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iammachine -> RE: Thwarting unwarranted advances... (2/12/2008 2:19:13 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Chaze
If you put your wears out there expect someone to inspect them, being a uppity broad will only challenge your pet and I suspect send him to the morgue or emergency room.
This is an unfortunate occupational hazard of public environments. There is always some creep that doesn't understand boundaries. On the contrarty to the above, however, should someone cross those boundaries, you have every right, and perhaps sometimes an obligation, to enforce those boundaries. As a top, there are times I have had to assert boundaries not only for myself, but for a bottom that I am playing with that may not be able to take action for themselves (bondage, gags, subspace, etc). I have no qualms with being an "uppity broad" when I need to be.
At first a simple "please don't touch without permission" should suffice, and reporting the incident to the "powers that be" (DM, host, whatever) should they be available wouldn't be a bad idea for good measure Should the problem persist, the aforementioned powers that be should be able to explain things in a way that the person has no problems understanding; should you have the unfortunate pleasure of being in an environment devoid of much of an authority, by all means, bring out the bitch.
As far as turning people down, there is nothing wrong with short, simple, and to the point. In my experience, the easieast way to say "no thank you" is by simply saying.... "no thank you". [:D]
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