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RE: Wondering subs wish to know - 9/12/2005 12:15:11 AM

Lordandmaster

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I probably hogtie her and make her watch me fuck my beta.

Oh, and maybe I'd leave a humming vibrator about four inches from her pussy, so she'd have to figure out how to inch her way over there if she wants to satisfy herself.

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ORIGINAL: quietlilone

Scenario : You have allowed your sub to go out for the evening ( why you are not with her is beyond the point). she returns to you feeling quite the seductress and acting upon this rush of sensuality.
Question : Do you allow her to continue with her agressive behavior or do you scold her and have her push this emotion away, and why?

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RE: Wondering subs wish to know - 9/12/2005 8:09:44 AM

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I'd let her ravish me then I would punish her for being agressive. Best of both worlds >:)

Wouldn't that be confusing to the sub/slave? Curious. IE...rewarding her with sex, yet to punish her for it? kinda like when I'm teaching my preschool class, why reward the child for negative behavior and then later on punish them for it. I'm a novice and find the way you said this interesting. Just curious mind you as it goes against what I'd be taught in teaching, that is if you don't mind explaining.

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RE: Wondering subs wish to know - 9/12/2005 9:28:32 AM

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kc692: In the future, speak for yourself only as to your preferences

Point taken. It was a rant, didn't mean to offend anybody. I suppose what upsets me is that I feel I am being spoken for or decided for when folks default to terms such as "Domme" or "Mistress" to refer to me.

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RE: Wondering subs wish to know - 9/12/2005 5:13:38 PM

carefulsub

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Ok I am replaying for the Dom in my life.

This scenerio would be stopped at first and he would warn me that if I continued I would be punished(knowingme the red head that I am) that would not stop me in the least. I would start this wantan behavior and then not be able to stop. LOL This would end with some great action and my butt very red later.

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RE: Wondering subs wish to know - 9/13/2005 3:47:46 PM

WickedKev

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If you saw my next answer about no sense of humour you'd understand it was meant as a joke. My slave, if she came back agressively sexual it would be fine by me. I do not always need to take the lead when it comes to sex. We joke about and she knows when I am jokingly punishing her as it is normally physical. When I really punnish it is more mental and there is no confusion. She knows if she has stepped over the mark purely from what she calls 'The Look'. Hope that clears it up for you.

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RE: Wondering subs wish to know - 9/15/2005 7:33:43 AM

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Point taken. It was a rant, didn't mean to offend anybody. I suppose what upsets me is that I feel I am being spoken for or decided for when folks default to terms such as "Domme" or "Mistress" to refer to me.

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Just out of curiosity, how do You wish to be addressed?

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RE: Wondering subs wish to know - 9/15/2005 9:28:01 AM

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cool. Posted my question before I saw your last answer. :)

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RE: Wondering subs wish to know - 9/15/2005 9:59:29 AM

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