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Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 4:05:37 PM

goldheart

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HI. I thinking a lot of slave training where i will be trained into slavery and becomes a true slave. Where can i get trained ? How long time do Master/Mistress normaly train slaves? What will happens when the Master/mistress thinks that the slave is ready to be called a slave ?
I am good working whith my hands and have served a Mistress before but i whould like to get trained and serve in an other countryoutside scandinavien.
I whold like to here from a Master / Mistress about your experience about slave training for longer period to create a true slave.
Looking forward to read your thougts and answer your questions.
Take care .

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 4:29:04 PM

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Where can i get trained ?

I hear the local college has a 6 week course that starts in two weeks.

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How long time do Master/Mistress normaly train slaves?

see answer above

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What will happens when the Master/mistress thinks that the slave is ready to be called a slave ?

I guess you go out into the big bad world and test your skills

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 4:44:58 PM

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This is one of those cases where our language in BDSM means something different than it does in the rest of the world.
Slave training does not mean something like a college course (yeah, I got a big chuckle out of your post, IrishMist- thanks)
Training is just the process of surrendering to your Dom/me, and being taught exactly how to please them, and ideally, growing deeper in your surrender and sense of being controlled.
Of course in this anarchic, everyone-defines-it-in-their-own-way world of BDSM, "training" could, and probably does, have meanings beyond what I have described.

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 4:46:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: AnimusRex

This is one of those cases where our language in BDSM means something different than it does in the rest of the world.
Slave training does not mean something like a college course (yeah, I got a big chuckle out of your post, IrishMist- thanks)
Training is just the process of surrendering to your Dom/me, and being taught exactly how to please them, and ideally, growing deeper in your surrender and sense of being controlled.
Of course in this anarchic, everyone-defines-it-in-their-own-way world of BDSM, "training" could, and probably does, have meanings beyond what I have described.

OMG you have got to be fucking kidding. REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLY?
Well FUCK, when did they stop the college courses?????!!!!!

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 5:21:20 PM

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OMG you have got to be fucking kidding. REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLY?
Well FUCK, when did they stop the college courses?????!!!!!

Uhmmm, just last Thursday actually, seems the Prof was caught sodomizing a raccoon in the Mens room at a park just off campus.

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 5:34:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: InkedMaster

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

OMG you have got to be fucking kidding. REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLY?
Well FUCK, when did they stop the college courses?????!!!!!

Uhmmm, just last Thursday actually, seems the Prof was caught sodomizing a raccoon in the Mens room at a park just off campus.

LMAO... you bad, bad, bad man

LOL

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 5:37:42 PM

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ORIGINAL: InkedMaster

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ORIGINAL: IrishMist

OMG you have got to be fucking kidding. REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLY?
Well FUCK, when did they stop the college courses?????!!!!!

Uhmmm, just last Thursday actually, seems the Prof was caught sodomizing a raccoon in the Mens room at a park just off campus.

The raccoon says nothing happened; it just has a wide stance, what with four feet and all.

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 5:38:53 PM

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LMFAO

OMG, ya'll are killing me

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 6:15:33 PM

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Well training is kinda of a fetish in itself, it's listed as one in fact, and the idea of regimentation and clear expectations are what draws a lot of people to BDSM in the first place.

Having said that, what kind of training and how long depends on the Dom/Domina - there are some submissive in here that I could see taking taking a lifetime - there really isn't any certification process, it's not an institution, it's a collection of people with similar tastes and interests, and there aren't any schools, in the institutional sense, there are relationships, although I'm sure there are Dominas who would be happy to start one with you - expect to pay tuition.

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 6:22:37 PM

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so you want to become a true (twue) slave

well, send $999.99 to CM Slave 4 U Training Schoool and you'll get in return a 3 CD/DVD course on how to be that true slave for your Master/Mistress!

learn the correct way to kneel, take a hard spanking, the proper way of addressing your owner ...also we have courses that include bondage, blindfold and oral (giving/receiving)

mention this code word TWUE and receive a very very special collar with your order - only to be worn AFTER completing the course. upon completion - you'll receive your diploma certifying that you are a TWUE slave!

that's CM Slave 4 U Training School - locations in all major cities

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 7:08:23 PM

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Shoot... i tried that and never got my special collar... i was so disappointed!!

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 7:10:48 PM

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OK people. Fun is fine, but do remember this person is writing in a language other than his home language, and English is a pretty frustrating language to deal with! So cut him a break!

goldheart, there are some people who generally train slaves, and yes, some do charge money, but most people here wouldn't think this is necessarily the best way. Most here believe that becoming a slave is a matter of finding the right Mistress with whom you feel a deep commitment and putting your effort into learning what She wants. As you learn you gradually submit or surrender more and more of yourself to Her and become Her slave. There is no set time, it depends on how quickly you learn, and how deep the relationship goes.

To help you to find the right person, I would suggest the following:
* work on your profile a bit - use a dictionary to correct your English spelling, make clear that you are looking for someone outside Scandinavia (though that will make the search more difficult), tell a bit more about yourself, such as the skills you have (eg what sort of work do you do with your hands?) and what experience have you had before.
* try searching Mistress profiles here but do read them carefully. It's insulting to send messages to Mistresses if you've not read what they have said eg to offer yourself to Me would annoy Me as I live in Australia and have clearly said in My profile I am only interested in those in the same country.
* send a positive opening message that shows you have read the profile. Don't offer to be Her slave ... you don't even know Her! Instead ask if She might be willing to exchange messages with you to help you learn and to get to know each other a bit.
* post on these forums - you might catch the eye of a Mistress who could be interested. Also, the more you post, the symbol under your name will change. I think the vanilla cone goes between post 25 and 26! you may also read posts by a Mistress that you like and you are interested in, in which case you can write to Her and refer to what She has said that caught your interest.

