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How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/26/2007 4:31:03 PM   
midnightwench


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Status: offline 		Hello A/all

I am fairly new to Collar Me, although I am not new to the lifestyle.  My question to you all is how do you deal with people that become obsessed with you on here after you have told them you are not interested (he kept making references to my activities when I was an UM)? This person is making multiple profiles to continue to message me after I have blocked them.

I plan on just waiting it out, but it is frustrating to check to see if anyone is interested in you, and you keep getting messages from the same person under a diffrent name.

On the bright side.. I want to thank all you wonderful people who have messaged me on here for casual talking and friendship. I am happy to know you!

Thanks...
Wench
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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/26/2007 4:38:27 PM   
Stephann


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Status: offline 		Hi wench,

If it's bothering you that much, I'd suggest a new profile.  Don't list your actual city, just your state, and in a couple days he'll move on.

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/26/2007 4:45:50 PM   
Bloodrose88


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Status: offline 		Just don't reply, ever, to any rude or unwanted messages.  Its only fun to harrass a person when you get a response out of them.  Simply don't allow him the satisfaction of knowing he bothered you, and eventually he will stop

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/26/2007 4:49:17 PM   
midnightwench


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Status: offline 		Thank you both for your suggestions.. I was ranting more so then anything I think..

I will wait it out, as I have many people that I have contacted that I enjoy keeping in touch with. Why let one spoiled apple ruin the whole dang bunch!

Thank you again
wench

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/26/2007 5:30:08 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		Don't respond more than once, if at all.  The first should be a firm, not interested, thanks, and only ONCE.  Then, don't respond, ever.

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/26/2007 6:05:31 PM   
sub4hire


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Status: offline 		You don't give them power over you and merely ignore them.

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/26/2007 6:08:45 PM   
Owner59


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Bloodrose88

Just don't reply, ever, to any rude or unwanted messages.  Its only fun to harrass a person when you get a response out of them.  Simply don't allow him the satisfaction of knowing he bothered you, and eventually he will stop


Just don't reply, ever,

Very true.

As if they don`t exist.

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/26/2007 6:20:01 PM   
pinksugarsub


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Status: offline 		You don't say what the 'harrassment' consists of....but there's a report feature on every email to allow CM members to report threats.  i'd use it if the unwanted person is threatening as much as 'outting' you.
 
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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/26/2007 6:28:19 PM   
kdsub


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Status: offline 		I think you may want to message all your friends that you will be changing to a new profile.

I only say this if you ever plan on meeting someone from the site. If this is a nut he or she may try to get you to meet them under the guise of a new profile. Stalkers can me very creative.
Butch

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/26/2007 6:40:14 PM   
Level


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Status: offline 		Tell him you're really a man........
 
Seriously, as others have said, ignore the idiot. Hopefully he'll get the hint.

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/26/2007 7:51:03 PM   
Owner59


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Status: offline 		One way to deal.....

Rant on him/her/it, here......

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/27/2007 6:55:04 AM   
sub4hire


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Owner59


Rant on him/her/it, here......


That is real mature isn't it?  Aside from the fact if screen names are mentioned it is also a tos'able offense.

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/27/2007 6:59:00 AM   
kittinSol


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quote:

ORIGINAL: sub4hire

quote:

ORIGINAL: Owner59


Rant on him/her/it, here......



That is real mature isn't it?  Aside from the fact if screen names are mentioned it is also a tos'able offense.



I see your point, but maturity isn't always a great source of fun.

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/27/2007 7:42:05 AM   
masoslave2serve


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Status: offline 		Ignore them and don't feed into their stalker mode. Report the profiles that keep offending you and block them if it keeps happening. Ignoring and not responding to them at all is the best thing.

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RE: How do you deal with obsessed people *rant* - 11/27/2007 8:38:36 AM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		Squash them unmercifully under the heel of your boot!
Oh, I thought you said "oppressed."

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