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Openess - 10/23/2007 11:01:38 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Other than UM's where should openess stop and limits be imposed?
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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 11:02:27 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I think that entirely depends on the individual. What may work for one person may not for another.

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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 11:03:36 AM   
RRafe


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Status: offline 		At the edges of your comfort zones.

Zones that expand with association.

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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 11:04:39 AM   
MadRabbit


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Status: offline 		Whatever the individual decides based on the information and opinions they have gathered.

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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 11:04:52 AM   
mnbilliardguy35


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Status: offline 		that should be between the 2 of you on how open you intend to be...........

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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 11:21:11 AM   
chellekitty


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Status: offline 		actually i feel that depends more on the people you are interacting with...my rights end where another person's begin...

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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 11:31:13 AM   
CreativeDominant


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Status: offline 		I think it depends on the individuals involved in the dynamic.  Some prefer an open relationship in terms of relating in a physical way to others; others add in mental and emotional components.

In terms of openness in relating to each other, that is touched upon by how honest each person wants the other to be and wants to be with their partner.

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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 2:01:06 PM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		I do my best to have no boundaries around openness.  BSB and I share our passwords as we try and have few if any secrets from each other.  One of the reasons I am so deeply in love is I feel free to share myself completely with her without fear of rejection, revulsion, or anything else negative.

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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 2:08:44 PM   
ownedgirlie


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Status: offline 		In my relationship, that's for my Master to decide.  Thus far, he has expanded my mental, emotional and physical boundaries to the point where I am totally free and and uninhibited with him, and can love him and serve him and share with him as completely as I need to.

But everyone's boundaries are different.  Some are willing to expand, others are not.  Some prefer to maintain control of them, others do not.  I can not decide for others what they should do or how they should conduct their relationships.  I can, however, strive to be the best I can be in mine.

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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 5:06:46 PM   
breatheasone


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Other than UM's where should openess stop and limits be imposed?

Openess about what?...Master and I are open with each other...we hide nothing because we have nothing to hide


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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 5:07:29 PM   
Wildfleurs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Dnomyar

Other than UM's where should openess stop and limits be imposed?


Where my owner says they should be.

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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 5:34:08 PM   
LATEXBABY64


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Status: offline 		um this is new concept ?

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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 6:10:03 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		For me it depends on where I want to go and what I want the outcome to be.

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RE: Openess - 10/23/2007 7:21:06 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Openness should be between people who agree to be open. Forcing details of your sex life on a strait laced coworker, or an elderly grandmother for that matter is inappropriate. Before we decide to go sharing stuff, would it not be better to ask the other person if they want to hear it?

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RE: Openess - 10/24/2007 5:09:23 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		I would like to withdraw this question. When you post a question you mind knows what you are trying to convey. When you write it down and post it and read the answers you can see that you were not very clear in your meaning. Are there any proof readers out there.

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RE: Openess - 10/24/2007 6:52:40 AM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		I think you need a mind reader with this, not a proof reader. We're all grasping at straws as to what you were aiming at, as shown by the variety of answers.

But yes, two n's in openness.

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RE: Openess - 10/24/2007 8:00:44 AM   
Dnomyar


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Status: offline 		Celeste post that in the spelling thread. Of course if your flawless disreguard this.

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RE: Openess - 10/24/2007 9:53:52 AM   
soultoshare


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Status: offline 		Sorry, Dnomyar....it's "disregard".

Really, I couldn't resist.......smile......you're supposed to!



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RE: Openess - 10/24/2007 10:03:14 AM   
slaverosebeauty


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Status: offline 		Depends on the issue.  MJ an I are very open, sometimes it hits 'TMI' [too much information]; but its a matter of comfort.  How comfortable you are with the person(s) in question, the situation and the possible outcome. 
 
My best friend was in the room while I had a biopsy that was in a very delicate place, we were joking around and talking during it; we are very comfortable with eachother, nothing is too 'private' or 'off-limits' with her.  With MJ, I spare Him the details as much as possible unless He asks for them specifically.
 
As a matter of my lifestyle choise being open about it, almost all of my friends know, a few family members know and I have had a few co-workers in the past find out; heck a few were on this site and contacted me, lol.  It's all about your comfortzone, some have larger ones than others.    

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