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DocRudy -> RE: naming (10/5/2007 8:16:22 PM)

Well, part of the confusion I have is that naming your slave should be a very personal decision based on your own feelings towards said slave.

Emphasis on personal.

Meaning (to me at least) the effort to have the answer come from you is tainted once you start asking other people. Then the answer doesn't come from you as much as it does from the community around you.

-DR




MySweetSubmssive -> RE: naming (10/5/2007 9:51:37 PM)

When I'm pleased with someone, I address him as "puppy."  It's not a name so much as an endearment.  With one person, my pet name for him was poppet.  It expressed my affection and his (enjoyable) belittlement.

I can see how some people might have a submissive space name -- when being addressed with this name, it would be an indication of entering into a D/s dynamic.  It would be a temporary shift.  I've never done that, but it would be an interesting device.

When I think of naming someone, though, I think of something more serious and committed.  You would arrive at your submissive's name through your experiences together and your knowledge of her.  It's a personal process.

MSS




OrionTheWolf -> RE: naming (10/5/2007 10:52:05 PM)

Words have psychological power. With this said find several sites with names and their meaning. Look at the meanings and then the name. The meaning of the name and the sound should reach out to you intuitively when you find it.

Orion




LATEXBABY64 -> RE: naming (10/5/2007 11:14:32 PM)

i just use curtisy names it shows class and respect




RCdc -> RE: naming (10/8/2007 7:06:47 AM)

I still disagree. Maybe you see posts as they apply to everyone - and that is the difference between you and I becaue I can only give a response as something is and means to me - not anyone else.
 
People talking about finding names is cool.  I just believe it's commen sense really to know where to look.  When I named my children, I just looked through names. But the naming itself is personal.
 
You are the one naming the question as possibly 'stupid', not I nor anyone else as far as I read - you are reading far further into peoples responses than are there.
 
the.dark.




TotalState -> RE: naming (10/8/2007 8:11:06 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

I would consider his post to this message board part of "rudimentary obligatory research".  The internet is after all a great tool for doing research.  He was asking for ideas on something specific and help.   He did not ask for other to actually Name this girl, but for ideas.   Ideas are just a pool to draw upon and make decision.   Hell, people do the same thing when trying to come up with a name for their new born baby.  Matter of fact there are books and articles written regarding the meaning of Names, just for people to name their baby.   People go to Borders or Barnes and Nobles to buy such books even.   I suppose they should have no business having a Baby, if one is to prescribe this this lines of thinking?



And I say, that when it comes to internet research, people are amazingly lazy.  He didn't do any of the google searches you did.  Hell, he didn't even search this forum or generally read it to see what an individual process domination is.

And just for the record, people who'd write a similar thread to do 'research' on a name for their baby get even more scorn from me.


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ORIGINAL: Owner4SexSlave

Also, what's wrong with asking random strangers for thoughts and ideas regarding something?  Again, this is only asking for input on a matter, and not asking a stranger to make a decision or choice for oneself.   The OP did not say, I want somebody to name name my slave because I can't.   He simply asked for ideas, and not for somebody to make up his mind for him.



There's nothing wrong with telling him that he's being lazy, and that he should figure it out for himself either, is it?  I didn't call him any names, nor was I abusive towards him.  I think you should grow a bit thicker skin before you get this worked up about what some random stranger is saying on the internet. 




lonlyrossInNeed -> RE: naming (10/8/2007 9:04:56 AM)

Look for traits that she has things that she will do and then pick a name from there :)

puppy




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