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ORIGINAL: LadyLupineNYC

Be VERY careful with needle play-and who you play with. Needles should be sterile and preferably disposable and they come in various sizes too!  Flashlight helps as well so the Dom/me can see any veins, etc.  I find that use lube applied to the needles a best practice.  Also- gloves gloves, gloves! 

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ORIGINAL: Zaraseeks

Agreed!!!  And if you are playing with more than one person, or just starting out playing wiht people, hold off on the needles, PLEASE let that happen with someone you know well and trust, and umm KNOWS WHAT THEY ARE DOING!!!  There are SO many fun ways to do CBT that are much safer, there is great bondage, lots and lots of clamps or cloths pins, there are weights, ice and hot wax, reverse orgasm (very fun!) all sorts of devices...just do research, make sure your partners does hers, and be safe, make sure she is safe befour putting yourself in her hands,,,but I do love cbt, a personal fav!!!! *mmm*

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ORIGINAL: LadyLupineNYC


I have had my slave utilize a milking technique on himself which had the effect of cumming with no orgasm (such are the ways of a D/s couple living far apart and who have no interest in ‘cyber domination’: “here- try this and tell me if it works”…”holy crap! It WORKS!!”).  I think he has a journal entry some where about how it feels.  I seem to recall he was both horrified that it worked and that it left him with a very distinct ‘empty’ feeling.  I am sure I can dig up the directions if anyone REALLY wants to try it…. 
As for other CBT ideas-I am VERY hands on about it- slapping, pinching, cock bondage (assuming there is enough there, which just leads into small penis humiliation), ice, all that good stuff.  Other things that work wonders: I was at a pet store (the kink’s favorite place) and found these little elastic bands mend to go over dog’s wrists which were supposed to be like the Lance Armstrong “Live Stong” bracelets.  They came in two sizes-one for toy dogs and one formed/large dogs and had such as great kinky-phrases like: beg hard, bark loud, and fetch it.  They were like 50 cents each too. I bought a whole bunch.  The larger ones were great for placing around the cock and balls for all day wear (like a cock ring, but more comfy)and the smaller ones fit right behind the head.  Added bonus, as reported by my slave, he couldn’t get off while wearing the small one and masturbating. To which I say-awesome! Photos of his cock wearing both on request so you can see what I am talking about….   

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ORIGINAL: LadyLupineNYC

Done... <---- see? its a happy dancing cock!

I have also done the 'zipper'(hint- uses clothes pins and thin rope)...

Funny thing is...cbt isn't even my all time fav activity...and yet, just think what I am like with the stuff I LOVE doing