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LadyPact -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 12:09:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie If these slaves and submissives are actually your friends, why would you send them to someone who doesn't know what he is doing? Hopefully you would tell them that, first...?? [sm=applause.gif]

Prinsexx -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 12:12:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RRafe I 'd just say..ya, her therapy and meds seem to be working...kinda sorta....... Oh, and are you good at changing diapers? I know one that........[;)] I would have said exactly the same......except we say nappies

came4U -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 12:14:19 PM)
Turning a grown man into a Dominant (whether he knew of the lifestyle or not) is just a plain no no. If someone my age, or abouts, isn't dominant already, he just isn't. If you are talking kink? Sure, anyone can try it, even like it and live it. It doesn't make them more or less Dominant at all. It just makes them adaptable to another's needs (thus, a bottom). Yeeesh.

Prinsexx -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 12:17:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: xoxi Send one right on over...they'll be quite disappointed when the 'submissive' is less likely to do what they want than a 'vanilla' girl is because we need to sense some inherent dominance I agree...inherent dominance...now there's a quality indeed........

RosesHaveThorns -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 1:04:29 PM)
If I understand this situation correctly, I would have just laughed in the face of these insta-doms. Or possibly kick them in the shins. And if you want to keep your sub friends, keep the losers away from them! BUT! If, for some reason, you actually think that one of these...Er, gentlemen is interested in being a DOM, not just getting laid with a girl who they think is more likely to put out and shut up, first think long and hard. Will they be compatible with any of the girls on an emotional level? Mental level? What are these girls looking for? Boyfriends, or doms, or both? Will any of them be able to learn, and be paitent and not get frustrated that he's not getting his jollies within five minutes? Is he wiling to list what he wants EXACTLY, have a general idea of terminology, and to respect the girl's limits? Is there any reason to think that the subs won't kick the guy out the door? If one guy seems to have potential...Introduce them in PUBLIC, first. Go out and get some coffee. If sparks fly, then do what others have suggested and monitor it. If they don't...Then they don't, and the two could just become friends. EDIT: Did anyone else think of instant ramen and thought of "Instant Dom: Just add hot water"?

Missokyst -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 1:11:17 PM)
I'd call them lazy, and tell them to do their own work. Kyst

CreativeDominant -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 1:20:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RosesHaveThorns EDIT: Did anyone else think of instant ramen and thought of "Instant Dom: Just add hot water"? ~raises hand~[&:] I have to agree with those that say if you are being serious about this, make sure the submissive knows and is O.K. with it. I would also go along for awhile to teach techniques for the BDSM play and to mentor him. If you are being devious and wicked...which I find hard to believe because Lord knows most of us male dominant types are such angels...then I would find a real SAMmie, let her in on the gag and send her to him.

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 1:22:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Dnomyar I have a lot of Submissive/Slave friends. I always have guys asking me if I could send one of then their way. They believe that it would make them an instant Dom. I'm tempted to send them a SAM but I would hate to see their ego destroyed. How would you handle the request? I'd tell them that I'm not the government so quit asking for a handout. A real man goes out and gets himself some pussy, not ask his bro if he can loan him some.

RosesHaveThorns -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 1:26:49 PM)
Or if these girls are the feisty type...Get a bunch of them together, tell them the joke, and introduce these doms one per meeting. Remember that women are more dangerous in groups. Play a game where you score a point every time you make the wannabe dom scared or flinch. Some suggestions for them are: "You call that a spank? Here, let ME show you a spank! Bend over!" "You? You call yourself a Dom? Don't make me laugh" "Oh, I'm bored of this one already. Here, you can have him" (To another lady) Remember to tell them to whisper to each other so that he can't hear and giggle a lot.

KiandPhoenix -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 1:49:33 PM)
I wouldn't mind someone sending me a SAM. We named our new kitten Sam after Phoenix. So because I am already the proud owned of one SAM personality, two would not be that much harder. I have learned how to deal with them with good effect. To answer the question though, I would tell the guy asking to go find his own sub, unless you know soomeone who would be just a great match to each of their desires. ~Ki

chellekitty -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 2:47:38 PM)
my only thoughts on the subject are....if you're gonna play pimp, be sure to give the girls their fair cut...

Phin -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 2:51:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Phin insta-dom, hmmm?? tell them they need to add more water, when they tell you that they have, tell them they added too much... quote: ORIGINAL: RosesHaveThorns Did anyone else think of instant ramen and thought of "Instant Dom: Just add hot water"? *lowers head, raises hand...

Prinsexx -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 4:26:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RosesHaveThorns Did anyone else think of instant ramen and thought of "Instant Dom: Just add hot water"? Now that is real spooky as I just got our from the 'Reality' thread ....well just about I think....to say the very same thing.... you know like... tear across dotted line and open packet pour water up to line and stir actually even better...... place Instant Dom packet in microwave and leave on fulll power until popping noises stop...... or Pull ripchord and watch whilst INSTANT DOM DOLL INFLATES OR INSTANT DOM the amazing car companion for any lonely sub or FLICK BOOK INSTANT DOM...just flick the pages and watch him cane her ass in quick succession or INSTANT DOM a must have at your high school prom etc etc oh I gotta bet back to the Reality thread.....

MidMichCowboy -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 4:47:08 PM)
I don't introduce people in that way. It avoids having someone wanting to kill me when the relationship doesn't work out. (Do I really sound that cynical?)

dawntreader -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 6:17:39 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: canupleaseme I learn a new thing each day on here lol me too![8\|]

Lordandmaster -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 6:22:07 PM)
When you're transporting Instant Dom it's very important to make sure it doesn't get wet, otherwise it's useless when you unpack it.

RRafe -> RE: Instant Dom (10/17/2007 7:27:13 PM)
Does it come with self important titles too? Or is that the mark two version? This stuff always CONFUSES me.

AZSweetie -> RE: Instant Dom (10/18/2007 9:46:30 AM)
Send Him a SAM...Send Him a SAM!! Wait.... send him 2 SAMs. Include a how to be a Dom overnite manual too. A book with illustrations would be a plus! He'll be in Dom heaven! [8D]

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