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SimplyMichael -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/10/2008 12:46:17 PM)

Lay out a fat mammal killer of a line and I can fuck all night long but can't cum.

Suleiman is right, one uses the same muscles that you use to stop peeing to stop ejaculation.  It takes some exercise and practice but not much.  Just one more thing the West just do well.




tigerstyle -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/11/2008 8:11:24 AM)

I've done a lot of work on ejaculation control as part of my interest in Taoism and certain kinds of meditation, but while I can pretty much prolong the "plateau" phase as long as I want, multiple Os at will have always been out of reach. Sometimes they just happen on their own. I've had quite a few "double pops", but I can never control it. It's just a gift from the penis gods and I take it as such.




SubWanted08 -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/11/2008 8:35:38 AM)

When I was younger...I could cum 6 times on the same hard on...no lie. As I get older, I find that it is harder to achieve multiple orgasms which is due to my lack of activity, meds, smoking and life in general. I do find that even with all the cards stacked against me, if I hold that first hard on longer to the point of cumming it is more likely to stay that way. Just like building up an orgasm in a woman. If you hold her longer to that point of no return, it gets more and  more intense. Another thing that I think helps me is when I am in the vagina and achieved orgasm, have my sub squeeze her pussy and make long strokes. It is a milking effect. This allows some of the sensitivity to subside and the next one to build.

A few years ago, I asked my doc why I wasn't cumming multiple on the same hard on most of the time. His answer was "Welcome to the real world" I laughed.

Hope this helps for us not so healthy guys. It is however better with good sleep, diet and healthy living.




sirguym -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/11/2008 1:49:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: BitchGoddessD

There is a book you might find helpful = The Multi-Orgasmic Man




Prinsexx -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/11/2008 4:11:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Petronius

Masters and Johnson pointed out in "Human Sexual Response" that the orgasm is a two-stage process where the second stage involves, among other things, ejaculation.



I never could read at the same time as cumming and never met a man who could read either................






Griswold -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/11/2008 5:45:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: slaverosebeauty

My question is it possible, if so HOW?!
 
Yes, it is...but we have to determine some key points;
 
I presume you're thinking...."within a reasonable period of time".
 
This IS possible.  For men....that typically means "tommorrow".  If you can expand your deifinitions...I think we can agree.
 
My current partner has done this one time [2 back to back and he didn't get soft]; we are hoping it wasn't a one time thing, instead we want it to become a regular thing if that's possible.
 
Okay..."back to back" for a man would typically involve something along the lines of Nuns, 3 lesbians screaming at the top of their lungs "I WANT YOU, YOU DIRTY LITTLE WHORE"...as of course they're chawing down on each other, leaving the scene only long enough to put some ruby red gloss lipstick on, and then coming directly back to chawing down on one or more of the other two, looking directly at the male sub screaming at the top of their lungs "I WANT YOU, YOU DIRTY LITTLE WHORE".

I'm VERY multiple orgasmic (me too...see above...April and July are my best months), which from past partners is a good thing for a woman, especially a slave to be; yet, this is something we both want to share in.  He has 'threatened' to tie me up to the bed until this is accomplished {promises promises promises}, but, we both work and have lives, so me being tied to the bed for a few weeks is not very practical, a few days is already being plotted from what I gleaned the other night.
 
If anyone has any ideas as to HOW a man CAN orgasm multiple times in one 'session' I would appreciate the suggestions or advice.

(See above)




Suleiman -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/11/2008 6:29:56 PM)

I beg your pardon, but I am quite literate.  'Never met a man who could read' indeed! Harrumph!

THIS is the sort of thing that makes a grammar fascist out of me. I don't mind incedental typos, nor minor malaprops, nor uses of vernacular or vulgar argot, but for crying out loud, whole and coherent sentences are required to communicate in a text based format. .





Lordandmaster -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/11/2008 7:35:57 PM)

Why is it impossible for people to make comments about grammar and spelling errors without making mistakes of their own?

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ORIGINAL: Suleiman

I beg your pardon, but I am quite literate.  'Never met a man who could read' indeed! Harrumph!

THIS is the sort of thing that makes a grammar fascist out of me. I don't mind incedental typos, nor minor malaprops, nor uses of vernacular or vulgar argot, but for crying out loud, whole and coherent sentences are required to communicate in a text based format.




lauren0221 -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/11/2008 7:37:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster

Why is it impossible for people to make comments about grammar and spelling errors without making mistakes of their own?

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ORIGINAL: Suleiman

I beg your pardon, but I am quite literate.  'Never met a man who could read' indeed! Harrumph!

