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Skully7000 -> NYC area (12/18/2007 3:51:46 PM)
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Greetings.
I'm Skully. I identify as a Dominant Poly Bi Male.
I'm heavily involved in the goth, Industrial, and fetish scenes. I've produced my own parties. as well as promote for other parties. I'm not new to the scene itself but relativly new to playing. I'm lucky that I've had some amazing teachers who are BDSM educators for various groups in and around NYC. I've learned some amazing things and have a true thirst for knowledge...in everything not just kink.
I love exchanging ideas and thoughts and finding out what makes things tick. but its not just theory I practice and experiment in person as much as possible.
I am an easy going Dominant. Not to be confused as a pushover. Metaphorically: Its not a long leash...its one of those leashes on the wheel that when you push the button it stops immediately. so it adjusts to be as long as I want it to be at that moment...
I believe in establishing the difference between High and low protocol... I like to keep light on the permenant rules and heavy on the orders... not beacuse I want a mindless drone but because I like to keep my slave guessing and well. it would be quite hard for a fulltime slave to keep up with what I want all the time... so I am not going to fault a play partner for not being able to read my mind. that of course would change as the relationship grows and flourishes...
I love whips and floggers Rope electric play and blood play. needles flesh staples and small blood letting scratches... I'm a big fan of more intense body modifications and know a large amount about them... but I do not perform them, nor do I request anyone to receive them. a cutting or branding or scarification as body adornment is at the moment out of my league. and frankly I don't know anyone who I would trust my hand with to try. though I do know many bod mod'ers who can do things if you are interested. there are many other things i'm interested in but those are the primary focus as what i'm most intersted in... as a general rule...
each person I meet though invokes a different response and my interests with that person fluxuate.
beyond all the items... BDSM is first and foremost about the interaction between two peoples mind. toys are a way of reaching the mind. interacting with the body like a programmer would type on a keyboard.
without the interaction of the mind..its meaningless...
Cheers
Skully
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