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cainssub -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/8/2007 5:47:57 PM)
im very new to the lifestyle, only been active for about 6 months and i have to say this site is wonderful! ive been to other sites that just dont make the gradde.......thanks to all of the contributors that make it work and everyone who is active here, i've learned alot and have met some wonderful people......

NaiveTempest -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/8/2007 7:31:12 PM)
When I first joined this site I was nervous. I had joined some others that when it came down to it were really nothing more then glorified dating/sex sites. It was hard to distinguish who wanted to just help and be a friend and who was trying to sweet talk you into sex sometimes. CollarMe was like a breathe of fresh air. I mine you still meet people and get offers for furthering relations but it's not so overwhelming. CollarMe doesn't have that sexsite feel to me, and I've learned so much here. The most important lesson, and one I remember LA had posted in, was learning about "sub frenzy". That lesson helped me alot and still does to this day.

TemptingNviceSub -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 12:09:12 AM)
Never felt much either way..I slid in quietly, read a lot, responded a little and slowly but surely increased my input.For the most part I respond to subjects that are more humanistic in nature as opposed to BDSM-D/s except for giving my opinion on something coming from common sense or my own personal ideaology, .. I am, as I see it, the wall flower in a room full of dynamic personalities and am easily overlooked.But nonetheless,on occasion, I have felt the slap down, and other occasions ,where what I posted, reasonated within someone as well...It all balanced out in the end to me...It does not have to be a bar in Boston, where everyone knows your name..:0)...Tempting

StarlightSoul -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 12:37:04 AM)
It amazes me how much information is just laying around here. I always try to listen to what is being said; there is always something informative, even if you have to sift through a little snark.

GoddessTeaze -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 2:33:01 AM)
quote: I guess what I find not disconcerting, but more odd (like when you mismatch a paring of foot and shoe, slightly off) is that my admittedly pathetic profile here has actually caused several Dommes (Dominas? Dominants? Cherished Ones? I'm still working on what's a proper "generic" appelation for Female Dominants.) to write to me. Hello wistfulmale, I've peeked at your add, and to Me it sounds sincere. And genuine to say that you don't know what you seek, unless someone showed you the way. you arent alone in this, to start is always difficult. you can always write to Me, with questions and I would be happy to talk to you about them or in this forum. Bdsm is about communication. So feel free alright [:D] B safe. Warm Greetingz GoddezzT`

GoddessTeaze -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 2:40:08 AM)
Hello petpete, nice to read you here lilbrat you [:D] I was just curious, I've been around for a while, and I was thinking about the chat really, but I've noticed that there are a few streams here floating around. The once on chat only, the once on forum only, the once which do both. I've spoken to loads of newbies in chat, and often hear that some Dominants don't want to have anything to do with them, because they are new. How else do they learn? I'm always happy to tell them what I know. So that's why I thought to ask petpete [;)] One can never have enough friends !! Have a great weekend. Warm Greetingz GoddezzT`

GoddessTeaze -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 2:41:29 AM)
Hello Kellendra, That's awesome ofcourse [:D] it depends on the person I agree. Have a good one. GoddezzT`

GoddessTeaze -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 2:46:35 AM)
quote: It took me almost a year of being on here before I actually dared to post. This is so interesting, because I understand where you're coming from trappedinamuseum, so was there anything which could have been done to make you interact sooner? Maybe that can help other new people , who do have a problem with interacting in this scene. Thank you for your openness [:D] And I do wish you a great weekend. Warm Greetingz GoddezzT`

MissOchistic -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 2:50:12 AM)
I felt wonderfully welcome here. It was one of the very first online communities I looked at, and the first that I felt okay joining after reading the forums for a while. Sure, I got the occasional twue sub telling me how to live and twue Doms telling me how to kneel, but if anything that just thickened my skin enough to help me dive deeper and learn more.

GoddessTeaze -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 3:00:32 AM)
quote: i liked it, this may sound weird but what brought me here was trying to find a forum that did not hurt my eyes....black backrounds, purple fonts, tiny text, it was giving me a headache. Hello crouchingtigress, I so can relate to your comment. I get a headacke too when the colorsetting sux, or the fond is too small to read. So great you enjoy that here [:D] quote: i would love to see a room for transfolk. i am not trans, but many of my freinds are and i feel there is sort of a stigma that could be addressed with greater understanding..in the same way that having the gorean room has brought folks to understand and accept that part of our community a little more. I understand your question, but I think they should open a chatroom themselves. I opened a room #DungeonT` , because My nick ends with a T`, and I got all the Ts,Tv in My rooms, as they thought I was a Ts, grinz. It's short of GoddezzTeaze, and I'm very female. And it's not My interest, but they could do it themselves hon [:D] I wish you goodluck. Warm Greetingz GoddezzT`

GoddessTeaze -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 3:05:16 AM)
quote: And there is so much information here that it's entirely possible to blow away hours just reading the archives, lol. Hello Gardenista, I so agree, You can get lost here , grinz. But it's good to read. Thanx for Your responds. Warm Greetingz GoddezzT`

GoddessTeaze -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 3:08:45 AM)
quote: My experience has been uniformly positive. Hello SirJohnMandevill, That's great to hear! Thanx & Warm Greetingz GoddezzT`

GoddessTeaze -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 3:13:09 AM)
quote: i've posted in enough forums that i already knew to keep my hands and feet safely in the car, do not eat or drink when trying to read the boards unless using a keyboard condom and having a good supply of windex and paper towels handy. And yes adoracat, I do love a good sence of humor !!!![:D] Warm Greetingz GoddezzT`

GoddessTeaze -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 3:36:57 AM)
Thank Yyou Aall, who responded to this subject! have a great sunday. Warm Greetingz GoddezzT`

petpete -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 5:17:27 AM)
Greetings GoddezzT.. Its always nice to have Your presence around all of us subs, and i truly would wish all the Dommes where as approachable as Your Grace is. Unfortunately like all of us i would assume the Ladies have there own issues and maybe a big margin of them may be quite frustrated with some of our conduct.. i hope You are well and i thank You for Your concern about the reception that some of us can receive..

wistfulmale -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 5:18:28 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: GoddessTeaze Hello wistfulmale, I've peeked at your add, and to Me it sounds sincere. And genuine to say that you don't know what you seek, unless someone showed you the way. you arent alone in this, to start is always difficult. you can always write to Me, with questions and I would be happy to talk to you about them or in this forum. Bdsm is about communication. So feel free alright [:D] B safe. Warm Greetingz GoddezzT` blushes Thank you for both the comment(s) and the offer. I will take you up on that.... wistful

GoddessTeaze -> RE: How welcome do Yyou feel here as a newbie? (12/9/2007 10:13:48 AM)
Thank you kindly petpete, I'm a caring Lady, as you well noticed, and yes I'm curious how some stuff goes, and what I can learn from Yyou guys out there ! I love to learn so [:D] And petpete, it takes loads of people to make the world go round, so if they we're all like Me, it would be boring wouldn't it smirks I'm happy you feel good around Me! So never hastitate to ask Me anything alright [;)] Send Uus a lilbit of sun from downunder, it's so wet here ... Have a good one! GoddezzT`

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