched grip, stings like the very devil, sure to leave marks.

At times in the past, I have been "nice" to the tops of sassy girls who had...annoyed me. Gave them presents, little gifts of my handwork.  And evil work it was, crafted with such "loving" attention to every painful detail. In front of those very same girls.

How delightful.the expressions were priceless.

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 2:46:38 PM   
Prinsexx


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Status: offline 		I think you're all a bunch of sadists........................*big smile* *wiped off face*

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RE: Sadistic Mental Stimulation - 2/14/2008 8:47:23 PM   
SailingBum


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Status: offline 		a few of my favorite lines are This is going to hurt you a lot more than me.  Shut the fuck up and take the pain for me.

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