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Here in Sacramento - 11/22/2007 8:55:27 AM

Lkg4MstrSacramen

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Well here is my introduction as some seem to misunderstand what the word "slave" means to me. In my profile I am defining myself as "slave" as that is where I intend to find myself in the end. However, at this time for "masters" to contact me and expect me to treat them like I am "their" slave, is just nonsensensical.

These questionable "masters" have decided I must follow their every directions and proceed "as if" I am their "slave". Unbelievable! Right down to me saying I am not comfortable talking on the phone just yet. You would think that email would suffice. Maybe they are afraid of typing.

Anyway the bottom line is: I might identify as "slave" on my profile; but that doesn't mean I am "your slave". Take a little time to get to know me.

So a little bit about me. I live in Sacramento area, but I have travelled quite a bit around the world, so I am not anxious to leave this area. Ideally, I'd like to find an older man, who is fairly "old school" about discipline and punishment; he is aware that spanking is necessary to a healthy relationship.

So you might ask, what I bring to the table to offer as a slave? The first thing I bring and I believe it is the most important, I am intelligent, and able to function on my own. I am financially secure, as I am secure within myself. My ducks are in a row so to speak.

So what do I look like; like everyone my age (56) I could probably benefit from some plastic surgery, but considering all in all I believe I have some wonderful physical attributes; however, I am not height weight proportionate. I am chubby. I do a pretty good job of taking care of myself, but of course there is always room for improvement.

What are my kinks? My first interest about 20 years ago was bondage. I intensely love the sensations of being unable to stop what is happening to me. It has something to do with being out of control. So, of course naturally, this has extended into corsets, harnesses, and wearing things under everyday clothes no one except myself and my SO know about.. It is fun.

After Bondage, my second interest extends into pain. This started out very small and has since grown into a full blown necessity. Some have actually called me a masochist; personally, I think of myself as service oriented as I want to please the other. Regardless, if I am in a committed relationship, I give not just 100% but 110% and that extends to what the "Master" desires

Okay so enough about me; tell me about yourself...

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RE: Here in Sacramento - 11/22/2007 9:12:09 AM

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quote:

These questionable "masters" have decided I must follow their every directions and proceed "as if" I am their "slave".

quote:

Ideally, I'd like to find an older man, who is...aware that spanking is necessary to a healthy relationship.

Flip side of the same coin...

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RE: Here in Sacramento - 11/22/2007 9:21:29 AM

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Welcome to the forums.

I tend to agree with your first point:

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However, at this time for "masters" to contact me and expect me to treat them like I am "their" slave, is just nonsensensical.

Personally I have no expectations of slaves who are not mine, for the simple reason, they are not mine. They can stand or fall on their own merits, or their owners if owned by another.

Unfortunatly, and no bash to collarme intended, but there are numereous types who will message you with.. well, annoying would be the best term.
However as a whole, it is generally a great community.

While you do sound interesting, you are not specifically my type, however I will induldge and share some about myself.

I'm young, learning by leaps and bounds every day. Not to say learning ends with age, but I seem to be filled with a thirst for it as I learn and grow as a person.
I value honesty and the truth above all else, I can see past hideous scars, I can work on fragile minds, I cannot stand to be near someone who lies to me, even if it is only minor.
I usually get labeled a day dreamer, I'll sit in my reading chair all day, blink and wonder where the day went.
I also tend to surprise people when they learn I've been listening and paying attention to what's going on around me the whole time.

There's more, but I won't bore you.
Again, welcome to the forums, I hope you enjoy your stay.

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RE: Here in Sacramento - 11/22/2007 10:09:54 AM

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Russ, So very nice of you to contribute your comments on my introduction. I do appreciate it. You are a very interesting person, and aware of yourself. I enjoyed your comments about sitting and reading a book all day only to discover the day is gone.

I look forward to reading more of your comments in the forums.
best to you.

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RE: Here in Sacramento - 11/22/2007 10:16:12 AM

Lkg4MstrSacramen

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Michael,
what does "flip side of the same coin" mean to you? It appears you have found your match.

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RE: Here in Sacramento - 11/22/2007 10:24:54 AM

Qithoras

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Thank you Sacramen, Although I wouldn't go so far as to say interesting. Different perhaps.

Again, Welcome and the best of luck in your search.

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Mastering others is strength.
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RE: Here in Sacramento - 11/22/2007 11:46:11 AM

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You complain that others make expectations of you, that their way is univeral. That is a mistake on several levels.

Then you speak of your way (the need for spankings) as if that is what makes a relationship "healthy", it works for you but that doesn't mean it works for anyone else.

Two people saying the same thing in different ways.

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