here i am

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

here i am

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Introductions] >> Introduce yourself >> here i am

Page: [1]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

here i am - 2/6/2008 9:48:05 PM

standupshaking

Posts: 13
Joined: 12/9/2007
Status: offline

Hello everyone,

I'm excited at the prospect of joining your conversation. I'm 30 and have been interested in various form of dominance, submission and pain since I was sexually aware (what is that, 7?)...but I wasn't really aware that it was such a huge part of my life or even as sexual as it is until about 5 years ago.

I'm only now realizing how important it is to be conscious and knowledgeable about such a thing since it can lead to pretty dangerous situations if you're not. For example, a sexual personality trait as extreme as wanting to become someone's slave (even if only a fantasy) can lead an unconscious person to form relationships with all sorts of predatory characters that could use her in unsavoury ways without her consent or her knowledge. Well, maybe only simple minded bitches like myself. But I like it salty and I'm glad I'm here to learn the rules.

I am a bi and am also happy on either side of the whip. I am very curious to learn how the members of this society have learned to navigate through the ettiquette, emotional and psychological matters of bdsm. I am also interested in learning how to become a professional member of the bdsm community (mmmmany slaves). I've lurked around and read many post and am glad for the opportunity to introduce myself.

yours, standupshaking

Profile

Post #: 1

RE: here i am - 2/6/2008 10:02:59 PM

GreedyTop

Posts: 52100
Joined: 5/2/2007
From: Savannah, GA
Status: offline

welcome! enjoy your stay :)

_____________________________

polysnortatious
Supreme Goddess of Snark
CHARTER MEMBER: Lance's Fag Hags!
Waiting for my madman in a Blue Box.

(in reply to standupshaking)

Profile

Post #: 2

RE: here i am - 2/6/2008 10:52:23 PM

Nineveh

Posts: 1299
Joined: 2/5/2008
Status: offline

I like your handle, and I can relate to your realization of just how important this is to you. I am also thirty and althoguh i have been interested in BDSM as long as i have been interested in sex I hadn't realized until relatively recently how vital it is in order for me to feel fulfilled in my life. Glad to see someone else perhaps facing some of the same sorts of realizations as myself.

(in reply to GreedyTop)

Profile

Post #: 3

RE: here i am - 2/8/2008 11:56:45 AM

CelticPrince

Posts: 3613
Joined: 4/15/2005
Status: offline

standup,

Welcome to CM and all the open opportuniies; settle in and learn/enjoy.

CP

(in reply to standupshaking)

Profile

Post #: 4