RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE?

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Peridot -> RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? (12/17/2007 12:23:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss If pregnancies and STD's and what ever else nasty strangers could be carrying wasn't a reality I'd love gang bangs and fucking multiple people. However the reality I live in, diseases and nastyies do exsist so I am extreamly picky about sex stuff. Yeah, me too. It would be fun, if only... [:o]

YourhandMyAss -> RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? (12/17/2007 12:45:31 PM)
I often joke w/ith my Daddy dom that I'd love it if like chocolate samplers there was penis samplers, buy a box of 10 and try one of each kind, pierced, long, thick, abnormally shaped, ect ect:P quote: ORIGINAL: Peridot quote: ORIGINAL: YourhandMyAss If pregnancies and STD's and what ever else nasty strangers could be carrying wasn't a reality I'd love gang bangs and fucking multiple people. However the reality I live in, diseases and nastyies do exsist so I am extreamly picky about sex stuff. Yeah, me too. It would be fun, if only... [:o]

ctrlaltdelete -> RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? (12/17/2007 1:29:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Peridot Good points here. Some sanity amongst us? quote: ORIGINAL: ctrlaltdelete Less a factor of sanity - more a factor of reality...I have been there when I saw this kind of thing derail and the, oh so everly, dominant one "organizing" the whole affair was unable to handle the situation without help when the first blood on his girl was drawn...

Peridot -> RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? (12/17/2007 4:04:40 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ctrlaltdelete Less a factor of sanity - more a factor of reality...I have been there when I saw this kind of thing derail and the, oh so everly, dominant one "organizing" the whole affair was unable to handle the situation without help when the first blood on his girl was drawn... [&o] Yes. Thanks for your thoughtful reality check. Your words are giving me shudders. For me, at least; this type of play will remain a fantasy.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? (12/17/2007 9:04:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar Whats the difference between that and swinging? Swinging actually tends to be a semi closed culture of mainly couples looking to have random but regular sex with a set of compatriots. It tends to glorify the female as the final power (if you want to survive in the culture at least) and sex is meant to be a refreshing fun no strings hobby. This is much more about exerting authority and largeness over the female and making her into a direct object and receiver for many cocks for a stand along spectacle. This COULD potentially happen in a swinger club, but it would be highly unlikely and cause a lot of head shaking.

sexyred1 -> RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? (12/17/2007 9:16:52 PM)
I bet the OP is very popular with his friends. For me, I could not be less interested in what he describes. I am a total slut in private with one, but I don't act like one in public. I don't need to and no one I was ever with would need me to; we both knew what was going on.

sammiebabygirl -> RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? (12/17/2007 9:19:49 PM)
You are totally correct, LA. I belong to a private, exclusive swingers' club and have often tried to get the guys to use me in this manner. I have had group activity, but unfortunately, most swingers are very vanilla and the guys are conditioned to make sure the woman gets her sexual needs met. They look at me like I am a total freak when I say I want them to use me for their pleasure exclusively. Actually, I am affectionately considered the resident freak because the members know what I am into and I often bring toys with me. Some of the guys will indulge me and do some pain play with me as foreplay, but not many. jen

cainssub -> RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? (12/17/2007 9:26:14 PM)
this is something Master has expressed interest in at some point down the line (and i find it scary and exciting at the same time).....as He is too far away to be of any real protection to me in a scenario like this He hasnt explored it yet.....though He does loan me out to another Dom from time to time for play....but even then He is careful to make sure i am safe....indeed i would be of no use to Him if i was emotionally or physically damaged from the experince....

taintedgypsy -> RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? (12/18/2007 4:43:52 AM)
I sort of fall in with a few here that it is a nice fantasy. There are events at which you can be the complete slut in an exhibitionist way and swinging can give you the exhibitonist angle of watching your slut fucked by another but as mentioned this tends to be more a mutual sex thing than a being used thing. There are some fantastic events where it is virtually a fuck fest, and I have enjoyed them imensly but they are only BDSMy in that your Dom accompanies you and decides what where and when ... it is still more swinger than L/s. As for gang bang I really think that is something that can be arranged with reasonable safety through people you get to know in the swinging lifestyle but it would take time and probably would not be an easy thing to arrange, as for a bunch of strangers picked up at a bar ... too dangerous to consider in my books. I may be a slut but that does not mean I am a stupid one lol. just my 2 cents worth

beltainefaerie -> RE: SUB TO BE MY SLUT - COMMON OR RARE? (12/18/2007 7:58:48 AM)
I am sure it is a common fantasy, though I am not sure how common the reality is. I think more common than being with strangers is to arrange similar events with folks you actually know. I am certainly a slut for Master and my husband, but not in the ways you described. While they like me in revealing clothes and sometimes have me out in public in them, I am not really encouraged to lead anyone on, nor would they dream of having me taken by strangers. We have had some interesting nights with our group of close friends/lovers, though.

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