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safeword question - 1/21/2008 6:24:44 PM

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my Sir has made my new safeword "chicken butt." seriously. O.o

what's the funniest or oddest safeword you've ever had or given??

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 6:32:24 PM

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coo-coo-ka-chew... from the Beetles song... to date I have never had to use it.

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 6:58:22 PM

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rhinocerous.

yeah, like I'd remember THAT....lol

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 7:22:17 PM

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Hockey! Ha haa it wasn't mine, it was a friends. I thought it was hilarious.

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 7:42:54 PM

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I originally played with "yellow", "red", and "bullfrog".

Yellow was "slow down what you're currently doing, I'm starting to get uncomfortable"
Red was "stop what you're currently doing, I can't take it any more"
Bullfrog was "HOLY SHIT STOP EVERYTHING AND CUT ME DOWN RIGHT NOW! OMGOMOMG!"

On the rationale that nobody was going to shout out "bullfrog" in the heat of passion.

Regardless, I've subsequently dropped down to just yellow and red. Yellow still means slow down (which I'd interpret as stopping what I'm doing), and red I treat as stop everything and make sure she's okay before continuing. But it's been years since I've heard either of 'em.

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 7:46:34 PM

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I have never been given a funny safeword. It is for one use, and one use only, to let him know I believe myself to be in peril, as such it is "red"... and I cannot conceive we would ever change it because "red" is rather easy to say and remember. I would not want to have to say coo coo ca choo if I was in trouble... too cumbersome for me.

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 7:47:44 PM

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LOL

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 8:01:05 PM

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Well, I've sat and compared notes with friends of mine on this and we compiled a list of amusing ones:
Panda
Xerox
FedEx
Capitalism
Republican
Wormykins (I don't know, not mine)
Pumba
She-ra
Banana

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 8:06:30 PM

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i actually heard of someone using: dumbya i laughed histarically when i heard that one.....

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 8:16:35 PM

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Master assigned me a safeword the first time we ever played. I promptly forgot it. Oh boy, did I get in trouble for that! I never forgot it again. It is redbird. It incorporates the standard 'red', but is still nothing you would ever say by accident.

The weird thing is- the one time I should have said it, my mind was so ferkleftka (gone, blank, nowhere, out to lunch) that I did not use it. Physically I was fine, but mentally I had fallen off the deep end- and not in a good way.

Hmm, I think I'll start a thread about not being able to use safewords....

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 8:18:42 PM

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LOL I just noticed that!!

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 8:21:50 PM

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quote:

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Master assigned me a safeword the first time we ever played. I promptly forgot it. Oh boy, did I get in trouble for that! I never forgot it again. It is redbird. It incorporates the standard 'red', but is still nothing you would ever say by accident.

The weird thing is- the one time I should have said it, my mind was so ferkleftka (gone, blank, nowhere, out to lunch) that I did not use it. Physically I was fine, but mentally I had fallen off the deep end- and not in a good way.

Hmm, I think I'll start a thread about not being able to use safewords....

subspace at it's best....or worst whichever way you want to think of it....

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RE: safeword question - 1/21/2008 8:23:02 PM

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my safeword was, once upon a time, "turtle"... given to me by my first Domme. Then it became the name of my (now ex-)fiance's kid, because it was easy to remember and not going to get yelled out during sex/anything, but also because that way if she came into the room for some reason, then saying something TO her would also be safewording out and get the attention of my fiance.

having colours be safewords totally does not work for me. I can't remember them, I feel stupid, and also, my fave colour is red so really, having "red" as a safeword is stupid for me--saying red in scene without it being a safeword is too likely. Also, originally when I had to choose a safeword, I was told that I should choose one that a) would not come up during a typical sex or service scene, but that b) I could use in conversation if I needed help (ex: getting away from someone I was talking to) but did not want to clue anyone ELSE in. Thusly, having a conversation with someone about, I dunno, tattoos or something... and I say well I've always wanted to get a TURTLE on my ass. Anyone from my Domme's household who could hear me (and we always stayed in earshot of each other at parties) would IMMEDIATELY insist that she needed to see me NOW, and thank the gentleman for his time but I would be leaving now. [[Incidentally, I did end up having a conversation with someone who bred turtles, and I had to tell them why I refused to say the word turtle at that party. It made me giggle.]]

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RE: safeword question - 1/22/2008 8:32:40 PM

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my backstory: i had bought someone a birthday card that said "Guess what? ... Chicken Butt!" which made me giggle quite a lot, and i kept pulling the joke on Sir. Hence it finally becoming a safeword ;) he admits he woulnd't make me use it in the heat of a heavy scene. but i can easily see him goofing on me during lighter scenes. i LOVE the laughter in play!

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RE: safeword question - 1/22/2008 8:49:45 PM

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i LOVE the laughter in play!

Same here

Some people are so dam stiff and serious all the time how dull

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RE: safeword question - 1/22/2008 9:17:18 PM

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RE: safeword question - 1/22/2008 9:24:59 PM

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I have never had the pleasure of having one, but if I get to choose....I'm going to pick "Reaganomics" or, 'Adlai Stevenson".

Seriously.

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RE: safeword question - 1/23/2008 12:20:47 AM

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I have never had the pleasure of having one, but if I get to choose....I'm going to pick "Reaganomics" or, 'Adlai Stevenson".

Seriously.

Ok, that just made me spew my beer...LMAO!!

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RE: safeword question - 1/23/2008 5:17:40 AM

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So if he's depending on you to remember the safeword, and you're shouting red instead, and he injures you - is he going to blame you for forgetting the weird safeword of the day?

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RE: safeword question - 1/23/2008 5:52:45 AM

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We were at Paddles and celebrating my girlfriend’s birthday. Another friend was tied up, playing with a couple at the time. She was given a ridiculous safe word ( don’t remember ) . She wanted to safe word… couldn’t remember it. You could tell the couple was slowing down, seemed to realize the scene was about over anyway…. Then over the PA it was announce that cake was being server. She yelled, “I WANT CAKE!” The place burst into laughter and she was released. So our inside joke is that official safe word of Paddles is, “I want cake!”

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