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Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 11:21:11 AM   
fergus


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Status: offline 		I just have a blast with BDSM - whether it is play, or an extended sort of thing.

Yet, when you look at the profiles and avatars, you see SO MANY people either scowling or looking sad.

*sigh* I dunno, a smile is just so much sexier (whether a joyous one, or a wicked grin)

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 11:23:37 AM   
SmokingGun82


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Status: offline 		Smiling is unnatural to me... it doesn't mean I'm unhappy, it just means my face doesn't always show it. I also feel like I always look like I'm faking it when I'm smiling, which is usually because I am.

So catching me smiling is a difficult thing to do.


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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 11:24:44 AM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		Haven't you heard? Smiling makes you less of a Dom.

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 11:30:55 AM   
TotalState


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Status: offline 		I'm smiling in both of my pictures, although I'm looking away from the camera in both, for privacy reasons. 




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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 11:32:46 AM   
astarri


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Status: offline 		I think that everywhere in the world people should smile more but it is not a reality. Some are just not smilers. For them to be all smiley would be breaking with who they really are.
Others do not like their teeth or smiles and are too insecure. Some just dont wanna.

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 11:46:18 AM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		i smile all the time...smiles are contageous....so i try to spread them around as much as possible...

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 11:48:53 AM   
camille65


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Status: offline 		I love to smile but most of the better photos I take don't have a smile. I smile a lot more in RL.

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 11:51:11 AM   
LadyLynx


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Status: offline 		I am laughing in my photo, does that count? lol

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 11:53:17 AM   
RumpusParable


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fergus

I just have a blast with BDSM - whether it is play, or an extended sort of thing.

Yet, when you look at the profiles and avatars, you see SO MANY people either scowling or looking sad.

*sigh* I dunno, a smile is just so much sexier (whether a joyous one, or a wicked grin)

fergus


And yet, you'll find so many sub males running the opposite direction because you're not playing UberDomme.  Goes for real-life, too...  Speak softly and politely and smile a lot and it's not uncommon to be considered not dominant or incapable of hard play. 

Time and place for everything, and reality means a variety of emotions!

But, hey, it's all part of the weeding process :)

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 11:56:59 AM   
fergus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyLynx

I am laughing in my photo, does that count? lol


Laughing counts double ;)

fergus

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 11:57:33 AM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Actually RP I think your picture has this sort of notsmiling wicked evil grin look to it...it makes me wonder what the heck you were thinking when the pic was taken  

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 12:00:57 PM   
RumpusParable


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Status: offline 		Lol, you'll find me smiling in some manner in all three of my photos here...  The image for my avatar was one taken just mugging for the camera on a day I felt especially cute haha.

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 12:04:08 PM   
fergus


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RumpusParable

Lol, you'll find me smiling in some manner in all three of my photos here...  The image for my avatar was one taken just mugging for the camera on a day I felt especially cute haha.


The turtle picture is especially cute ;)

fergus

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 12:09:25 PM   
xoxi


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Status: offline 		I'm smiling in my pic. Just not grinning.  You can tell more in my eyes than  my lips - I took it the day I got my collar and my eyes are full of adoration for my Master and pride at being his.

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 12:10:05 PM   
RumpusParable


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Status: offline 		:D   It's from a day at a safari park in VA during a roadtrip I was on...  very fun day of feeding zebras and llamas and such from my car as we drove through.  Then I got to feed a giraffe by hand, too.  By the turtle point I was feeling quite light and gay.

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 12:12:25 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		boo....well to me it's going to stay the "I'm hot and I know it and I can make you beg smile"...although the safari thing was a good story too

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 12:14:38 PM   
neloangelo1227


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Status: offline 		I value smiles. They are gifts, and I try to induce them and indulge in them as often as possible. I don't think the general lack of smiles is specific to CM or even the kink community at large--I think people everywhere just need to smile more! (Or find more reasons to smile.)

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 12:41:20 PM   
subtee


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Status: offline 		~blushes~

Actually, I'd like to do the one eyeball pic thing like Laurell...

sexy hot

(edited to add) or, Batshalom's sexy hot Mona Lisa smiling lips...

< Message edited by subtee -- 11/1/2007 12:44:55 PM >

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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 12:48:34 PM   
Tigrita


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Status: offline 		In most of my bondage pics, instead of that deep, intense, broken, 'submissive face' you usually see on people, I'm absolutely freaking giddy! I have some really hilarious ones of me laughing through a grimace while being swung around off the ground by a crotchrope/body harness, and of me grinning ear to ear over a rope gag =)\ I've been told I'm a blast to tie because I'm so playfull. People should definitely smile more! Though of course I would not want to go without the intense submissive headspace, that is just a different kind of fun and takes a different mindset.


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RE: Is smiling a crime? - 11/1/2007 12:53:21 PM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I just realized that my current photo is one of the few that I've seen where I am not smiling. I think I was in my old one, but now I don't remember.

damned CRS


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