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CreativeDominant -> RE: Phone sex. What does it do for you? (1/28/2008 12:16:54 PM)
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael
Remember, 95% of men masturbate and the other 5% lie about it.
I enjoy phone sex, it isn't as hot as having sex in person but it can still be hot. A big part of sex is mental and if you are creative, there is a lot of fun to be had. Talking to someone while they are sitting in a restaraunt masterbating can be fun, or sending them to an adult store and having them explain how they are training their ass and do they have larger buttplugs can be charmingly humiliating.
Guided fantasies is something we don't hear much about anymore but they talk about doing it in The Topping Book as well as The Bottoming Book. Where you add in a few sensory details to a fantasy you can't actually do, say starting up a chainsaw while a person is blindfolded and bound. Tends to get a rather visceral reaction. Phone sex can be a lot of fun in the same way and while I would rather sit on the couch next to her and read, if I can't actually be with her, phone sex isn't a bad way to get off.
Nicely said, Michael. I would think most people would prefer being in person, doing it in the flesh but when that cannot happen...for whatever reason...a good imagination and the creativity to use it and a willingness on both parts to set aside preconception can be an acceptable substitute. It can even be fun in its own way.
I find it a tad ironic that people who know that they are setting aside many realities and accepting at least some "smoke and mirrors" (fear play, rape play, etc., etc.) cannot do the same with phone sex...but as has been noted before...that is their world. Perhaps, if those same folks consider some of what has been said on here in favor of it, they just might change their minds.
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