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Scening - 1/10/2008 2:55:45 PM

faerytattoodgirl

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If your craving for a play scene and your not currently collared and have no prospects of being collared.... and you cant afford or wouldnt pay for a pro.

What do you do?

Its been many years (2002) since my last play scene....and i want to remember what it feels like to hurt so good. Though i dont go out to clubs or anything and my only source of contacting people is from online. I get a little jolt of it when i go get tattoo's as there is some pain involved in that in certain areas.

Being a lesbian... should i now then include my search for a sadistic dom male just to satisfy my masochist needs?Keeping in mind these things would not be sexual. I really doubt i could have a relationship with a male that didnt involve sex.

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RE: Scening - 1/10/2008 3:21:37 PM

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If you won't go to a club or munch you are going to hve a hard time finding someone to scene with. Even if you've had a bad experience with one munch or club group doesn't mean that another one won't work out better for you.

As to scening with a dom male, I wouldn't think you're likely to find one willing and able to forego any sexual contact without it being a rather extreme sadist. Although you might have some luck finding a Dom male/sub female couple where the girl likes to scene with agirl while the Dom watches. I know several couples like that and from what I've seen the contact is usually all girl on girl and limited to kissing and groping.

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RE: Scening - 1/10/2008 3:34:48 PM

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A scene at a club may not be exactly what you are looking for, but there should be no danger of any relationship involving sex in that sort of play.

Your contacts online are going to be much less productive than in a real time setting like a club.

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RE: Scening - 1/10/2008 6:45:35 PM

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If your craving for a play scene and your not currently collared and have no prospects of being collared.... and you cant afford or wouldnt pay for a pro.

What do you do?

Go to play parties.

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RE: Scening - 1/10/2008 6:50:13 PM

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If your craving for a play scene and your not currently collared and have no prospects of being collared.... and you cant afford or wouldnt pay for a pro.

What do you do?

Go to play parties.

You have to know people in the scene to do that...and i dont know anyone.

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RE: Scening - 1/10/2008 7:24:21 PM

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I'd go to one of the local play parties and find myself someone else similarly alone that night and negotiate play time with them.

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If your craving for a play scene and your not currently collared and have no prospects of being collared.... and you cant afford or wouldnt pay for a pro.

What do you do?

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RE: Scening - 1/10/2008 8:47:14 PM

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Do you have to know someone? The hosts of our local events (or their trusty DM's, like myself!) make introductions all the time. Granted, we don't pimp anyone out, and it's up to them to scene or not, but it's the job of an event host to keep the social action moving along.

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RE: Scening - 1/10/2008 10:04:39 PM

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Yeah really.
I,ll paddle your ass for free, no expectations.
Something about it is just pleasing enough when you think about it.

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RE: Scening - 1/11/2008 12:15:22 AM

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No. you dont't HAVE to, it's not some rule or law or something unless you go to exclusive invite onlys, but it does make it nicer sometimes to know people.

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ORIGINAL: faerytattoodgirl

If your craving for a play scene and your not currently collared and have no prospects of being collared.... and you cant afford or wouldnt pay for a pro.

What do you do?

Go to play parties.

You have to know people in the scene to do that...and i dont know anyone.