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is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his becko... - 12/9/2007 7:53:49 PM   
metalwolf


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Status: offline 		Hello.This is for the Doms Dommes and Others who wish to comment. I have  recently ran across asub whose name I will not disclose but he is on CM. Said person was fine as long as I was online for him and him alone thus when I had other ims poping up he began to get the attitude out this began last night then again today and night as well and proceeded to tell Me that he talked to other Domme/Doms  and they All said I am wrong for not being at his beckon im when I am online and thus I should ingore the other ims I get. So thus I have removed him from My yahoo and blocked him on Cm am I wrong or what?
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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/9/2007 8:11:04 PM   
MissDiandSirHugh


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Status: offline 		Isn't that only the same as a sub saying I will be yours but You will always only do this or that with Me and nothing else even if they do not have these other things as their hard limits.
Like when You have said hello to Me on Our first meeting I want You to have sex with Me or after I have removed My shoes I want You to have sex with Me and other than these things I shall not submit to  anything else until We have sex.
Plain old I want, I want and stuff everyone else or even what You want or enjoy am sub version of ADD that effects some much more than others.

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/9/2007 8:13:56 PM   
juliaoceania


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st night then again today and night as well and proceeded to tell Me that he talked to other Domme/Doms  and they All said I am wrong for not being at his beckon im when I am online and thus I should ingore the other ims I get.


Is that exactly what he said? Or are you paraphrasing him and putting words out there that he did not use?

< Message edited by juliaoceania -- 12/9/2007 8:14:56 PM >

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/9/2007 8:32:16 PM   
LadyLegs


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Status: offline 		How do I get on the panel of Dommes that vote on what is and is not appropriate behavior for this person?  I have a few ideas....

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/9/2007 8:36:06 PM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: metalwolf

Hello.This is for the Doms Dommes and Others who wish to comment. I have  recently ran across asub whose name I will not disclose but he is on CM. Said person was fine as long as I was online for him and him alone thus when I had other ims poping up he began to get the attitude out this began last night then again today and night as well and proceeded to tell Me that he talked to other Domme/Doms  and they All said I am wrong for not being at his beckon im when I am online and thus I should ingore the other ims I get. So thus I have removed him from My yahoo and blocked him on Cm am I wrong or what?

Fuck. I got a headache just reading that.

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/10/2007 3:13:45 AM   
Lashra


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Status: offline 		Well frankly I don't allow a sub to tell me what to do, particularly someone off the internet.  If he is "talking" to other Dominants about your behavior then, why doesn't he go serve them rather than you since apparently you do not meet his "needs". I think blocking him was the best thing to do, let him go annoy someone else.

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/10/2007 3:18:48 AM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		First, get more familiar with the 'fullstop' key - much shorter sentences would be greatly appreciated by most of us.... lol
 
But seriously, I doubt anyone would appreciate such obsessive possessiveness from a virtual stranger.  I'd normally advise doing exactly what you've done to shut him down - kudos....
 
Focus.

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/10/2007 3:28:47 AM   
subrob1967


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Status: offline 		Did I read this right?

His other Dommes agree with him that you should chat with him, and no others?

And you have to ask if cutting him off is wrong?

I think you should change your name to "I'm my submissive's bitch".

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/10/2007 7:43:53 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: subrob1967

Did I read this right?

His other Dommes agree with him that you should chat with him, and no others?

And you have to ask if cutting him off is wrong?

I think you should change your name to "I'm my submissive's bitch".


Exactly. I mean, if you have to ask.............


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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/10/2007 8:15:48 AM   
Elorin


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Status: offline 		There are a wealth of people on the internet who feel that as soon as you respond to an IM you have decided to give them your sole and full attention.
I don't tolerate them.
Dominant, submissive, switch, vanilla, I am a multitasker. If my IM is on, it means that I am willing to exchange messages with you. That's it. But with 355 contacts in my Yahoo alone (and I use yahoo, ICQ, MSN, and AIM all four via Trillian) the fact that YOU can see me online means a LOT of other people can see me online also. And since I NEVER sit down JUST to use my instant messengers, it means I was already doing something else when you messaged me.

