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MidMichCowboy -> RE: Is this a valid thought process? (1/13/2008 3:53:17 PM)
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ORIGINAL: flower2007
I've begun to think that I'm not submissive as much as I like the idea of being "forced" to submit. Obviously (or not so obviously) this is only a bedroom type of thing, and doesn't lend itself much to 24/7. I could be mistaken there, though. I've just never really read anything like this.
Anyone else care to clue me in? Do other people actually think like this?
That is a very valid feeling. I've know women who just wanted to please and I've known women who pushed a man till he "took" them. It’s the feelings that you have inside you, that only you can understand. My last wife (I've only had 2) was that way. She is a very take charge lady, but she wants to be "taken". When she gets bitchy, she needs a good spanking and rape. If you ask her, she will never admit that. Once it’s done, she coos like a dove for days. Because of her upbringing, she will never discuss or acknowledge her needs. But, for her, they are valid as your feelings are for you.
You have to know what is inside you. Don't let anyone tell you that you are really craving "whatever". You know, inside your heart and mind what it is you need to be happy in life. Once you know, then and only then, can you find the partner who can satisfy those needs.
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