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RE: Dominant bottom? - 11/26/2005 1:10:42 PM

RosaB

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ORIGINAL: LadyCompassion

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I lean towards being Dominant in D/s relationships and a bottom in S&M play. Anyone else out there similarly quirky like that?

Yes! That is me exactly. Just like you said..." I like pain but I like it on my terms"

I've been doing a lot of reevaluation of my own relationship dynamics in the bdsm world and I can say the above discription comes close to describing me, but I think if I had to really compare what I feel, the description of a sensation junkie would be it. I love that analysis. sounds so yummy just the thought of different sensations both applying and receiving them makes me feel all tingly. I haven't explored the receiving end yet, but I will soon enough. Can't wait.

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RE: Dominant bottom? - 11/28/2005 10:33:27 AM

ararka

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Yes,sometimes "submission" is the best way to dominate

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RE: Dominant bottom? - 1/2/2006 4:31:26 AM

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i agree, the sub does have a huge amount of control, like another friend told me i should have a stop word if things get way too heavy for me to handle

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RE: Dominant bottom? - 1/2/2006 6:04:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: markmjs

i agree, the sub does have a huge amount of control, like another friend told me i should have a stop word if things get way too heavy for me to handle

Mark :)

That's not necessarily having "control" - it's having a way to communicate an emergency.

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RE: Dominant bottom? - 1/3/2006 6:25:55 AM

markmjs

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That's not necessarily having "control" - it's having a way to communicate an emergency.

true, but doesnt the sub come to an agreement with the dom so the subs limits arnt pussed too far too soon?????

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RE: Dominant bottom? - 1/3/2006 10:47:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: markmjs
true, but doesnt the sub come to an agreement with the dom so the subs limits arnt pussed too far too soon?????

Yes, but a word won't do that- the doms character will do that. A safeword is a way to communicate "somethings wrong."

You have to trust the dom to actually STOP and check on what's going wrong and help get it right again.

Once you're tied up though, you're not the one who decides to stop things.

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