THIS is the sort of thing that makes a grammar fascist out of me. I don't mind incedental typos, nor minor malaprops, nor uses of vernacular or vulgar argot, but for crying out loud, whole and coherent sentences are required to communicate in a text based format.



Karma.




Aileen1968 -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/11/2008 7:39:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: tigerstyle
It's just a gift from the penis gods and I take it as such.


Heh heh heh. 




Jeffff -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/11/2008 7:40:43 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lauren02

Karma.


What goes around cums around..............over and over?

Jeff




lauren0221 -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/11/2008 8:14:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

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ORIGINAL: lauren02

Karma.


What goes around cums around..............over and over?

Jeff


One can only hope! And am surprised I did not typo karma:)




hotmuffin -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/12/2008 2:06:58 AM)

Little off topic but.....

Masters and Johnson's Sexual Response cycle is well worth noting (it was a start to investigating sexual reponses) is a linear model but the argument is that because it is purely a physical model, it doesnt take into account the factors of satisfaction of pleasure. Other theories disband the "stage" like process that and liken it to a circular model i.e Whipple and Brash-McGreer, Basson etc, which can lead to continuous arousal and resolution at any given moment during pleasuring activities i.e multiple orgasms etc. Further, the Masters and Johnson theory is more focused on the genitalia stimulation and responses and, hopefully most of you would agree, pleasure and satisfaction is not just about the genitals. Everyone is different in their responses and part of the fun is discovering how our or our partners bodies work and respond.

There is also the theory that all woman are capable of ejaculation. For some its natural, for others, they need to learn how which is the same for men being multi orgasmic. Practice and discover! Its so worth spending some time with yourself to learn even greater pleasure for yourself and others. Thats my bit except i do also highly reccomend The MultiOrgasmic Man too.

;pxxx





Suleiman -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/12/2008 6:08:34 AM)

Hey - all I asked for were whole and complete sentences. That typo you highlighted was clearly absolving the odd misspelled word that might occur every now and again.




Justme696 -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/12/2008 7:13:52 AM)

For me it is just the girl that makes me orgasm more often, the ejaculation reduces of course. Especially when I am in love with an exciting slave then I can do more often.
It is mind setting. If there is pleasure for both and the act is exciting then it will be eassier to orgasm again





Feric -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/14/2008 12:16:13 AM)

My record so far is seven in one night.






YourhandMyAss -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/15/2008 1:39:56 AM)

James has taught himself how to keep the yummy sensations coming longer after all the cum has come out, not really sure how he did it though, but he gently squeezes and barely pulls the head, after all the cum has come out and that keeps the orgasm happening longer and for many more times than one oh god oh yum done moment.




LINQ -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/15/2008 6:01:34 AM)

Yes it's possible. It's also possible to orgasm without ejaculating.  It is all down to taking your time.  Most men are in too much of a hurry.  As men get older the amount of sperm produced decreases, so the number of ejaculations decreases, but that does not mean the number of orgasms has to reduce too.




LINQ -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/15/2008 6:08:03 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Marc2b

LuckyAlbatross is right – while ejaculation and orgasm are connected, they’re not married to each other. Learn to separate the two and you’re on your way to whole new realms of ecstasy.

In my younger days – when I was, shall we say, less worldly – I had the good fortune of meeting a wonderful woman, fifteen years my senior, who educated me about a few things. When, during conversation, I mentioned the old canard that only women can have multiple orgasms, she laughed and then proceeded to instruct me.

First, she told me, there is a definite quantity versus quality relationship. You can get off every day if you want but if you let the juices simmer for a couple of days...

Second, lots of foreplay with several occasions of coming close and then backing off to cool the jets a little.

Third, when its near time to launch – resist the orgasm. Resist it with everything you got. You’re going to lose eventually but the longer you hold out... That’s the key, she said, the longer you can hold yourself on the brink, the greater and longer it’s going to be.

Fourth, when you do orgasm, surrender to it completely, don’t hold anything back.

We then proceeded to the practical portion of the instruction. At first I thought I had done something wrong when I had ejaculated several seconds before the first of three orgasms hit but she assured me that I was off to a good start and that it would only get better with practice (I asked if we could schedule the next practice session right then and there).

Looking back I realize that I owe that woman a lot. If I had never met her my sex life would,’t have been half as great as it has been.


I would agree with most of this  and I can have multiples




Justme696 -> RE: Men and Multiple Orgasms.... (1/15/2008 10:02:15 AM)

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Most men are in too much of a hurry.



Noooooooo,  It is not caused by us, but the suductiv ladies!!!!!!!

Btw my girl lived far away, when i arrived I was needy. The first tiem you cum fast, but later it takes longer..hence you can play longer. Not so bad afther all.




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