Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme)

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bootw0rshipJT -> Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/8/2007 1:49:23 PM)
I was just wondering if these 'role play' scenes you tend to see sometimes, involving say, the boss (domme) and the worker (sub) or maybe a friend you've known ,to one day dominate you.....are these scenes mostly fiction or have people had experiences where an unexpected moment like these actually happened? I only ask because, i've always wanted to be dominated by this women at work - i know in reality it's extremly unlikely, but the fantasy keeps popping up in my head, and was wondering today if this kind of thing has ever happened to anyone ?? JT

laurell3 -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/8/2007 1:52:24 PM)
I feel like I'm being dominated every time I take my car in for repairs, does that count? l

bootw0rshipJT -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/8/2007 2:05:03 PM)
No

holdmykeyplease -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/8/2007 2:08:23 PM)
Well - i did have a girlfriend once who turned out to be fairly kinky. She would tie me up and boss me around. Also, when she saw how aroused i became when she did this sort of thing, she guessed that i was submissive and began to refer to me as "doggy" - i loved it! But she left me :(

Babybass -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/8/2007 2:15:39 PM)
Before I realised I was submissive I was PA to a guy that used tell me what to get each day for my lunch while i was out getting his. We both loved it - and he would check that I had obeyed!! There were other little things that he controlled also - but at the time i didn't notice. Don't know why that didn't tip me off that I may just be submissive - hmmmm!!!

eastcoastgal -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/8/2007 5:02:44 PM)
One of my male friends has a fairly dominant personality and usually I am just as sassy back but every once in a while he will catch me off guard and tell me to do something....nonsexual of course (he is just a friend)... and i will actually do it. It surprises me as much as it surprises him and neither of us really knows how to handle it.....i just think its funny how our personalities will come out in public even though we don't mean them to.

therealboss -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/14/2007 8:27:18 AM)
i dominate and humiliate my boss at work,am i enjoy it too

bipolarber -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/14/2007 10:55:06 AM)
Dear Penthouse, I never thought this would happen to me... Sure. This kind of thing happens. Hell, the newspapers are full of incidents of teachers seducing students, and vice versa. People who have been pressured into having sex with someone rather than losing their apartment, or to get a better grade, or a promotion... it's called sexual harassment. But of course, not all of those incidents get reported, or end up in the news, or reported to the supreme court during confirmation hearings. Sometimes, this sort of thing happens, and both parties are perfectly happy with the situation. (a truisim that drives HR folk insane.) Myself, I got pulled into a several month long enslavement to a pair of gay men when I lost my first job and apartment. I suppose you could really list this as being more of a "trade." During the day, I searched for a job, and at night, I served them in whatever way they desired. When they were through with me for the evening, I had a place to sleep. It was far better than sleeping in my car. Once I was back on my feet, I left. But we're all still friends to this day.

CollegeConundrum -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/23/2007 1:12:05 PM)
If you don't know them, thats called assault.

stef -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/23/2007 1:16:43 PM)
Whether or not you know them has absolutely nothing to do with whether it is or isn't assault. ~stef

colouredin -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/23/2007 1:17:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: CollegeConundrum If you don't know them, thats called assault. Technically speaking being spanked is assult (people cant consent to being hit in a legal sense) but in this case im sure your wrong, having sex with someone you dont know isnt rape is it its only rape when its against your will!!! the same is true in this case

lateralist1 -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/23/2007 1:46:31 PM)
Not really but I did smack a woman lightly on her bottom at work. I was absolutely terrified afterwards that she would see it as sexual harrassment. She just turned and smiled at me. She was a friend who knew I was a Domme. I now know how difficult it must be for men to learn not to do things like that. We are the people who we are and sometimes it comes out inappropriately. Tolerance of others has to be the name of the game sometimes even in the work place. I used to dominate and humiliate the men in the office all the time when they wouldn't do their fair share of the menial tasks like washing up and making the coffee. I once got the area manager to make coffee for everyone in the office on one of his visits. However he got me the sack. But I had my moment of glory lol

RRafe -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/23/2007 3:07:24 PM)
[;)]Yes,but I paid them off and got rid of them.

kirby104 -> RE: Ever been dominated by someone you know (other than a partner or domme) (10/24/2007 12:51:00 AM)
I would hope so.

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