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GentleAsRain -> couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 2:28:37 AM)
i think its kind of amusing that most(literally almost all) 'couples seeking a 3rd' are looking for 'F only' well of course. what guy wouldnt want to add a hot F to the already existing m/f sex?..... LOL.. ok i was kidding but was very close to the mark too ...i also hear that most all females in a 'couple seeking' are much more comfortable with the 'like gender' attributes of f/f sex....gentleness, 100% understanding of female needs-emotions( PMS lol kidding) -subliminal body languge/signals etc. but....now think of all the m subs who are earnestly seeking couples.......not much of a list there......practically none. as a former m sub for years...(over time opening up more and more to straight/bi-curious scenarios) i too at one time was interested in serving a m/f couple. that search didnt last long lol.... was just a thought....something for people in this forum to think about, discuss, agree, disagree.....or...maybe not lol Keith

NakedGirlScout -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 2:30:27 AM)
I agree with you s.

GentleAsRain -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 2:35:13 AM)
thank you : )

sammiebabygirl -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 2:43:31 AM)
Just curious, Keith. What made you decide to become a Dom now? jen

SweetDommes -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 2:47:10 AM)
So what does it mean that both families that I know who are seeking a 4th are looking for males? ... just wondering ... As for your actual question, there is a massive double standards of female bi-sexuality/homosexuality vs male bi-sexuality/homosexuality. It's silly, but there - most people seem to think f/f sex is hot, m/m sex is repulsive (both males and females, oddly enough). There was actually a conversation between a coworker and myself the other day - she was talking about how she would be horrified to find her man in bed with another man - I replied that I would only be if I hadn't known about it in advance because I don't deal well with cheating. She just kind of looked at me funny, and my response ... "what? bisexual guys are hot" ... and she decided to end the conversation lol.

ELUSIVE1 -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 3:23:43 AM)
yes Keith- they are all over all the kink sites 'seeking sister sub'...the poly families I have befriended over the years (three) have one thing in common; a Strong Alpha bitch, and the 'male leader' ( call him Daddy/Master or whatever you want, none of these men use 'titles') is the one who communicates with and chooses the females he adds to the mix...makes me laugh too when I see all these men using their subs to chase women..

MRandme -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 3:44:36 AM)
i guess i am one of those (not so) rare women who think m/m sex is incredibly hot! There are lots of us out there but most people think we are nuts, so we cluster together in dark corners and giggle about 'slashy' moments on TV or in the movies. Given the popularity of 'Brokeback Mountain' no one should be surprised -- gay males weren't the only ones who went to see it! my Master and i are seeking a female third, though not too vigorously. This is because He is straight and has no use for a male sub. He has no interest in training another male. myself?? i'd love to find myself in the middle of two guys. fans self and i think alot of other women find that sort of scenario attractive. g

Dnomyar -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 5:00:34 AM)
What is the difference of a sub seeking a female partner to join them or a couple doing the same thing. Just different wording.

Daddyskittin -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 5:58:55 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GentleAsRain i think its kind of amusing that most(literally almost all) 'couples seeking a 3rd' are looking for 'F only' well of course. what guy wouldnt want to add a hot F to the already existing m/f sex?..... LOL.. ok i was kidding but was very close to the mark too ...i also hear that most all females in a 'couple seeking' are much more comfortable with the 'like gender' attributes of f/f sex....gentleness, 100% understanding of female needs-emotions( PMS lol kidding) -subliminal body languge/signals etc. but....now think of all the m subs who are earnestly seeking couples.......not much of a list there......practically none. as a former m sub for years...(over time opening up more and more to straight/bi-curious scenarios) i too at one time was interested in serving a m/f couple. that search didnt last long lol.... was just a thought....something for people in this forum to think about, discuss, agree, disagree.....or...maybe not lol Keith Oh agree Keith... I've always chalked it all up to that seemly universal male fantasy of the two females... I have poly on my profile which seems to attract people especially males labling themselves as dominants... masters... daddy's... etc to email me...which I find rather silly that they even bother in the first place considering I already belong to someone... but none the less I am a curious kittin, and often ask them what it is they are seeking from a second female... and I've yet to get a response back that didn't center around their sexual desires... which I find extremely disappointing... and I'd just like to add for the record... my Daddy, and I have, and continue to seek a male sub or slave. quote: ORIGINAL: ELUSIVE1 ...makes me laugh too when I see all these men using their subs to chase women.. lol elusive... this amusing me to no end too... because at least to me it has to be the biggest turn off, and has the strongest ring of falseness... the second being the male who doesn't allow any contact between the female they have and the female they are trying to obtain... (giggles)

