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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 7:24:48 AM

Sirsinini

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

He can praise me but he cannot worship me.

~Lashra

Kudo's Lashra, I fully agree.

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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 7:29:38 AM

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ORIGINAL: daddysliloneds

don't these two statements kind of contradict each other?

NOT at all !! I didnt write this...I postd it for the information contained.

I am STILL Sir's devoted property because I have an Onwer who is
The 15 Personal Characteristics of a Master:
1. Honor... in all things.
2. Dominance... of himself and of those who depend on his command.
3. Consistency... in his dealings with freepersons and slaves.
4. Strength... to not be swayed from his principles.
5. Self-assured... not dependent on others for approval.
6. Curiosity... to delve into the individual.
7. Wisdom... to understand what curiosity has discovered.
8. Maturity... to understand, but not misuse, the power of his Mastery.
9. Sensitivity... to have interest in, and to listen keenly for the concerns and issues of others and his slave.
10. Compassion... to hear the true feelings of his slaves, and to deal
fairly with issues raised, within the confines of his principles and
command.
11. Accountability... to accept the responsibility for the behavior of
his slave and himself; to accept responsibility for the safety and
security of his slave; and to deal honorably with any issues that
arise for either concern.
12. Courage... both to stand up for his principles and honor and the
courage to admit a mistake when he recognizes one has been made.
13. Advocate... for the endurance and prosperity of our love/lifestyle
culture.
14. Ally... standing shoulder to shoulder with other advocates of our
love/lifestyle culture..
15. Mentor... to others who have need of his example.

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Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and
you are always readily available to him- he takes it for granted.

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I am Sir's devoted property

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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 7:52:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: Sirsinini

The 15 Personal Characteristics of a Master:

1. Honor... in all things.

2. Dominance... of himself and of those who depend on his command.

3. Consistency... in his dealings with freepersons and slaves.

4. Strength... to not be swayed from his principles.

5. Self-assured... not dependent on others for approval.

6. Curiosity... to delve into the individual.

7. Wisdom... to understand what curiosity has discovered.

8. Maturity... to understand, but not misuse, the power of his Mastery.

9. Sensitivity... to have interest in, and to listen keenly for the
concerns and issues of others and his slave.

10. Compassion... to hear the true feelings of his slaves, and to deal
fairly with issues raised, within the confines of his principles and
command.

11. Accountability... to accept the responsibility for the behavior of
his slave and himself; to accept responsibility for the safety and
security of his slave; and to deal honorably with any issues that
arise for either concern.

12. Courage... both to stand up for his principles and honor and the
courage to admit a mistake when he recognizes one has been made.

13. Advocate... for the endurance and prosperity of our love/lifestyle
culture.

14. Ally... standing shoulder to shoulder with other advocates of our
love/lifestyle culture..

15. Mentor... to others who have need of his example.

I just found this..... If you are with a man/woman first posted...you want to ditch them and find this kind.

My husband and dominant is a human being first and foremost. He does have a portion of these characteristics in abundance. But he isn't always mature, sometimes he can be a bit insensitive, and he has no real interest in being a mentor to any adult. He keeps his word when he gives it. He has his bouts with insecurity. I love him completely, flaws and all.

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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 9:34:41 AM

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My friend Jenny sobbing yesderday. I thought something real bad happened. Well- a guy she had dated got married. Nothing changed.she did not have him, now she doesnt have him. so why the tears? she arranged her whole thanksgiven blowing me off as she might get to see "him" . he viewed her as a lay. Plain as day to me.

Why are woman so quick to think "us" when many men are simply passing thru?

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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 12:05:00 PM

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Thanks for the chuckle.

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Sirsinini,

You forgot something that I heard once that I always cite when a woman is making excuses for a man not being able to see her, be with her, etc.

If a man wants you, he will crawl over broken glass to get to you.

Believe it.

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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 12:16:36 PM

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Plain as day to me.

Because you weren't the person in denial, waiting for the day or moment the other person would decide you are the one. She's learned a good lesson, though.

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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 1:12:04 PM

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It may do you well to work on your reading comprehension, too. I never stated that you wrote it, I repeatedly was very careful to state that the author of this piece has severe relationship issues and clear misandry.

