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RE: I don't like being tied up, but....... - 11/6/2007 4:21:24 AM

Dnomyar

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Hey you dont have to pay me to tie you up.

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RE: I don't like being tied up, but....... - 11/6/2007 8:45:03 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

It's easy to get someone fairly open about sex into kinky sex.

It's not easy to maintain a long term Ds relationship, specially with someone not initially oriented towards it.

so agreed,,, tis easy to play with one whom is open minded to trying new things,, but to "convert" and keep one in a D/s relationship is much harder,, jsut think ,, how many of us are still with our first partner that we experimented with ,,, not I ,,

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RE: I don't like being tied up, but....... - 11/6/2007 11:34:46 AM

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It is soooo easy to piss people off on this site! I love it! And I love being broke and ugly.

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RE: I don't like being tied up, but....... - 11/6/2007 11:51:25 AM

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Experienced subs see through me. You are right. These so-called "experienced subs" are looking for a hunk or a guy with money who might tie them up. That's not BDSM, that's High School.

It is for this reason specifically that I asked the question I did in the "Ask A Master" forum.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1330833/tm.htm

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RE: I don't like being tied up, but....... - 11/7/2007 3:54:17 AM

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ORIGINAL: sammiebabygirl

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ORIGINAL: roland23

Experienced subs see through me. You are right. These so-called "experienced subs" are looking for a hunk or a guy with money who might tie them up. That's not BDSM, that's High School.

It is for this reason specifically that I asked the question I did in the "Ask A Master" forum.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_1330833/tm.htm

jen

To quote you from your link How do you feel about a sub who is experienced, strong, very open and sexually adventurous? Would she be a fantasy come true or intimidating?

The sub should shut up and tow the line once boundaries have been agreed and if she wants money for the privelege, she is a prostitute.

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RE: I don't like being tied up, but....... - 11/7/2007 5:09:08 AM

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Turn someone who needs a power equal relationship into someone who prefers an unequal power component to their relationship, nope.

True, but I think there are plenty out there have a latent desire for unequal power relationships. They could give the perception of being converted when in fact they are just discovering what they've wanted all along. So we don't know if they're being converted to being perverted until we give 'em a test drive.

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RE: I don't like being tied up, but....... - 11/7/2007 5:17:01 AM

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Never had a problem of introducing a vanilla to BDSM though and when they get the taste, boy, do all you birthdays come at once!

So ... how many birthdays have you had?

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RE: I don't like being tied up, but....... - 11/7/2007 6:31:26 AM

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ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

Never had a problem of introducing a vanilla to BDSM though and when they get the taste, boy, do all you birthdays come at once!

So ... how many birthdays have you had?