RoughFN -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 6:21:46 AM)
But...so what's wrong with it? Okay, the guys want to do a threesome or watch two girls go at it. Is that so bad? As was stated earlier, f/f sex is more widely considered hot than m/m sex. I sure get the impression (at least looking at profiles on here) that there are more bisexual women than men. In my personal life, I think they're about 50/50, though. Besides, organizing a threesome is fairly difficult. You've gotta find a girl that's actually interested in it. They're not that easy to find in normal relationships. If somebody just wants to date and snuggle and raise a family, then munching on some other chick may not be high on her list of priorities for her relationship. So the guys find a girl on here who's open to it, then they're halfway there and why shouldn't they take advantage of it? Basically, what's the point of the post? Social commentary that there are more bi women than men? Commenting on the fact that guys like to look at naked chicks? Insisting that doms should somehow pretend to be bi and seek out male slaves to make things more fair? I'm not trying to be argumentative, I just don't really see what there is to discuss. Especially if it's just gonna turn into another "LOL! Loserz!" thread.

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 6:33:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RoughFN But...so what's wrong with it? Okay, the guys want to do a threesome or watch two girls go at it. Is that so bad? As was stated earlier, f/f sex is more widely considered hot than m/m sex. I sure get the impression (at least looking at profiles on here) that there are more bisexual women than men. In my personal life, I think they're about 50/50, though. Besides, organizing a threesome is fairly difficult. You've gotta find a girl that's actually interested in it. They're not that easy to find in normal relationships. If somebody just wants to date and snuggle and raise a family, then munching on some other chick may not be high on her list of priorities for her relationship. So the guys find a girl on here who's open to it, then they're halfway there and why shouldn't they take advantage of it? Basically, what's the point of the post? Social commentary that there are more bi women than men? Commenting on the fact that guys like to look at naked chicks? Insisting that doms should somehow pretend to be bi and seek out male slaves to make things more fair? I'm not trying to be argumentative, I just don't really see what there is to discuss. Especially if it's just gonna turn into another "LOL! Loserz!" thread. Honesty!!! Thank you RoughFN!!!! You know what, there is nothing wrong with it. Take a working poly relationship.. M/F/F sex, is the cherry on top of an already great sundae.. Take a working M/F relationship, D/s or vanilla.. add a one time (or once in awhile) female sex partner and it can be fantastic! But jealousy can become a major issue very quickly and problems arise when the partners in the primary relationship do not do everything they can to make each other feel emotionally"safe".. Often, men can be clueless idiots when it comes to handling two women in bed because whether you realize it or not, every glance, every kiss, every nuance, every gesture is seen, examined and filed away for later... But this is all just my opinion..

Daddyskittin -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 6:40:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RoughFN But...so what's wrong with it? Okay, the guys want to do a threesome or watch two girls go at it. Is that so bad? As was stated earlier, f/f sex is more widely considered hot than m/m sex. I sure get the impression (at least looking at profiles on here) that there are more bisexual women than men. In my personal life, I think they're about 50/50, though. Besides, organizing a threesome is fairly difficult. You've gotta find a girl that's actually interested in it. They're not that easy to find in normal relationships. If somebody just wants to date and snuggle and raise a family, then munching on some other chick may not be high on her list of priorities for her relationship. So the guys find a girl on here who's open to it, then they're halfway there and why shouldn't they take advantage of it? Basically, what's the point of the post? Social commentary that there are more bi women than men? Commenting on the fact that guys like to look at naked chicks? Insisting that doms should somehow pretend to be bi and seek out male slaves to make things more fair? I'm not trying to be argumentative, I just don't really see what there is to discuss. Especially if it's just gonna turn into another "LOL! Loserz!" thread. Theres nothing wrong with wanting a 3some with me... but when it's hidden behind lies of wanting a poly relationship... poly house... or poly family... thats where I have issues with it.... as to the more bi-females than bi-males... speaking for myself I know way more bisexual males than bisexual females... I feel in general more females are more comfortable readily admitting being bisexual or pretending to be bisexual to attract males... than I know males who will openly admit their bisexuality. kittin

RedMagic1 -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 6:52:25 AM)
I really enjoy f/f, and I've never had a sexual fantasy about another man. That said, I've been in a situation where a woman I loved refused to engage in a sexual activity because she thought it was "sick" and I know how frustrating that feels. If a woman I loved had a m/m fantasy, I would be glad to give it to her for her birthday -- assuming of course the guy was not whacked, everything was safe, she and I were secure in each other, all that jazz. For my 24th birthday, a woman gave me a present of a scene with me and six women. I was naked; they were not. It was very nice. I doubt I would have enjoyed it as much if another man had been present. I agree with BSB, and don't see any reason to get too complicated here. How about (1) build trust with your partner, (2) do your best to please your partner, (3) inspire your partner to do their best at pleasing you?

mhawk -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 7:05:45 AM)
i saw something in this that i foud interesting and just wanted to touch on. someone mentioned in poly guys want to watch 2 women ot join in essentially. the house i am in is poly. i am Owned by my Lord and by my Mistress, who are husband and wife. very rarely is there sexual interaction with all 3 of us at the same time and it is also very rare that Our Lord watches. my service is to both my Lord and Mistress but it is His choice wether sexual interaction with all of us at the same time happen,He actually preffers that it doesn't. but it still works of all of us in the long run. i just think it varries for different people.when my Lord and Mistress were searching it was decided by both of them that they would rather have a female slave than have a male one,i am primarily my Lord's slave but i am also my Mistresses slave and as Se has stated many times She is happier to have a female slave/toy.

