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miladyh -> Just me saying HELLO (10/16/2007 3:09:55 PM)
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I am Milady h I am a submissive who has limited experience in the lifestyle and I will explain that...
About 15 years ago my ex-husband and I were introduced to BDSM by a couple we knew from our local swingers group. At that time we began to experiement with things that felt right to us. This is why my experience is limited, we developed a dynamic of our own and set down our own rules. We researched many aspects of the lifestyle and we evolved into a Master/slave relationship with aspects we pulled from both realms of BDSM and Gor. Mind you this is the only master I have ever had.
About 2 years ago I discovered he was using the lifestyle as a means to lie and cheat and break all the rules we had set forth and had been doing so for some time. Needless to say that was the end of that.
The last 2 years I was in a vanilla relationship and through out that time I began to miss the lifestyle and have come to realize my true nature is one of submissive and I am returning to being true to who and what I am.
I am a firm believer in to each their own and no-ones style is better than the other it is the choices we make in our life that defines who we are.
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