I think your main barrier will be your desire to venture out of Scandinavia. Long distance relationships (LDRs) are difficult to maintain at the best of times, even more difficult if you don't share the same language. It's also costly to go and visit, and you really shouldn't make a commitment to relocate to someone unless you have met them several times for increasing lengths of time and so are confident that it will work out. So it might be advisable to re-think this ... what would be wrong with finding a Mistress somewhere in Scandinavia? If you just want to get out of there, find a job elsewhere, do the effort of relocating to somewhere you want to live where there might be an active bdsm scene, and then go about trying to find a Mistress locally.

Good luck!
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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 7:37:29 PM

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Good for you, violet, for being the voice of reason and decency in answering this man's sincere question. I really dont see why people who have nothing positive to say need to bother saying anything at all, unless they simply have nothing better to do on their Saturday night. Hope he skips past all the nonsense and ridicule and goes right to your very well written and useful comments.

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/13/2007 10:17:38 PM

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How long time do Master/Mistress normaly train slaves?

Till the big hand reaches the little hand..and that hand doesn't flinch.

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/14/2007 1:27:05 AM

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Yawn. This is exactly the kind of treatment people get blown away by. Amazing how so many of you "real deal" people can't resist snide comments. And by the way, laugh at each other, but your jokes are so not funny, not to mention so predictable. Oh, I forgot, how "intelligent" you all are. Give me a break fakes. Answer the question, and resist the urge for what you might consider "wit". But then again, most of you lol at each other, like a bad comedian laughing at their own joke

For the OP...don't take everything to heart. It's out there for you. Just remember the first mention of money from a non-pro is a warning sign...run for the nearest exit. As far as time frame...that's between you and her/him/them. Best of luck to you

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/14/2007 9:26:43 AM

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Hmm.. I know someone must have a link somewhere. I had read about a slave training academy where people go for service type training in .. I think it was Germany? I didn't think to keep the link, sorry. But it was not so much sexually oriented as it was traditional servitude. Good luck finding what you need.
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RE: Slave training ? - 10/14/2007 12:52:34 PM

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At the risk of getting made fun or put down for this [again], I have had formal [slave] training. I was with a Top who was a 'trainer' and I also spent time with other Tops when I first entered into this lifestyle and had training as well; things that were 'transferable' for the most part to other relationships.

Their are some Tops who all they do is 'train;' I never paid for my training it was a loose relationship [mostly for play, no real romantic interest or relationship.]

To the OP, ignore those people who just put you down and others for desiring more formal training, its their way. Feel free to contact me on the other side for info on training and how to find someone to train you.

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/14/2007 1:09:56 PM

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I will gladly train for free (in money, but will cost heart and mind and body while) here is what 'training' will really be ---

think of on the job training, or job training or probation at say (trivially) McDonalds---- here is how you dress, here is the way you present a table, here is the way you suck cock, here is how I am greeted, here is how and were you kneel, here is how you beg---------

Certainly individualistic, but you know kinda what to expect, yadda yadda yadda but there is NO ONE out there that has some mirable dictu that is will make you better or worse for it. The way this comes up all the time there is no doubt alot of it is forceplay excuse------well I have to learn and he requires cocksucking----

Read books and other things as well will be required, to learn domestic skills one guy wants his shirts and underwear ironed, another wants starch another not------

Can't sew? I am not going to teach you, but I will train youu.......much to your dismay and your effort and your pricked fingers and your reading the sewing machine book and reciting the parts of a sewing machine.......

So, if you wanna play service, write me, we will check out when you can pop by the house....

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/14/2007 1:38:10 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: goldheart

HI. I thinking a lot of slave training where i will be trained into slavery and becomes a true slave. Where can i get trained ? How long time do Master/Mistress normaly train slaves? What will happens when the Master/mistress thinks that the slave is ready to be called a slave ?

Greetings goldheart,

Experience will surely be your best training and perhaps best done before jumping in 24/7. i know in the beginning of my journey, i was told many times that i had the heart of a slave only to be told by the same people i did not belong in the lifestyle. Talk about confused!

But amidst all those vieing for my submission, there were several mentors that came thru to show me the ropes (of which i am STILL learning) There may be reputable places here and in your country that can train one in the basics but you will meet someone that will want to train you for themselves and that is really what it is all about.

One of the Dominants i serve has never "trained" me. He says that he loves the way my submission and service are so "natural". i simply tell him "i am inspired"

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RE: Slave training ? - 10/19/2007 5:43:34 PM

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I've been reading the various postings here. First goldheart you need to really want and know what you are looking and growing into. Many of us here take it very seriously that part of the lifestyle that we choose and lead both in the outside world as well as behind doors. One first has to know of themselves before they really know what it is. Master/Dom/Owners are unique for they are the guide and control, yes Mistress/Domme/Owners also are the guides too, but one has to walk in the slave slippers before they can really understand where in the life they belong. Giving of ones submission is not easy it takes many hours of self examination and then the giving of that submission in the form of complete and total trust.

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