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came4U -> RE: Little Black Books (10/8/2007 10:26:41 AM)

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Technology makes it very easy for people to cheat.


oh oh, I guess I f*k guys so old and unhip that they still use a pen and paper.




junecleaver -> RE: Little Black Books (10/8/2007 10:57:31 AM)

After a break up, it always made me feel good to know there were guys who did want to date me and I had their numbers to boot. 

I adore and love my Dominant to pieces, but it STILL makes me feel good to be wanted by other guys even if I have no interest in them.  Call me vain. [;)]  




came4U -> RE: Little Black Books (10/8/2007 11:02:32 AM)

My former booty call has a live in gf now and he is faithful to her.

If it ever didn't work out, his single friend has my phone # on his cell.

We have a no-contact policy.  I won't disrupt his new life and he won't call to get me all sexcited by even bothering to start up anything we had before.

I'm bad..I really want them to break up so we can again be separate yet single and I am back on his speed dial LOL.  It was thaaaaaat good. sigh.





YourhandMyAss -> RE: Little Black Books (10/8/2007 12:30:34 PM)

Sure I can. he lets me acces any part of his life I want and tells me strait up if I have questions what's what. Do I? No. I don't feel the need to.
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ORIGINAL: AAkasha
You can't grab his phone and go through his address book asking who people are.  Akasha





JasonF -> RE: Little Black Books (10/8/2007 7:58:25 PM)

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After a break up, it always made me feel good to know there were guys who did want to date me and I had their numbers to boot. 

I adore and love my Dominant to pieces, but it STILL makes me feel good to be wanted by other guys even if I have no interest in them.  Call me vain. [;)]  


I believe what you're saying is that I haven't done enough degradation play with you yet ;).


As far as a black book goes... eh... I've always been the one to pour my heart and soul into a relationship from day one until I find out it works or doesn't... I don't like holding back :).




slaverosebeauty -> RE: Little Black Books (10/8/2007 8:12:17 PM)

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ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl
how many involved in the lifestyle have little black books and if so, how it affects the way they relate to potential partners?


I have guy friends who are involved in M/s and who I know would be interested in taking things further if my current relationship broke up; yet, they are bound by their Honour Code to keep things platonic and on the level. MJ started as a friend, I guess you can say He was in my 'little black book' at one time.

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How do you think it would affect you knowing if one relationship didn't work out, all you had to do was make a phone call?


I take my relationships seriously; I am monagumous and I am faithfull. If my current relationship didn't work out, the call I would make would be to my bestfriend for some girl talk. As for calling any guy friends, most of tem would have that 'sence' and I would get calls; I talk to most of my guy friends on a regular basis anyways.  

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Do you think it's a good idea? Why or why not?


I believe in monagumous relationships; I do not belive in poly relationships even if they are consensual.  That's me. So having a list of potential partners sounds like vague poly and cheating.  I focus on my current relationship an I let the Fates handle the future.




needDomme -> RE: Little Black Books (10/8/2007 10:20:13 PM)

Just wondering, what is meant by a booty call??

need




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