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IamJustMe2C -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 6:49:37 AM)
For my ex and I it all depended on how bad the cramps were. It didnt put me off and when her cramps wer not to bad it made them disapate. but as for the fetish no there was none. yes we loved cuttings and needle work but not menstral play in any way.

celticlord2112 -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 6:51:48 AM)
quote: For guys what do you think about having sex durring a womans moontime? Moontime, suntime, nighttime, daytime, anytime...it's all good![:D] A woman on her cycle is just as desirable as at any other time of the month.

AquaticSub -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 6:54:21 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd Does having sex while you ( if a woman) are on your moontime (menses) turn you on, or do you not allow it? It's up to him to allow or disallow it but it doesn't turn either of us on or off. If we want to have sex during my menses we will. If not, we don't. quote: For guys what do you think about having sex durring a womans moontime? My guess is that Valyraen would say "squishy". I'll ask when he gets home. [:)] quote: Also have you ever had any blood play scenes or experiance? He's drawn my blood with fangs and I've drawn his by accident with my fingernails. quote: A lot of people think this is one of the last great vestages of Taboo. I would like to see what you folks think. Can't say I see it that way at all. I don't think I've ever had a partner who even suggested we shouldn't have sex while I was on my period.

AquaticSub -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 6:59:39 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: joanus I can't imagne it being good for the woman with the cramps and all. Not to mention most religions forbid it. (Im not a religious person) And then there is blood poisoning, if your not careful you could end up with Hepatitus-C, and that would suck. Actually, more than one woman finds that sex on her period relieves her cramps, assuming their period hasn't made their vagina and vulva too sensitive to tolerate the act. Valyraen is most kind to act as Midol during my period. [;)]

michelleryder -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 7:22:12 AM)
Master doesn't like sex when I'm on my period which is a nuisance as that's when I'm at my horniest for some reason. We both like blood from other parts of me when we play though but yes it can be a mess. The spikey paddles are fun on your backside but they don't half splatter.

NeedsBallsBusted -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 7:34:43 AM)
This is a good topic! I don't mind menstrual blood at all. In fact, I like it. The scent and the flavor are appealing to me. In my experience women are their horniest when they are menstruating so why not use that time to your advantage? Now obviously, I wouldn't do this with someone I wasn't involved in a relationship with because of the various maladies carried in blood such as HIV and Hepatitis C, but with that exception, try to hold me back! [8D]

BossyShoeBitch -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 7:44:56 AM)
Once, Michael and I were in a hotel room in San Jose and I started menstruating... The room ended up looking like a crime scene. It was apropos to the "game" we were playing at the time at least! (We left a REALLY big tip with a note apologizing for the mess too...)

Babybass -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 7:50:21 AM)
The first time Daddy and i played i got my period in the middle. he was ok about it even though i was sooo embarrassed - but he loves the extra mess!! Its not a fetish or anything - he just loves messy sex - so anything that adds to it is all the better!! As for other blood play - he has drawn blood when biting me - again not a fetish - more of an accident!!

LadyLynx -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 8:07:03 AM)
I had never cared for sex during my menses, mostly because of the crampy,general achyness,crabby and lethargic feelings that I have. I would of given that one Dom a piece of my mind, if he told me I was to never wear underwear! My last boyfriend told me that he didn't mind sex during menses, and that infact he liked it because then lubricant isn't needed. As for the spiritual aspect, ever since I got into paganism I usually do something every month to celebrate or to at least reflect on being a woman. Blood play in general, as I said in the Vore thread, the idea turns me on. The trouble has been in finding someone who is into it. As for the STD's boy does that ever complicate it!

Stephann -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 8:09:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Tigrita I have no taboo problem with it, just that it is a pain because of the mess and a bigger, more literal pain the first day or two. Just inconvinient and a bit of a kill-joy, but hormones often overcome that. Never been with a man long term who was terribly icked by it, they've felt pretty much the same way I do about it. Yup. Just means keep a dark colored towel handy for just such occasions. To be honest, I've found most often that women tend to be more enthusiastic during the act at that time of month. Must be the hormones. As for bloodplay, I've not really crossed that line yet. I'd have to really be prepared; ensure that my gear is in order (I'd probably invest in surgical steel gear just for the task, and take care to sterilize it beforehand.) I dig Neala's story too; but for going about a scene or activity with the intention of drawing blood, I'd be a little concerned about infection etc. Maybe I just need some practice.... Stephan

YesMistressIrish -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 8:17:08 AM)
Re: blood and sex: Love making made my cramps go away, my mood better, and helped to get rid of my headache. The endorphins and dopamines (spelling?) released into the blood stream made me feel better while getting a gentle 'massage from the inside'. Irish

