What are you looking for help with? There are some really great books on BDSM that are pretty basic if you are interested:
Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism
by Philip Miller and Molly Devon
SM101: A Realistic Introduction
by Jay Wiseman
Good Luck!
Thorysus -> RE: Newbie (11/1/2007 1:13:43 PM)
Yes i agree with the book SM101 by Jay Weisman, i have read it and its good. The others im not familar with but sound good as well. I new myself but am finding out the more i read this board and talk with other members that this place does have some nice and good memebers, stick around and you'll start to find whats good for you. good luck on your journey.
Welcome to Collar Me, the Message Boards and to the lifestyle! We're glad to have you here!
Don't worry about being new; we all were at one time. Just remember to be patient (with yourself and the process). Take the time to learn about yourself as much as learning about the lifestyle. Please let me know if i may be of any assistance.