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RE: help needed - 11/12/2007 4:31:33 PM

Prinsexx

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ORIGINAL: Celeste43

You don't think she's been punished enough for picking someone who thinks it's better to solicite strangers for information instead of talking (and listening) to her?

Yes you are right: the very worse punishment of all would be to take one of my IMPO quips as gospel

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RE: help needed - 11/12/2007 4:33:05 PM

Prinsexx

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ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy

I've always found that a turban and a crystal ball help to focus my brainwaves so I can influence anothers mind.

Oh it so does......

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RE: help needed - 11/12/2007 4:36:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: dawntreader

i applaud you for admiting that you are new to all this

oh now I feel guilt

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RE: help needed - 11/12/2007 4:48:04 PM

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ORIGINAL: mart39

newbie dom needs help im strugeling with mind control with my sub
any advice anyone please

Ok so now I feel guilt about not offering serious advice...so here is my advice, since you did admit to being a newbie which is sweet, especially for a Dom....

I do not remember ever having that feeling of being a newbie. It might be because I am so old BUT I guess I am one of those whom, when asked on alt.com for example how many years in the lifestyle I answer all adult life. Actually I was just more or less born the way I am...
so I have always assumed mind control to be present and correct and working just as long as i believe it to be working....in my case mind receptiveness as a sub......
she will intuit your lack of self-confidence and that alone will make her feel unsafe as a sub.....
so mind conttrol is not so much down to behaviours (as if you read through the posts here there are entirely conflicting views on use of negative and positive rewards) but it is down to a steady and absolute belief in yourself as having implicit mind comtrol built in as a Dom.....
fake it until you make it mate ok???

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RE: help needed - 11/12/2007 5:02:50 PM

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I completly agree with your advise! Communication is very importent.

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RE: help needed - 11/12/2007 5:11:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: Prinsexx

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ORIGINAL: MidMichCowboy

I've always found that a turban and a crystal ball help to focus my brainwaves so I can influence anothers mind.

Oh it so does......

Prinsexx ... we are so bad, we should feel ashamed.
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Hmmm, I'm going to have to look that word up. Does shame hurt?

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