Bella1965 -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 8:23:03 AM)
G'morning all: (Fast Reply) Depends on my mood, which swings a bit during the beginning of my cycle. Sometimes I'm incredibly aroused, other times I can't be bothered and desire just to be cuddled. My boyfriend/submissive has no problem with intercourse during my flow although he prefers that I keep the hole plugged (tampon) during oral. Can't say I blame him. I ruin more towels this way. chuckling As for blood play; sometimes by knife, sometimes by singletail. Knives can be cleansed and sterilized although I have a triple bladed tiger claw that's dedicated to him simply because he gave it to me as a birthday present last year. It's too special and beautiful to share in common play with others. My nylon singletail has removable crackers and one is dedicated solely to him. Between us, nothing is seen as taboo. He's probably the most open, realistic and communicative man I've ever been with. There are hard limits we share that are taboo by their very nature. Otherwise, it's all spiffy. Stay safe, play nice, & share your toys w/ others... [:D] Bella

worththeeffort -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 8:31:34 AM)
Personally, sex during that time of the month is something i enjoy. Mainly for the same reasons everyone else has stated, cramp relief, endorphins and the like. i've been with people who loved it, people who hated it. Since i'm no hornier than usual during my period than usual, it's no biggie for me. If they don't wanna play, i'll play with myself lol. It's not a fetish or anything, just part of the reality of being a woman. shrugs Now as for regular blood and sex, hell yes!! So hot! But then again, regular blood is never chunky (eww, i know) so maybe that makes a difference. ;-) lol ~kitty

GhitaAmati -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 8:33:03 AM)
If we refused to have sex during that time of the month...Id have gone months without having sex!....I used to have two periods a month and they each lasted around 12 days...it was awful....so other than adding dark colored towel and a shower after sex...it never really stopped us. And, as Ive mentioned on other threads, im pretty darn dry naturally anyway, for some reason I just dont produce moisture down there...so hell....that time of the month is the only time we can have sex without the KY.... We;ve fixed most of that issue now though...down to bleeding for 2 days once a month.....and sex definantly does allieviate the cramps, but I dont know that sex alone does anything to alleviate the mood issues...that takes more of a beating.....

SimplyMichael -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 9:10:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch Once, Michael and I were in a hotel room in San Jose and I started menstruating... The room ended up looking like a crime scene. It was apropos to the "game" we were playing at the time at least! (We left a REALLY big tip with a note apologizing for the mess too...) I had blood from ear to ear but oh my god it was amazing...

goodgirl85 -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 10:23:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: willowspirit Bonus ! Guess what?... No cramping. Bloating disappeared within TWO hours! My moods evened out. Tension released. What a bunch of great side effects from a good reaming! Yes yes, sex during your period does help ease cramps and such because it helps to massage the muscles. I have in the past when alone and had really bad cramps, after a shower, used a vibrator, on a very low setting, not to get off but to help. I have had sex during my period, once or twice. To me the whole "no panties" thing doesn't bother me. Its called tampons. Luckily I don't have many periods, as I'm on the depo provera shot. But there's also anal for those times as well.

LadyLynx -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 10:29:32 AM)
well I can't wear tampons for various reasons....And plus I have mostly male bosses, just can't get away with going to the bathroom every hour/hour and half..........GA 12 days?! twice a month?! yikes!!!! lucklily my period doesn't usually last more then 3 days and I usually don't get cramps past the day before/1st day.

Missokyst -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 12:02:03 PM)
It doesn't bother me at all. It is just a tad sticky though. It isn't a turn on,or off in general to any man I have lived with. Sex is good no matter when, or what kind of timing. I can't see it as an empowering thing mostly because having a period is no big deal to me. Kyst

Prinsexx -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 12:12:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Gwynvyd I love the hell out of just pound the hell out of me, make my teeth rattle kind of sex when mine is comming on or just started up. It makes my cramps go away, and all the ickey emotional stuff hasnt a chance beacuse of the endorphins. yes I did say on the vore post how much I enjoyed sex during 'moontime''''how fab is that term? I just think it's a vestige of being on heat and fertile...but then es we evolved we hid our fertility moments in mid cycle to kid the men folk and make procreation more of a certainty... but I love it, everything feels more sesitive, any pain goes away and it's an admission of being pure woman....from my perspective, which I suppose is feminist...why does the world behave as if menstruation does not exist and want to make it invisible.... yes to the mood swings, yes to the hormonal changes and yes.....i am way past the age when i should still be menstuating but the pain and the sex well it just seems to keep me going.... as to blood play...I admit to like being bitten and the inside of the thighs is best as that can be hidden...would love to be cut on underside of breasts or inside of thighs and have a major fantasy of Him running his tongue along the red line... however blood play and sex during mennses definitely far more of a health risk that it was...........

hsspode -> RE: Blood and sex, do they mix? (10/11/2007 12:12:42 PM)
I think the first time I ever had sex with a gal during that time will be my last. I was 15 and she was 16, the lights were off and all was good. As we ened she turned on the lights and to our suprise it was a mess... Wasn't a good start to that whole situation.

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