No, I won't apologize, because racism, genderism and sexism are detestable to me.

And while you are not the author, you did back each of those unhealthy and genderist statements included in your OP by posting them and then defending them.

< Message edited by RumpusParable -- 12/14/2007 1:14:03 PM >

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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 1:14:30 PM

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ORIGINAL: Maya2001

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ORIGINAL: allcatsaregrey

"There is nothing cute about baggage" - hehehe.

Only when I comes with a plane ticket to a hot vacations spot

Then it definitely is cute! I just got back from a vacation last week, and I wish I could go back!

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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 1:49:13 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sirsinini

Slower is better. I like to mix it up though...start off slow, really making ourselves crazy, then ramping up into a frenzy...wait. You didn't mean...nevermind.

If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is. Well no, strings probably aren't going to do much. But ropes...

Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. Boundaries? He's gotta let me out sometime. Gotta pee.

If something bothers you, speak up. What about the gag?

Never borrow someone else's man. WHAT?! Can't borrow? What if he's a loaner?

You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a
two-way street. But I'm the bendy one (used to be a gymnast).

You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
relationship What if you're "healing" in the relationship? (Good doggie.)

You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship
consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not
supplementary. I like compliments from a man and I take my daily supplements. I would like to find someone complementary though.

Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr.. Right. Yes! It is! Especially when you're bendy!

Make him miss you sometimes...a "real" man doesn't miss...*smack*

Keep him in your radar but get to know others. I know, no speeding, "slower is better," etc.

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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 1:51:27 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sirsinini
I posted this NOT because of the pregnant stuff....but because so many women ACCEPT the fact that they are "cared for" and owned, yet their Owner/Master/Dom/me has no time to see them, be with them, communicate with them, etc

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ORIGINAL: Sirsinini
I didnt write this..only repeated it for others to learn by.

Call me old fashioned, but when I was a youngun, we did this thing called citation. If I wanted to quote from someone else, I would acknowledge the real author, instead of making it nebulous, and this trying to play gotchya with people that didn't just assume you were plagiarizing. I love the free exchange of ideas, but I really believe giving people credit for what they've written, whether or not you agree with it, is the foundation of the free exchange of ideas.

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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 2:10:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sirsinini

IF A MAN WANTS YOU
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.

Neat poem. Just.. I wouldn't advise being stuck on this line.

As a man, I can tell you that I find it almost frighteningly easy to walk away from a girl, no matter attracted I might be. (So it's quite possible to keep a man who wants you away.) Actually, it's really, really easy.

Also, I've maintained pity relationships, where I didn't want the girl. (So it's also possible to keep one who doesn't want you.) Sometimes, it was for convinence (I didn't have the time for the drama of a break up), sometimes it was for apathy (so I don't really want her.. so what?), sometimes it was for goodness's sake (didn't want to hurt someone that was overly attached, so waited for the fameously fickle nature of females to kick in and allow her to conduct the break up).

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RE: If a man wants you - 12/14/2007 5:11:42 PM

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This post kind of reminds me of when I was in middle or high school, they passed these "Dating Women's Bill of Rights" cards out to all us girls. They were just right for putting in your wallet. The advice was to read them, remember them and make any guy you were involved in read them too. If he had any issues with the advice on the card, we were suppose to dump him. I tried to find it, but it's long gone I guess, but I found some of it online (and the list on the card was MUCH longer):

Dating Bill of Rights

I have a right to:
Ask for a date

Refuse a date

Suggest activities

Refuse any activities, even if my date is excited about them

Have my own feelings and be able to express them

Say, "I think my friend is wrong and his actions are inappropriate"

Tell someone not to interrupt me

Have my limits and values respected

Tell my partner when I need affection

Refuse affection

Be heard

Refuse to lend money

Refuse sex any time, for any reason

Have friends and space aside from my partner

I have the responsibility to:
Determine my limits and values
Respect the limits of others
Communicate clearly and honestly
Not violate the limits of others
Ask for help when I need it
Be considerate
Check my actions and decisions to determine whether they are good or bad for me
Set high goals for myself

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