If this person is YOUR dominant, and you have agreed that if he comes online when you are online you will drop everything and pay attention solely to him, his attitude is just fine. If that is NOT the case, then you get to decide what to accept and how to be treated. Explain to him that he isn't the only focus of your attention, and if he doesn't like it he should find someone else. And tell all the other Dommes who are telling him that you - as a Domme - should be at his beck and call just because he as a sub happens to come online while you are online? - tell all of them to fuck off. He probably has NOT spoken to any other Dommes, but if he has, he'll be happy to give you their Yahoo IDs so you can confirm said question and answer sessions.

My submissives are happy for my attention. When they start demanding it, especially during a point in time when I have not scheduled to be with them? They get one warning, then they are removed from my sphere of interest.

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/14/2007 5:28:11 AM   
MasterIceStorm


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Status: offline 		I think what people have said is good enough. Blocking him was the right thing to do. He is what most would be a Toppy Bottom and online Tb at best... Mostly a fake. Gj on block.

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/14/2007 6:21:43 AM   
DesFIP


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Status: offline 		Whatever works for you two is what's right. If you've begun a connection that you would like to focus on, and you both agree to be exclusive from now on, then you shouldn't be iming others because that would be breaking your word. If you're interested in having more than one and he's looking for monogamy, then you should have discussed this first thing so as not to waste each other's time.

However I do believe the others he consulted were figments of his imagination. Besides, even if real, that would constitute breaking exclusivity on his end.

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/14/2007 6:30:54 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Ok I have changed my mind. Instead of only having one person writing me all of you have my permision to write me. OP are you or are you not a Domme. Why ask in here if it ok to dump a moron.

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/14/2007 2:10:39 PM   
ClubMix


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Status: offline 		I have to say, the part where his "other" dom/me`s agree that you should only pay attention to him is a bit much. That`s just...stupid. If it bothered him so much, I don`t see why he didn`t just stop communicating.

However, on the other hand, if I`m IMing with somebody, and the only replies I`m getting are "yes", "no", and an occasional "lol", spaced by three minute intervals, I tend to get frustrated and give up. Not to say it excuses his....borderline retarded behavior with the "other dom/me thing", but a two-way conversation is kind of a universal courtesy IMO, no matter what your D/s orientation.

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/14/2007 2:24:06 PM   
Dmsc1248


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Status: offline 		You have done the correct thing. A true sub is not going to talk back to his Domme like that whether it be online or in RT without punishment. 

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/14/2007 3:05:15 PM   
Prinsexx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: metalwolf

Hello.This is for the Doms Dommes and Others who wish to comment. I have  recently ran across asub whose name I will not disclose but he is on CM. Said person was fine as long as I was online for him and him alone thus when I had other ims poping up he began to get the attitude out this began last night then again today and night as well and proceeded to tell Me that he talked to other Domme/Doms  and they All said I am wrong for not being at his beckon im when I am online and thus I should ingore the other ims I get. So thus I have removed him from My yahoo and blocked him on Cm am I wrong or what?

i get more of a kick out of not blocking the bastards and watching them pop up and down making stupid on line demands......
or inviting two of them into the same box to chat hehehhehehe

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/14/2007 3:13:01 PM   
Prinsexx


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ORIGINAL: Dmsc1248

You have done the correct thing. A true sub is not going to talk back to his Domme like that whether it be online or in RT without punishment. 

get real


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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/14/2007 5:55:01 PM   
DesFIP


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dmsc1248
You have done the correct thing. A true sub is not going to talk back to his Domme like that whether it be online or in RT without punishment. 


You're still living in your mother's basement, aren't you? You can tell us the truth.

First how do you propose to punish someone over a computer. And second, there are a whole lot of us who don't use a punishment dynamic.

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RE: is a sub to top a Domme and tell her to be at his b... - 12/14/2007 6:00:05 PM   
kitttty


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Status: offline 		OP, being that you are unable to communicate in english, perhaps you completely misunderstood what your err 'sub'? was saying to you.

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