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cbtok -> RE: going to a pro and age (10/13/2007 1:03:50 PM)
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I live in a mid-sized town in the Bible Belt. Doubt there any pros here... I'll probably have to wait until I move somewhere else.
Essentially what you are saying here is that you are afraid of being found out where you live near Houston. There are lots of very good professionals in your area (and, indeed in all areas) who, for the right amount of cash, will give you a full introduction to what you seek.
One issue is enough cash. That requires work on your part. You do have a job don't you?
Don't lie to a professional about your age. In many states there is "majority" and "super-majority." they are reflected in how you can, at 18, enlist in the military without parental consent but you may not marry without their approval until 21 in many areas. Professionals should, and most do, pay careful attention to legal issues associated with their craft (doesn't matter if they're Dommes or CPAs). Some pros simply won't see someone under a certain age. I know one who will not see you until you are 25 and prefers gentlemen over 40, but that's defining a demographic to whom she prefers to cater.
Do tell a professional what you wish to experience and do expect to get a safeword that will allow you to end a session. If you are to be restricted as to sounds you might make, all pros I have met allow the use of a safe gesture.
Go through a BDSM checklist and mark answers to lists of experiences you would and would not like to have. Make sure the pro receives that in advance of your visit. Plan to discuss your likes and fantasies with the pro but don't get into a long, drawn out conversation that is all about your deciding to not go through with it.
Be totally and utterly prompt. Not early, not late. If you're concerned about getting there on time, use Mapquest to get you there and leave yourself time to wait outside her establishment while you collect yourself and wait until "early" passes and "on time" arrives. She'll be discreet, you can count on that.
Be pleasant in your demeanor and your body odor. Shower first and don't bathe in cologne or a "loud"-smelling soap. If you expect anal play, give yourself an enema and make sure you are clean inside and out. Shave your pubic area so she can easily get to your "wobbly bits."
Also understand that she wants repeat customers. She's not going to bite (assuming that's not your style). She's not going to do something you don't consent to. She is probably going to give you a wonderful ride that you'll treasure for a lifetime. And you should expect to want to do more. So relax and think of a visit to a pro as the same thing as a visit to a high-end stereo store: You'll part with a fair amount of money but it is exactly what you want.
Collar Me has a search function. Use it. There are professionals in your area. Today. Now.
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