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slavealicem -> how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 1:20:57 PM)
we have meet only online and we like each other. but we want to be sure and trust. how can i prove my genuinty to someone i meet online. and what should i expect of him to know he is geniun. please if You know advice me.

sub4hire -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 1:24:20 PM)
Ask lots of questions phrased different ways. Liars aren't exactly smart people and they don't tell the same story each and every time. Ask for references. Someone just posted just about this same question in the health and safety section. Once people respond, go there for ideas as well.

subfever -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 1:28:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavealicem we have meet only online and we like each other. but we want to be sure and trust. how can i prove my genuinty to someone i meet online. and what should i expect of him to know he is geniun. please if You know advice me. I suppose a webcam would go a long way to determine gender and looks. It's not 100% fool-proof, but probably in the 99%+ range. Other than that, you'll simply need to invest the time to get to know each other to determine whether you're both sincere and also have enough common ground to make a go of it.

KatyLied -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 1:32:25 PM)
It takes time to get to know someone. I always ask about family, friends, try to glean the sort of relationships they have going on their life.

mnottertail -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 1:32:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavealicem we have meet only online and we like each other. but we want to be sure and trust. how can i prove my genuinty to someone i meet online. and what should i expect of him to know he is geniun. please if You know advice me. some of your issues are going to be your recent proliferation of collarme nicks, and a few other things vis a vis Yahoo messages and how you got my yahoo nick when I did not give it to you.............. I am not the person in question however, god help whoever it is. Ron

DQUEEN -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 1:39:32 PM)
*Slavealicem* *Cam, phone, references, chat for 3 hours or even more every day are great things to do, but trust your instincts.* *Don't get hopes before you meet with him in person, and if doesn't happen, don't get sad, just move on because it didn't ment to be for both of you.* *Good luck!!* *Dreammerqueen*

KatyLied -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 1:40:56 PM)
Lice are bad, Ron.

SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 1:41:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail quote: ORIGINAL: slavealicem we have meet only online and we like each other. but we want to be sure and trust. how can i prove my genuinty to someone i meet online. and what should i expect of him to know he is geniun. please if You know advice me. some of your issues are going to be your recent proliferation of collarme nicks, and a few other things vis a vis Yahoo messages and how you got my yahoo nick when I did not give it to you.............. I am not the person in question however, god help whoever it is. Ron are you sure? to the op....i think to prove youre genuine you have to .....like....actually meet.....and then be genuine in your words and actions and then it clicks and then..... you get the picture

mnottertail -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 1:42:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied Lice are bad, Ron. chicken flied or?

KatyLied -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 1:42:15 PM)
quote: you have to .....like....actually meet... It is wrong that I laughed? [8D]

Real0ne -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 1:47:49 PM)
Send them your credit cards + 500 bucks! Oh wait the other kind. Nothing you can do frankly. You cant even prove it when you live them for a year. techincally. cam is good as has been suggested at least you can verify if they are the right sex. go slow, make sure everything is reasoably backed up that they claim.

Cage -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 2:24:21 PM)
Because of nuance, percepton and style, it is very difficult to have a fair and honest conversation, with anyone, by just simply typing messages to each other. It is imperative that you actually talk to each other as friends, and not let your conversations degrade to "Interviews". The best way to do this is by using the voice services that Yahoo or Skype provide. The phone is also good, but it is good to have some idea of whom you are talking to first, if you go this way. Many phone numbers are traceable. I would also say, that if the person you are talking to is unwilling to talk on the phone (or use voice) after about 3 or 4 good conversations on messenger, then they are unlikely to be genuine. I don't put much store in cams. Sure they can give you a good idea of what the person looks like (perhaps) but nothing beats good conversation. Cage

SeeksOnlyOne -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 3:12:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KatyLied quote: you have to .....like....actually meet... It is wrong that I laughed? [8D] not in my world it aint[:D]

CalifChick -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 3:25:50 PM)
Hey Alice? If I ask very nicely will you give me Ron's yahoo nick?? [sm=preen.gif] Cali

popeye1250 -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 3:33:15 PM)
Just be more genu.

LadyChef -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 3:44:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavealicem we have meet only online and we like each other. but we want to be sure and trust. how can i prove my genuinty to someone i meet online. and what should i expect of him to know he is geniun. please if You know advice me. Use your best judgement. Talk for at least a few days before you meet publicly. Because we all have different personalities and social preferences, I prefer to casually meet without any expectations of "play" or otherwise. You should really get to know who you plan to submit to/or Dominate if you plan on being serious with one another.Chat for a couple of hours,talk on the phone for as many hours, and write down what they say. I, Myself, being very fearless and aggressive about what I want, though short in stature am very intimidating (the last potential submissive I met with told Me I had a "presence" about Me [:D]), I have the steel-eyed confidence to invite someone to My house. Of course I don't live alone, and no one, not even a real crazy person would dare stalk Me. But of course, I take precautions and let anyone I plan to meet know that I have family and friends that love and care for Me dearly.If My judgement were off, and anyone deems themselves crazy enough to stalk Me.....I would really have to pray for mercy on that person. Bottom line, slavealicem, be careful.

kc692 -> RE: how to prove genuinty (12/10/2007 6:15:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CalifChick Hey Alice? If I ask very nicely will you give me Ron's yahoo nick?? [sm=preen.gif] Cali I have his yahoo nick, and all kinds o contact info. Pm me on the other side if you want it, lol!!!!!!!!! That was to Cali, not to the boards at large, he would kill me, and we have each others real addresses, I'm not pissin him off like that!!!!!!![;)]

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