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I guess what I find not disconcerting, but more odd (like when you mismatch a paring of foot and shoe, slightly off) is that my admittedly pathetic profile here has actually caused several Dommes (Dominas? Dominants? Cherished Ones? I'm still working on what's a proper "generic" appelation for Female Dominants.) to write to me.

Hello wistfulmale,
I've peeked at your add, and to Me it sounds sincere. And genuine to say that you don't know what you seek, unless someone showed you the way. you arent alone in this, to start is always difficult. you can always write to Me, with questions and I would be happy to talk to you about them or in this forum.

Bdsm is about communication. So feel free alright

B safe.
Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`

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It took me almost a year of being on here before I actually dared to post.

This is so interesting, because I understand where you're coming from trappedinamuseum, so was there anything which could have been done
to make you interact sooner? Maybe that can help other new people , who
do have a problem with interacting in this scene. Thank you for your openness
And I do wish you a great weekend.

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`

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i liked it, this may sound weird but what brought me here was trying to find a forum that did not hurt my eyes....black backrounds, purple fonts, tiny text, it was giving me a headache.

Hello crouchingtigress,
I so can relate to your comment. I get a headacke too when the colorsetting sux, or the fond is too small to read. So great you enjoy that here

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i would love to see a room for transfolk. i am not trans, but many of my freinds are and i feel there is sort of a stigma that could be addressed with greater understanding..in the same way that having the gorean room has brought folks to understand and accept that part of our community a little more.

I understand your question, but I think they should open a chatroom themselves.
I opened a room #DungeonT` , because My nick ends with a T`, and I got all the Ts,Tv in My rooms, as they thought I was a Ts, grinz.

It's short of GoddezzTeaze, and I'm very female. And it's not My interest, but they could do it themselves hon

I wish you goodluck.
Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`

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And there is so much information here that it's entirely possible to blow away hours just reading the archives, lol.

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My experience has been uniformly positive.

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i've posted in enough forums that i already knew to keep my hands and feet safely in the car, do not eat or drink when trying to read the boards unless using a keyboard condom and having a good supply of windex and paper towels handy.

And yes adoracat,
I do love a good sence of humor !!!!

Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`

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ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze

Hello wistfulmale,
I've peeked at your add, and to Me it sounds sincere. And genuine to say that you don't know what you seek, unless someone showed you the way. you arent alone in this, to start is always difficult. you can always write to Me, with questions and I would be happy to talk to you about them or in this forum.

Bdsm is about communication. So feel free alright

B safe.
Warm Greetingz

GoddezzT`