AquaticSub -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 9:11:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GentleAsRain i think its kind of amusing that most(literally almost all) 'couples seeking a 3rd' are looking for 'F only' well of course. what guy wouldnt want to add a hot F to the already existing m/f sex?..... LOL.. ok i was kidding but was very close to the mark too ...i also hear that most all females in a 'couple seeking' are much more comfortable with the 'like gender' attributes of f/f sex....gentleness, 100% understanding of female needs-emotions( PMS lol kidding) -subliminal body languge/signals etc. but....now think of all the m subs who are earnestly seeking couples.......not much of a list there......practically none. as a former m sub for years...(over time opening up more and more to straight/bi-curious scenarios) i too at one time was interested in serving a m/f couple. that search didnt last long lol.... was just a thought....something for people in this forum to think about, discuss, agree, disagree.....or...maybe not lol Keith The reasons we are looking for a woman, not a man: 1) We are looking for me really, not him and I already have a penis that I like very much - I miss breasts. 2) He probably won't have sex with her but I'd like to option to be open. Women are the gender we both like. 3) Since this is for me and not him, I never feel even remotely dominant towards men nor am I interested in equal power exchanges with them. What we are looking for is something where I am either in charge of or (more likely) in an equal power relationship with the other woman. shrugs Frankly, it doesn't strike me as big deal. It's just the way things have worked out and will probably stay that way for awhile yet. There isn't a point in telling people to be PC with their relationships because they shouldn't be. They should do what works for them, not what looks good or is equal opportunity.

juliaoceania -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 9:25:56 AM)
quote: was just a thought....something for people in this forum to think about, discuss, agree, disagree.....or...maybe not lol what is to discuss, people want what they want. People seek what they want. People shouldn't have to apologize for what they want. I do not understand what we are supposed to agree or disagree with or discuss. Your first line is kinda inflammatory quote: think its kind of amusing that most(literally almost all) 'couples seeking a 3rd' are looking for 'F only' well of course. what guy wouldnt want to add a hot F to the already existing m/f sex?..... LOL.. What is amusing about it? I don't get that.

Wildfleurs -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 9:31:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GentleAsRain i think its kind of amusing that most(literally almost all) 'couples seeking a 3rd' are looking for 'F only' well of course. what guy wouldnt want to add a hot F to the already existing m/f sex?..... LOL.. ok i was kidding but was very close to the mark too ...i also hear that most all females in a 'couple seeking' are much more comfortable with the 'like gender' attributes of f/f sex....gentleness, 100% understanding of female needs-emotions( PMS lol kidding) -subliminal body languge/signals etc. but....now think of all the m subs who are earnestly seeking couples.......not much of a list there......practically none. as a former m sub for years...(over time opening up more and more to straight/bi-curious scenarios) i too at one time was interested in serving a m/f couple. that search didnt last long lol.... was just a thought....something for people in this forum to think about, discuss, agree, disagree.....or...maybe not lol Keith Well I'm bisexual (I have been since I can remember) and my owner is straight so of course if we are both attracted to women we are going to look for a .... woman. And since my owner isn't a switch, what else would he look for but a submissive woman? C~ Edited to add: I find male on male sex absolutely hot!

LadyPact -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 9:49:31 AM)
Add Me in with the group that thinks m/m sex is hot. Granted, there are a lot of people who don't like to hear that, but that's their personal preference. There's absolutely no difference between a female thinking m/m sex is a turn on, than a male thinking f/f sex is a turn on. The only difference is that f/f sex has become more accepted, so females have more ability to be open about being bi than males do. For the record, it really is just as hard to find a bi male to join a poly family as it is a bi female. Just as much goes into searching, and determining compatability. Nobody is suggesting that just because you throw to bisexual people into a stiuation means it's going to work. That's what makes the search so difficult looking for either gender. Most don't get past the hopes of the intense sexual, to think about looking for a person.

ownedgirlie -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 9:52:55 AM)
We seek either or both, it just depends. Each would have his/her use. I'm not really sure what all the laughing and amusement is all about, that was expressed on your post.

TheShadows -> RE: couple seeks 'F' only ....lol (1/30/2008 10:19:00 AM)
I don't understand the amusement either, but whatever. We must be in the minority of your "literally almost all". We'd prefer either male or female for a slave. As a female, I find all gender mixtures of sex to be nifty. I find male/male sex to be especially hot. Need I remind folks that our lifestyle forefathers happened to be experts on male/male sex? As always, YMMV... ~TheShadows~

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