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Bothering the Uninterested - 10/31/2007 9:08:00 PM   
mya75


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Status: offline 		Ok so I will make this short and sweet and in advance I thank anyone who reads and responds....I have looked at profiles *browsed them* and received several messages of this nature "I noticed you viewed my profile, didnt like what you saw?"
As for me I find that a little freaky and somewhat desperate I mean we put profiles on here knowing full and well people will view them,and then we bother all the people who dont like us..lol...just seems odd....I would like to know your thoughts on this and if this has happened to you? I read a lot about people so called "perving" profiles but to me the above action is far worse...

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RE: Bothering the Uninterested - 10/31/2007 9:15:18 PM   
SCMaster4sub


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Status: offline 		If you view someones profile, decide you like what you see...contact them. If they don't respond, perhaps they arn't interested..... Bothering them asking " why didn't you respond" is simply assenine. Have enough respect for yourself to let it slide, and keep looking.....

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RE: Bothering the Uninterested - 10/31/2007 9:18:56 PM   
TheHeretic


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Status: offline 		       One thing to always remember on the internet is that a certain percentage are going to be those with zero social skills.  They might think that is a good approach.  Then add that this place invites the sadistic.

      Hell, I'll click over to check my mail on the other side by viewing a handy profile from the forum.

     I wonder if they send those notes to Mod XI?

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RE: Bothering the Uninterested - 10/31/2007 9:20:38 PM   
mya75


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Status: offline 		Ha-Ha ....Its almost like you have to get permission to browse profile which are public info anyway.....*scratches her head*

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RE: Bothering the Uninterested - 10/31/2007 9:22:11 PM   
MissMagnolia


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Status: offline 		Perving profiles is simply looking at the full profile. No big deal.

I get heaps of people viewing my profile, D and s, and it's mostly because they've read something I said in the forums and want to know who said it. No big deal.

People emailing me to bitch about my profile? Yes, often. No big deal.

Don't like it, don't email me to tell me, because I don't care about your problem with it lil dawgies. Again, no big deal.



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RE: Bothering the Uninterested - 10/31/2007 9:29:48 PM   
CollegeConundrum


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Status: offline 		Yeah....that's a little out there.

Although I will admit my curiosity is ravenous about who is looking, why they're looking, and what they did or didn't like.  In the end, I don't really give a crap, if they message or not.

But...if I see their profile and I like what I see, I'll definitely message.

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RE: Bothering the Uninterested - 10/31/2007 9:57:57 PM   
ModeratorEleven


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quote:

ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

I wonder if they send those notes to Mod XI?

I get quite a few, actually.  Usually from people with guilty consciences asking what they did.

XI


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RE: Bothering the Uninterested - 10/31/2007 10:02:28 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I have gotten a few "if you arent looking why did you view my profile?" type questions.
Simple, either you said something interesting on a forum, I liked your picture, or I thought you might have had something interesting to say.  It had gotten to a point where I no longer perv full profiles. I will type a username into the search box and read the stuff there. That way it doesnt register as being perved and I dont have to deal with the sillyness.

DV


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RE: Bothering the Uninterested - 10/31/2007 10:03:46 PM   
MzMia


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Status: offline 		CM only recently added the feature that allows you to see
who is viewing your profile.
I rarely check to see who is viewing me, and I think maybe we
were better off without that feature.
I look at almost everyone's profile, eventually, for the hell of it.
 
Don't worry about people obsessed with who is looking at their profiles.
Just ignore the emails from those that are getting their panties in a bunch over
who is looking at their profile on the internet.
If they don't want anyone looking at their profile, they can remove it. 

 Where do these people come from?

< Message edited by MzMia -- 10/31/2007 10:39:50 PM >

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RE: Bothering the Uninterested - 10/31/2007 10:37:01 PM   
popeye1250


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Status: offline 		People look at my profile all the time.
I don't mind, that's what it's there for.

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RE: Bothering the Uninterested - 10/31/2007 11:04:22 PM   
TheHeretic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: ModeratorEleven

quote:

ORIGINAL: TheHeretic

I wonder if they send those notes to Mod XI?

I get quite a few, actually.  Usually from people with guilty consciences asking what they did.

XI



     Do they get a link to the thread on that topic?  LOL

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