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Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 9:11:25 AM   
teacherspet101


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Status: offline 		i would be interested in knowing how You would handle someone that You met here on this site that was NOT what they said they were....in an acceptable and proper way?
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RE: Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 9:12:37 AM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		Need more information you're too vague

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RE: Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 9:13:10 AM   
mistoferin


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Status: offline 		I would tell them that I wasn't interested in any further interaction. Dishonesty does not make for a good first impression. No need for a second one.

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RE: Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 9:20:21 AM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Lotsa kids make tend out here.  No longer invite them into your sandbox.

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RE: Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 9:40:05 AM   
PrettyOHDomme


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Status: offline 		Don't feel like you need to be "acceptable and proper" with someone who has lied to you.

Respect should be earned...

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RE: Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 9:41:59 AM   
IrishMist


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ORIGINAL: teacherspet101

i would be interested in knowing how You would handle someone that You met here on this site that was NOT what they said they were....in an acceptable and proper way?

What do you mean by 'handle'? Are you talking about sending out an alert to collarme that this person did not live up to your expectations? Or are you only talking about yourself, personally, and how you should handle it?



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RE: Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 9:43:14 AM   
FullCircle


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Status: offline 		My favourite Pretender track is “I go to sleep.”

Damn it, why do I only read the topic header?

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RE: Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 10:36:46 AM   
Rushemery


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Status: offline 		Block them after you explain why your blocking them, but do it nicely no reason to be rude 

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RE: Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 10:42:20 AM   
KatyLied


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Status: offline 		I would probably say something like "we are not compatible, goodbye."  

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RE: Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 10:42:52 AM   
pahunkboy


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Status: offline 		while hunting - i have said- excuse me as ild like to socialize. / i sorta want to look around/ im going to mingle


or "im busy" works too

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RE: Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 10:49:11 AM   
Maya2001


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Status: offline 		Just politely say you are no longer interested in persuing a realtionship with them. 
Sometimes it is not a matter of being a pretender but more a matter of interpretation,  I had one dom tell me I was not a real sub simply because I refused to call him Sir  during the first emails and chats, so he blew me off as a pretender, to me the title Sir is not required until a commitment is made , so I also did not view him as a dom but a wannabe player


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RE: Pretenders..... - 10/14/2007 11:14:16 AM   
slaverosebeauty


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Status: offline 		If they are a troll or a pretender or a wannabe, call them on it; then walk away.  No use in saying anything more than you have to to someone who has misled you. IF they email you again, just 'delete' their email it shows up on their end as 'deleted unread.' They will get the message; if not, block them.

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