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Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 3:10:45 PM

MasDom

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I,ve learned that honestly if you want something to work out, you should push for something that is in real life a functioning relationship of some sort, rather then let it slide as you plan ahead supposedly.
Of course not over react and demand to much to soon, but rather realize were the shared mentality truly lies in a situation, and go for that less you want to be strung around all your time.

Funny, as I evolve all the games people play just seem so...Unecissary...

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 3:51:44 PM

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But I LIKE backgammon so much.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 3:55:01 PM

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I'm a fan of nude twister myself, but that seems to be getting outlawed.

Back on topic, I too hate games and prefer up front answers that might be a bit painful but are totally honet without being unnecessarily hurtful. However, pushing things often pushes others away (at least in my experience.) This is a lesson I must learn and improve upon.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 3:57:56 PM

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To all a lacking of demeanor, I hardly see any intellect in a child like nature.
But it has its place, and for that say as you will.
Who am I to crush the happy aperture, of the sublime?...

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 3:59:56 PM

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Jest if you will.
In this place we must find not a mocking way leading to the same withering...
So smiles all around, please cheer and rejoice.
It has its place i,m sure...

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 4:31:25 PM

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My New Years resolve is to no longer back down.
So all i,m saying is why try to belittle me?
If your not going to take my topic serious, then just don't post on it..

Collar me is tuff enough with every one trying to bite every one else's head off.
There are people creating characters, factual falsehoods in there relationships as ways to disconnect soon as a person doesn't match up perfectly to there pristine needs.
Our bickering only leading to a lack of any true direction to follow.

If all in jest fine, but theirs a humor section just one click down.
And to that realize your no better, Just what you supposedly see me as.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 4:41:14 PM

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Biting your head off???? Get over yourself. I gave you a bit of humor AND a serious answer, CalifChick gave you a bit of humor. That is not being disrespectful or belittling, but I am certain that we can provide such services if you want to know what they really are.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 5:13:27 PM

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If there was a question in your original post, I missed it.

If you were saying, "look at me, look what I learned, what a good boy am I", then I saw no reason to respond to that particular paragraph.

You did say games were unnecessary, which I disagree with.

If you want belittling, then just ask for it, and I'll be happy to start. [Side note to Mod 11: If he asks for it, may I please?]

Cali

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 5:48:45 PM

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I'm with califchick. There's just something about the angsty sad gothy sort of tone the OPs taking that just makes me want to take the piss out of him

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 5:57:11 PM

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Masdom, you're obviously sad, so I'm going to be serious. I'm with muttling and yourself on this. Pissing about and flirting is all good fun, but when actual feelings are involved, no. If you connect with someone or not, honesty is essential from all parties ASAP. It's unfair to string someone along, as well as hurtful.

You've got a handle on it now, so you will be more wary and cynical next time and won't easily fall into the same trap.

Chin up.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 6:00:40 PM

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quote:

So smiles all around, please cheer and rejoice.

Is this a call for kumbaya?

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 6:04:49 PM

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Years ago, I used to take long, meandering Sunday drives. We would aim to get to a certain town by midafternoon for lunch, but we didn't take the Thruway, we picked little roads and stopped everytime we saw something worth stopping for. Frequently we would come upon a general store and pick up sandwiches instead to eat at a stream we happened upon. We stopped to pick wildflowers, to look at waterfalls, to climb up hills and admire the view.

What we didn't do was insist on getting to the goal. If we had done that, we could have made the drive in 45 minutes and missed everything worthwhile along the way.

I feel the same about relationships. Pushing to get to a predetermined spot prevents you from discovering new things about yourself and your partner. And it's a lot less pleasant.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 10:25:31 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Suleiman

.........makes me want to take the piss out of him

I'm not into watersports, but whatever floats your boat dude.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 10:28:18 PM

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an ugly truth is preferable to a pretty lie.

just my two cents.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 10:36:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Years ago, I used to take long, meandering Sunday drives. We would aim to get to a certain town by midafternoon for lunch, but we didn't take the Thruway, we picked little roads and stopped everytime we saw something worth stopping for. Frequently we would come upon a general store and pick up sandwiches instead to eat at a stream we happened upon. We stopped to pick wildflowers, to look at waterfalls, to climb up hills and admire the view.

What we didn't do was insist on getting to the goal. If we had done that, we could have made the drive in 45 minutes and missed everything worthwhile along the way.

I feel the same about relationships. Pushing to get to a predetermined spot prevents you from discovering new things about yourself and your partner. And it's a lot less pleasant.

What a thoughtful post.

I`m going to steal it for myself,if you don`t mind.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 10:40:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

an ugly truth is preferable to a pretty lie.

just my two cents.

And,.....what if the pretty lie , has a ~ really~ nice ass?

What then?

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/3/2008 10:46:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: Owner59

And,.....what if the pretty lie , has a ~ really~ nice ass?

What then?

Awww, thank you so much for noticing sweetie.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/4/2008 2:27:11 AM

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If the pretty lie has a really nice ass, then I get to lie about her having a prostate and she will let me check her for prostate cancer.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/4/2008 9:42:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: Muttling

If the pretty lie has a really nice ass, then I get to lie about her having a prostate and she will let me check her for prostate cancer.

I think that, um, prostate is in there deep, really deep, deeperrrrrrrrrr.

http://www.expedia.com ... Fresno to Nashville... $425 including taxes and fees.

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RE: Cutting to the chase. - 1/4/2008 10:06:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: MasDom

To all a lacking of demeanor, I hardly see any intellect in a child like nature.
But it has its place, and for that say as you will.
Who am I to crush the happy aperture, of the sublime?...

I tend to consider spelling and grammar as a measure of intellect, myself. Beyond that, sounds like you skinned your knee on a cyber slut. The truth is, we find what we're looking for online. If we're looking for fantasy, we find it. If we're looking for reality, we can find that too. Good things don't come easily, but finding someone compatible online takes time, patience, and a willingness to look offline for companionship first. If you can't meet people at your local bar/club/church/bridge club, what makes you think you're going to have any more luck online?

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