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RE: Do Y/you have Criteria for what makes a Good Dom/me... - 12/2/2007 3:35:28 PM

CuriousLord

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For me? The ideal slave is:

-Female.
-Very loyal and obidient.
-Consults rules and guidelines first for many any decisions in the absense of a specific command.
-Very loving and affectionate; enjoys being close.
-Able and often happy/content when with her owner, or/and when her owner is happy/pleased with her.

Intelligence is optional. I've had a pet with the IQ of about 80 before. (Or, 90? I don't know.) She was loyal and loving- as a good pet should be. I was happy with her. Also, I've had a pet with IQ = ~135. She was rather bright and often deep enough to be intellectually stimulating. This, however, did not make her an inniately superior slave.

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RE: Do Y/you have Criteria for what makes a Good Dom/me... - 12/2/2007 5:10:49 PM

PsyVamp

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quote:

ORIGINAL: CuriousLord

For me? The ideal slave is:

-Female.
-Very loyal and obidient.
-Consults rules and guidelines first for many any decisions in the absense of a specific command.
-Very loving and affectionate; enjoys being close.
-Able and often happy/content when with her owner, or/and when her owner is happy/pleased with her.

Intelligence is optional. I've had a pet with the IQ of about 80 before. (Or, 90? I don't know.) She was loyal and loving- as a good pet should be. I was happy with her. Also, I've had a pet with IQ = ~135. She was rather bright and often deep enough to be intellectually stimulating. This, however, did not make her an inniately superior slave.

I like your list but would flip it in order for my slave to be male, other than that, the same guidelines apply. Except I can't say that intelligence is optional in my submissive. I need to be able to have an intelligent conversation, so I need one that has enough intelligence to carry on such a conversation.
I would also add financially stable because I can't afford to "keep" anyone.

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RE: Do Y/you have Criteria for what makes a Good Dom/me... - 12/2/2007 6:13:08 PM

KnightofMists

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ORIGINAL: pinksugarsub

My sense is E/everyone has these criteria; but i often get into exchanges with Men who want to know only about my intimate life, nothing about my personality or character.

Any thoughts?

mmmmmmmmmm sounds like they are attempting to see if you meet their criteria. Since it appears you want them to be interested in your personality or character... you obviously are not meeting their criteria.

Of course, even if they where interested in your personality or character... that is not to say that it would meet to their criteria.

I agree that we all have some sort of criteria with what we want.... but our criteria is just that ours... others will likely have different ones...

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